"So why can't you beat an older woman? What makes you assume she is experienced?"
well said.
Women are women, old, young and inbetween the all have something to recommend them.
I have seen a lot of comments recently that are like a backlash against older women, bingo, zimmer frames etc etc. they are just as unrealistic as the comments about us all being experienced, knowing what we want and sexy. Some fit into those stereoptypes but most are somewhere in between |
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I think this view is pretty similar with most other stereotypes really. I thought the same to be honest, I'll admit that but swinging, going to clubs etc has taught me so much about people in general. You can't judge them by their cover.
But having said that one of the best things about arranging a meet and then meeting someone is the build up, the anticipation, the excitement, the fantasizing and all of that is based on something that most of the time isn't true and turns out in fact to be something different.
I still have a preference for 'mature' women but that's because every time I generally do find them far more attractive and I can have a proper conversation with them. Again, it may be a preference thing or may be just the type of people I meet!
All i am trying to say is always keep and open opinion, swinging, to me anyway, is about trying new things, and constantly challenging your own views of people. |
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"I think this view is pretty similar with most other stereotypes really. I thought the same to be honest, I'll admit that but swinging, going to clubs etc has taught me so much about people in general. You can't judge them by their cover.
But having said that one of the best things about arranging a meet and then meeting someone is the build up, the anticipation, the excitement, the fantasizing and all of that is based on something that most of the time isn't true and turns out in fact to be something different.
I still have a preference for 'mature' women but that's because every time I generally do find them far more attractive and I can have a proper conversation with them. Again, it may be a preference thing or may be just the type of people I meet!
All i am trying to say is always keep and open opinion, swinging, to me anyway, is about trying new things, and constantly challenging your own views of people. "
An interesting response. I agree with much of what you say.
I wonder if the mature women that are attracted to this lifestyle will by definition be a certain type and that's why the men who have met them hold the opinion that you do. |
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"I think this view is pretty similar with most other stereotypes really. I thought the same to be honest, I'll admit that but swinging, going to clubs etc has taught me so much about people in general. You can't judge them by their cover.
But having said that one of the best things about arranging a meet and then meeting someone is the build up, the anticipation, the excitement, the fantasizing and all of that is based on something that most of the time isn't true and turns out in fact to be something different.
I still have a preference for 'mature' women but that's because every time I generally do find them far more attractive and I can have a proper conversation with them. Again, it may be a preference thing or may be just the type of people I meet!
All i am trying to say is always keep and open opinion, swinging, to me anyway, is about trying new things, and constantly challenging your own views of people.
An interesting response. I agree with much of what you say.
I wonder if the mature women that are attracted to this lifestyle will by definition be a certain type and that's why the men who have met them hold the opinion that you do."
I hate to admit it but I think you may be right. I say hate because I genuinely believe that variety is the spice of life, but my experiences do suggest a similarity amongst the nature of those whom I have been lucky to meet. |
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I hate to admit it but I think you may be right. I say hate because I genuinely believe that variety is the spice of life, but my experiences do suggest a similarity amongst the nature of those whom I have been lucky to meet. "
 why do you hate to admit it? |
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"How old do you class as old, maybe I better get a Zimmer frame  "
I'm 6 years older than you and I class myself as mature/older whatever description people want to use ...except milf or cougar please. But I'm certainly not ready fro a zimmer ...you've got a lot of catching up to do  |
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I hate to admit it but I think you may be right. I say hate because I genuinely believe that variety is the spice of life, but my experiences do suggest a similarity amongst the nature of those whom I have been lucky to meet.
why do you hate to admit it? "
Well because I set out swinging to look for and try different things but as you suggest I may not be achieving that! I may need to mix things up a little and take my own advice and try other things! |
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Been swinging for 2 and a half years now, before that went many years with nothing, so I am having a fantastic time and making up for the years where I went without, no way am I ready for the Zimmer frames or incontinence pads just yet, am enjoying myself to much to give it up just yet.. |
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