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By *25R7 OP Man 11 weeks ago
Newcastle upon tyne |
Probably a topic that has been brought up multiple times with very similar scenarios I would imagine.
So it’s the male speaking here and the general difference between myself and my oh is relatively everything is gaping, however we are absolutely 100% in love and have been from being kids (got together at 15 and now around 20 years in)
Now as above we are completely different in the majority of aspects I’m more of an extrovert and boundary pusher, I’m fairly successful in work etc and can never just settle.
She is a beautiful woman with exceptional qualities however she is definitely more reserved and conservative with just going to work, coming home and watching the soaps and crashing out.
I’m fine with this however I am extremely frustrated inside the bedroom, she is very vanilla and for 10years I gave the lady what she wanted but I found all it was doing was frustrating me, so a few year back I introduced her to my fantasies and to be fair she got into it albeit just for me, we visited a few clubs however we were strict with exclusivity as that’s what she wanted, problem is I don’t believe in that jive. Never had and never ever will. Anyways after a few visits she kinda fell right back into vanilla and now it’s driving me up the wall to the point where I can’t even be bothered with sex, best way I can explain it is it’s like reading a book that you’ve read 100 times over.
I love this woman I really do but It really is becoming Groundhog Day for me and it’s driving me nuts.
Any other couples etc have any similar experiences with one leading the way into the scene and the other not being sure about it or having different views etc |
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