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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"This is not silly, it's quite normal, from my experience, with men who are not repeaters. I think it stems from the early teenage years when men try to delay their orgasm as much as possible, for a variety of reasons, mostly to do with making sure their partner had enough pleasure. Eventually, this goes the other way, and rather than having to worry about premature ejaculation, they are unable to cum or it takes them ages. Also, many are so used to "self-service", they find it difficult, or even impossible, to cum with a partner.
Explain to your play partner it is not them, it's you. That you are still very much enjoy playing with them.
I find it great, to be honest, when a guy can play for a while without cumming, as long as it's not boring same-position fucking all the time. If they vary things, I get loads of orgasms and to me, it's a win  . And if they do cum with me, I see it as a bonus.
I believe people need educating that, just because someone did not cum with them, it wasn't necessarily because the sex was rubbish.
Also, OP, as long as you don't have any medical conditions that could make staying hard and cumming difficult, you shouldn't need to worry about it. Just explain beforehand. "
I understand, I do mention it to the ladies, and tbh it goes on and on think I have spent about 1 hour or so and still no outcum lol,
Doctors say it could be stress, anxiety, depression and try to give me meds, it just feel like a dead wood |
Even if I have a wank, it's like 30-40 mins 
