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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone
I went to a swinging club for the very first time last night (Monday) and as a single male.
I had expected no action and was just hoping to have at least some voyeur fun and enjoy the facilities.
I can't believe my luck and I had the best time with a beautiful and kind woman and a another very nice single male.
I'm keen to go again but just wondering is the likelihood of this happening usually low?
What is the best way to approach couples? Yesterday on my way out a couple of couples were sitting around, in silence. I just didn't know what to say.
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Sometimes you just have to chance saying something. If nothing springs to mind then just go over and say hello. You'll very quickly get an idea of how welcome and open they are to you by their response (words and body language). Remember what you actually say is only part of it. The bigger factors is the way you aproach, come across and if you are the sort of guy they are looking for. Oh and don't forget to smile (assuming you have a lovely warm smile and not a sinister serial killer type).
Rarely in a club will people aproach you. So just remember you will always 100% be unsuccessful in every opportunity you don't take. So what have you got to lose by just going over and saying something?
Obviously with the caveat that you do have to read the room and the audience to some extent. For example if their body language and vibe screams out don't talk to us then for heavens sake stay clear. Likewise you need to read when it hasn't worked post introduction and time to move on. However from what you describe probably just a shy couple waiting for some interaction. So sounds like a missed opportunity there. Also the more you start interacting with people the better and smother you get.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wonderful advice, thank you so much.
Noted about the smile. Something I need to work on. I think my natural smile is OK but when nervous and horny probably not. |
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