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New member, seems like I am too young for everybody I meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because their profiles have the age thing that says 25-50 or whatever?
I know I'm not Brad Pitt or anything I don't mean it like that."
Top tip - search for those looking for 19 year olds!
Will avoid bumping into incompatible profiles!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The age probably isn't as much of an issue as the absence of any pictures and more details about yourself and exactly what it is you are 'into'.
Try to think about it from the perspective that women on here often get hundreds of messages per day, a huge proportion of which will be from single men. Therefore you have to distinguish yourself in order to be noticed. It might sound a little brutal/unfair but it is the nature of the beast that is FAB.
Finally, it can just be your situation- such as being unable to accommodate. For many women that will indicate either: a) cheating or b) -and more likely given your age- he lives with parents. Neither of which make you an attractive proposition.
This isn't my way of having a go at you, but just think about it from a 'buyer's perspective' and how you would approach your profile if it were one in a range of hundreds of better completed profiles. |
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I didn't even get to your profile, I saw "19 year old lad, doesn't really know what he's doing" and closed the window.
Some people enjoy showing newbies the ropes but as a lot have limited time to meet, they're not going to want to spend their time training you up when they can have their pick of people who are confident about their experience.
I'm not bashing your experience, but you have to think about how you can make yourself stand out to your "target market", so to speak. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is the issue, it's your shop window, would you want to meet someone that says "I don't know what I'm doing".
Look around the site, check out other men's profiles and see what you're up against and READ the forum & FAQs? You'd have already known what people have told you if you'd bothered to do that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 19 and it seems like I'm too young for most of the women on here. Anyone else have this problem?"
When your question is longer than your profile, it ain't gonna do you any favours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another thing is there are lots of guys that are players or time wasters on the site, unfortunately they are mainly the younger guys, want the chat talk dirty then when it comes down to fixing a meet they bale, also just on for a thrill and free pics xx  |
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"Another thing is there are lots of guys that are players or time wasters on the site, unfortunately they are mainly the younger guys, want the chat talk dirty then when it comes down to fixing a meet they bale, also just on for a thrill and free pics xx "
I agree. Iv seen many do that..i just dont get why they do that? Whats the point? |
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"I didn't even get to your profile, I saw "19 year old lad, doesn't really know what he's doing" and closed the window.
Some people enjoy showing newbies the ropes but as a lot have limited time to meet, they're not going to want to spend their time training you up when they can have their pick of people who are confident about their experience.
I'm not bashing your experience, but you have to think about how you can make yourself stand out to your "target market", so to speak. x"
Exactly  The lack of photos and lack of information on your profile is the issue. When you have addressed this simply restrict your searches to people within your age range. Good Luck |
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