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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No point having someone else's words in your message. It doesn't reflect you, then what's the point. I could give you the best opening message ever, but its not your personality or thoughts. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No point having someone else's words in your message. It doesn't reflect you, then what's the point. I could give you the best opening message ever, but its not your personality or thoughts. "
Dont care if it doesnt reflect me. Tell me about this line lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think the best opening lines are to use here, I always feel boring when I use, 'Hey how are you?' or something along those lines
Fancy a fook "
Oh you appear to have sphelt fuck wrong ! ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most common I get is ... I like your profile ... But they clearly haven't taken any notice of it !!! ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) " I get this quite a lot, some have read mine but most dont |
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
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"Was more of a general guidance, or how many people use hey how are you... is that a standard way to break the ice"
no its a pain you need something that says you have read the profile we just delete messages where guys dont bother ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What else would you say to someone you dont know?? Your hardly going to spill your guts out to a stranger and tell them all about you in real life so why is it expected here? A nice 'hello how are you' is just fine then take it from there, not having a go at anyone but sometimes feels like expectations on here are unrealistic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really like it when someone has evidently read my profile and hints a reference or two in the opening message.
Keep it short and light and add a little wit ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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