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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Making my first visit to a club tonight. Am a single male so going with no expectations and will just see how the night goes.
People have said just be myself but anyone got any tips to ease the nerves and help me to fit in?
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over a year ago
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Don't lurk! Smile at people and be friendly.
I go alone and the thing that puts me off most is guys hanging round looking shifty. All that's missing is the flasher mack!
I've met lots of lovely people just by chatting and being normal, no expectations just go with the flow. Hope you have a great time ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes, thanks will have to move a little out of my comfort zone as I normally am the quiet one in the corner!
All this is new to me so hopefully find some friendly people to chat to and take me under their wings ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great advice Rowena2 i go by myself and chat to different couples or other singles and a good night is had by all,even if nothing happens,there is always next time you see them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well thanks everyone for all the advice. Just got home from a great night. Only mistake is I got there too early but once everyone else arrived was made to feel welcome and got involved.
Great staff at Adam & Eves, everyone really friendly and encouraged to take an active part.
To anyone who is a little nervous like I was, just go for it move out of that comfort zone and you WILL enjoy. |
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