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Guys pretending to be couple's, why ?
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I had the female telling me to meet the male while she was at work, so she could hear about it. There were no joint pics and no couple verification tick.
Aaaaaaand, I wanted single men, so he/she/they were deleted... And laughed about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a mixture, I get genuine couples reach out but then also ones where it is obviously a guy pretending.
I stick to coming across people in clubs now much easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do massages for a living. Lost count of number of times I've turned up to massage the female of the couple, and she is now not available, and could I just massage the male! The moral is, ask to speak to the lady before meeting. |
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"Such a waste of time chatting to a couple thinking your getting on
Then realise
It's a guy pretending
I don't see what they get out of it  "
You have to take into account that well over 75% of people are timewasters, dreamers, delusional or lonely.
Treat every contact as a timewaster.
If you arrange to meet ask to speak to the female of the couple or if a single female, most definitely a phone call.
If you arrange to meet, go somewhere that's a nice night if its a no show.
Or, just don't do 121, go to clubs or parties.
We've only been stood up once and she was a habitual timewaster as we got friends to contact her from their profile and the same thing applied, all talk and no show and the same excuses.
Its sad really that someone gets a kick out of messing people about but so is life.
Ignore them and move on.
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"Attention
Photos
Wank fodder"
Yup plus they are possibly under the impression that the person or people they con into actually believing them won't mind and one out of a million times, it might work. But it's a shameful tactic and doesn't help reduce the stigma of the single male on swinging or kink circles. |
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