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Sounds like a direct train to a mental breakdown. You might believe you're able to compartmentalise into infinity.
Trust me. You can't. You will hit breaking point at some point. Whether their partner finds out or not might vary. But your relationship won't last. |
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There are quite a few people in here whose partners aren't aware. Some of them do genuinely believe that it improves their relationship and who am I to say it doesn't, I have no idea what goes on in their lives.
I do suspect that if they're found out any improvement might diminish rapidly... |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"The funny thing about cheating is that women actually cheat more, men just tend to get caught more frequently. "
Also, on here from what I’ve seen. A woman that’s cheating is seen as desirable by men, and cheating men are desired by less (but there still seems to be a fetish almost for married men too). |
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"The funny thing about cheating is that women actually cheat more, men just tend to get caught more frequently.
Also, on here from what I’ve seen. A woman that’s cheating is seen as desirable by men, and cheating men are desired by less (but there still seems to be a fetish almost for married men too)."
Many men don't care if a woman's married that's true, they see it as a turn on and some even get off thinking they're getting one over on her hubby.
Some, not all women will have empathy for the mans wife and for that reason won't want to meet someone cheating.
Plus married women seem to get on with it quietly and don't feel the need to start threads, inviting comments or looking to justify why they're on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"The funny thing about cheating is that women actually cheat more, men just tend to get caught more frequently.
Also, on here from what I’ve seen. A woman that’s cheating is seen as desirable by men, and cheating men are desired by less (but there still seems to be a fetish almost for married men too).
Many men don't care if a woman's married that's true, they see it as a turn on and some even get off thinking they're getting one over on her hubby.
Some, not all women will have empathy for the mans wife and for that reason won't want to meet someone cheating.
Plus married women seem to get on with it quietly and don't feel the need to start threads, inviting comments or looking to justify why they're on here. "
Pretty much spot on |
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By *JandJJCouple 49 weeks ago
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"Plenty of ladies looking for an extra without their partners knowing. I have no issue with that."
Agree totally, but they don't start threads in the hope of being able to justify their cheating. |
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I've found either the other half playing with permission she had guys not able to accept the scenario as easy as if they thought she was cheating.
Yes could be s turn on thing, but I find it's also true with me playing solo, if I say the Mrs knows and we swing it's just not acceptable or is less accepted with woman, especially on Fab which is a swinging site lol
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"Having been cheated on and knowing friends in the same position, from my experience it just destroys relationships and causes huge future trust issues."
Hurts like hell especially when they still carry on regardless when caught without a care in the world about the damage and pain they caused. As long their ok and satisfied no one else matters  |
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