Don't go with the expectation that you'll have finished the night having fucked a dozen women.
Be friendly and chatty, but not pushy - if there's a large hot tub (like Vanilla Alterntative where we go) then get naked and get in there. Nudity is a great leveller and hot tubs are a great meeting place! |
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Think of it as a place to meet and be around others who may have similar interests. As with Fab, most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, so the challenge is to engage with enough people to improve your odds of finding the few who match.
Engage with lots and be super sensitive to how others are communicating, not just verbally.
Move around, get seen and aim not to overdo staying with people who may be very polite but not interested in you.
If you're joining a club, it's a long term game, not about instant hits. |
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The etiquette is to be polite and respectful. If you want to be successful in club's you'll need to be chatty just like you would in a normal nightclub. Many Men go home from a club night disappointed, but we see so many Men just walking around a club looking around not making an attempt to interact with people. Most people will be happy to have a chat even if it doesn't lead anywhere. Get chatting early too, we've had guy's start chatting to us near the end of the night, if they'd chatted earlier we likely would have ended up in a room. Don't go with the expectation of playing, at the least you can watch some sexy fun. Also go on a few club nights, if you go to the same club you're more likely to get chatting to people you've seem there before. Good luck. |
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