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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site "
No datea here op. Socials yes. Is not a date it is a gauging mechanism.
Every female? Nice.. To tar us all op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by a dating site? Or are you just using it as a sex site?
What is this site for ? "
Whatever people want it to be op.. Each to our own. |
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"What do you mean by a dating site? Or are you just using it as a sex site?
What is this site for ? "
Well, it's a swing site.
So the default is looking for sex with mutual connection.
Given alot of people find attraction via talking through messages and then a social or two, it's confusing as to why you think people are looking for dating specifically.
Unless what you mean is doing socials feels too much like dating for you? |
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By *heelerMan
over a year ago
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site "
I do agree with your comments seems to have changed since covid before it was messages that were replied to arrange a social and hopefully lead to better things. Its now near on impossible for guys to achieve any of that.Seems to be clubs for meets now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site "
You've been here 2 months. What did you expect. Ladies to fall at your feet with pussy open ready for you. Awwww sorry some like to meet for a social see what you are like and if they feel attracted to you enough to fuck you.
Hope you find all that. Good luck honey |
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
somehwere |
I think everyone is losing some brain cells here . If you read what I said again you’ll understand. I’m tryna say that this is a swinging site right ? So do people use this and treat it as if it’s a dating site. Plus I ain’t boring this site is . Everyone got their own opinion. Prove me if I’m wrong . I’m 6ft 3 hung and dominant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think everyone is losing some brain cells here . If you read what I said again you’ll understand. I’m tryna say that this is a swinging site right ? So do people use this and treat it as if it’s a dating site. Plus I ain’t boring this site is . Everyone got their own opinion. Prove me if I’m wrong . I’m 6ft 3 hung and dominant "
Unfortunately being 6 foot+, and having a big dick isn't the magic formula to getting women to meet you on here, especially if you're entitled and have a bad attitude x |
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
somehwere |
"I think everyone is losing some brain cells here . If you read what I said again you’ll understand. I’m tryna say that this is a swinging site right ? So do people use this and treat it as if it’s a dating site. Plus I ain’t boring this site is . Everyone got their own opinion. Prove me if I’m wrong . I’m 6ft 3 hung and dominant
Unfortunately being 6 foot+, and having a big dick isn't the magic formula to getting women to meet you on here, especially if you're entitled and have a bad attitude x"
Ideally I’m a very nice person but some people need to see that attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think everyone is losing some brain cells here . If you read what I said again you’ll understand. I’m tryna say that this is a swinging site right ? So do people use this and treat it as if it’s a dating site. Plus I ain’t boring this site is . Everyone got their own opinion. Prove me if I’m wrong . I’m 6ft 3 hung and dominant "
No we all have our brain cells even an oldie like me. I dnt want to date anybody and I'm sure a lot don't. But friendships are built on here and usually end up with mutual sex. You are a fine looking man I dnt think you have a problem. But not everyone wants to fuck the first man they meet. What if you arranged a hotel meet and you got there and found you didn't want to. Would you go ahead regardless or leave. The social eliminates that awkwardness. You meet. Chat establish if you want more. That's it result. Not a date just a social |
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site
I do agree with your comments seems to have changed since covid before it was messages that were replied to arrange a social and hopefully lead to better things. Its now near on impossible for guys to achieve any of that.Seems to be clubs for meets now."
Exactly !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site "
So in the two months you’ve been on the site it’s fallen off? Hmm |
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site
So in the two months you’ve been on the site it’s fallen off? Hmm"
Yup reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think everyone is losing some brain cells here . If you read what I said again you’ll understand. I’m tryna say that this is a swinging site right ? So do people use this and treat it as if it’s a dating site. Plus I ain’t boring this site is . Everyone got their own opinion. Prove me if I’m wrong . I’m 6ft 3 hung and dominant
Unfortunately being 6 foot+, and having a big dick isn't the magic formula to getting women to meet you on here, especially if you're entitled and have a bad attitude x
Ideally I’m a very nice person but some people need to see that attitude "
You may well be, unfortunately your comments on here and on your profile don't portray you in that light
Like many have said personality is just as important as looks, if not more
I like to chat a lot before I meet someone just because I would like to know if we will actually get on and have anything in common plus i have had bad experiences so i need to build that trust ...
Thankfully the men I have met understand that and wouldn't class me as a timewaster or make nasty comments about me because of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging" "
Just read. Yep I think your right |
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging" "
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging |
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
somehwere |
"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging" "
I’m guessing your here to find a serious life partner lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging "
No one said it is a dating site but that doesn't mean people should completely avoid engaging in conversation with someone who they're potentionally going to play with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
I’m guessing your here to find a serious life partner lol "
Far from it, but I do have conversations with my playmates and treat them like human beings not toys to be used and discarded. |
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging
No one said it is a dating site but that doesn't mean people should completely avoid engaging in conversation with someone who they're potentionally going to play with "
Well this is what I mean !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging
No one said it is a dating site but that doesn't mean people should completely avoid engaging in conversation with someone who they're potentionally going to play with
Well this is what I mean !!! "
So you want to meet someone on here without having any form of conversation with them before hand?
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
I’m guessing your here to find a serious life partner lol
You ain’t getting the point
Far from it, but I do have conversations with my playmates and treat them like human beings not toys to be used and discarded."
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By *dam779 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging
No one said it is a dating site but that doesn't mean people should completely avoid engaging in conversation with someone who they're potentionally going to play with
Well this is what I mean !!!
So you want to meet someone on here without having any form of conversation with them before hand?
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If you read my profile you’ll understand plus u higlied a specific part which sums everything up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging
No one said it is a dating site but that doesn't mean people should completely avoid engaging in conversation with someone who they're potentionally going to play with
Well this is what I mean !!!
So you want to meet someone on here without having any form of conversation with them before hand?
If you read my profile you’ll understand plus u higlied a specific part which sums everything up "
I read your profile and I highlighted a part of it that is relevant to the conversation that we are having . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyway you clearly have all the answers so not sure why you started this topic when you clearly just want to argue with everyone who responds.
Happy fabbing and have a good day x |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"What do you mean by a dating site? Or are you just using it as a sex site?
What is this site for ?
Well, it's a swing site.
So the default is looking for sex with mutual connection.
Given alot of people find attraction via talking through messages and then a social or two, it's confusing as to why you think people are looking for dating specifically.
Unless what you mean is doing socials feels too much like dating for you? "
I agree with this
A social doesn't mean someone wants to date ,but people want to meet safely .
Some will meet and get straight to it & others will want to establish a connection and meet someone In a public place first .
Not all women want to date from here ,but I've seen men who do want to also.
If a woman wants to chat for a while ,then meet for a drink & you don't,then you're not for each other ,it's a good filter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging "
Oooooh is it. Damn better get off here then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging
No one said it is a dating site but that doesn't mean people should completely avoid engaging in conversation with someone who they're potentionally going to play with
Well this is what I mean !!! "
What is OP? PLEASE EXPLAIN |
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"Sorry but the hottest man on the planet could message me but this on his profile would put me right off
"Talking for to long just get to the point when messaging"
Well as I said it’s not a dating site I ain’t here to get married ? I think everyone here agrees . It’s swinging "
Why can’t it be used to find others to date? It’s a swingers site so the best place to find someone on the same wavelength, for me others who attend clubs. Everyone uses fab however they wish. I know plenty of people who’ve met and even married from meeting on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think everyone is losing some brain cells here . If you read what I said again you’ll understand. I’m tryna say that this is a swinging site right ? So do people use this and treat it as if it’s a dating site. Plus I ain’t boring this site is . Everyone got their own opinion. Prove me if I’m wrong . I’m 6ft 3 hung and dominant "
What is your definition of Hung OP. IM afraid 6ft 3 dominant and hung doesn't guarantee you daily fucks. A personality and a little respect for women usually helps. But you appear to have non. |
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There are a great deal of whiny men on here who think that because they’re on a swinging site they are somehow guaranteed a shag.
I see many successful men of all different types and I’m guessing they have a few things in common - that they are polite; they make an effort to converse; they’re non-pushy and they’re reliable. |
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"I think everyone is losing some brain cells here . If you read what I said again you’ll understand. I’m tryna say that this is a swinging site right ? So do people use this and treat it as if it’s a dating site. Plus I ain’t boring this site is . Everyone got their own opinion. Prove me if I’m wrong . I’m 6ft 3 hung and dominant "
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It's a swinging site for people to meet whoever they want to or are attracted to. It's not mandatory for anyone to want to meet you or be attracted to you.
Make yourself more appealing as your profile does nothing for you. Read it carefully more than once and put yourself in the position of another person reading it for the first time. See if it is appealing, if not then tweek it until it is.
Also go back through the messages that you have sent and see if you could have worded them better.
Leave out the bit about humiliating the husband, a lot of couples do not have that on their wish list and if you tried to do that to the wrong male without it being previously agreed, then you may end up on the floor regardless of your size.
Leave out the macho bullshit. No one is impressed or cares that you are 6'3" hung and dominant.
That's only important to you and maybe to your mates in the pub, not to anyone else on here. |
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By *empusMan
over a year ago
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I’ve been on here 10 months so don’t know what it used to be like but I have to disagree...
It’s not a dating site, I am nothing special but I do get offers of nsa sex when I am looking for it and put a bit of effort in.
It’s definitely not boring on here either. I’ve had the best sex of my life since joining and have lost count of the number of firsts I have ticked off. Cumming in a little hotties willing ass last week was not boring at all 
Wish I joined years ago!
Good luck though, op. Ain’t looked at your profile but if that pic is recent then surely you’re going to do alright on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site "
I agree.
And as a power trip platform. |
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"Is it me or has this site just fell off . It’s impossible to meet and every female is basically using this as a dating site
So in the two months you’ve been on the site it’s fallen off? Hmm
Yup reality "
Before this site "fell off" did you have lots of meets ? |
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