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BBC or interracial... What's the problem?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, thanks for that! We get called racist an all sorts. I don't see how it's racist but someone always pops up and gets offended (usually white people lol) |
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"Hey, thanks for that! We get called racist an all sorts. I don't see how it's racist but someone always pops up and gets offended (usually white people lol) "
From reading the forums I've noticed it's usually white people who get offended by the term BBC I guess just trying to prove how woke they are.
I'm sure most black guys are happy to use the term BBC if it helps them get laid! |
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"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
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Your body, your life your choices…. You shouldn’t ever have to explain or defend your choices.
I did see a forum thread a while ago and there were a few black guys saying they didn’t like being referred to as BBC. But I don’t think the majority have an issue with it. |
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"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
Your body, your life your choices…. You shouldn’t ever have to explain or defend your choices.
I did see a forum thread a while ago and there were a few black guys saying they didn’t like being referred to as BBC. But I don’t think the majority have an issue with it. "
I can understand how it might be annoying for some black guys as they have to live up to the expectation that all black men are well hung.
If I was black I would be trading on the BBC thing to get my wick wet even if I was hung like a gerbil |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
Your body, your life your choices…. You shouldn’t ever have to explain or defend your choices.
I did see a forum thread a while ago and there were a few black guys saying they didn’t like being referred to as BBC. But I don’t think the majority have an issue with it. "
After we get a shitty comment we usually look at their profile and the white guys that get angry mostly have the smallest dicks... Go figure haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
Your body, your life your choices…. You shouldn’t ever have to explain or defend your choices.
I did see a forum thread a while ago and there were a few black guys saying they didn’t like being referred to as BBC. But I don’t think the majority have an issue with it.
I can understand how it might be annoying for some black guys as they have to live up to the expectation that all black men are well hung.
If I was black I would be trading on the BBC thing to get my wick wet even if I was hung like a gerbil"
Never seen a black guy hung like a gerbil to be fair haha... It's mostly the white guys that have tiny dicks lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s your choice, ignore everyone enjoy what you want to enjoy!
It’s not our thing but why spoil someone’s else’s fun?
Good luck guys wish you the best on the hunt!  "
Thank you so much for this! Sometimes the hate gets to us, we're totally the opposite of racist.
Your comment made us feel not so weird xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A pet hate of mine is when someone creates a forum thread and it gets hijacked by guys spamming with comments about television stations etc usualt tired old jokes."
I know right!! That's the usual response... It's like we've attacked their man hood... So bizarre |
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"A pet hate of mine is when someone creates a forum thread and it gets hijacked by guys spamming with comments about television stations etc usualt tired old jokes.
I know right!! That's the usual response... It's like we've attacked their man hood... So bizarre "
Lol you have. Just messing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A pet hate of mine is when someone creates a forum thread and it gets hijacked by guys spamming with comments about television stations etc usualt tired old jokes.
I know right!! That's the usual response... It's like we've attacked their man hood... So bizarre
Lol you have. Just messing"
Haha!! It's not our fault they can't compete |
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"A pet hate of mine is when someone creates a forum thread and it gets hijacked by guys spamming with comments about television stations etc usualt tired old jokes.
I know right!! That's the usual response... It's like we've attacked their man hood... So bizarre
Lol you have. Just messing
Haha!! It's not our fault they can't compete "
I'm sure you will have plenty of offers and if a few people are offended by the use of the term BBC they can take it up with pornhub |
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By *oufouCouple
over a year ago
Somerset |
"Thank you so much for this! Sometimes the hate gets to us, we're totally the opposite of racist. Your comment made us feel not so weird xx"
Perhaps it isn’t hate?
My father was black, my mother white. I grew up in Nigeria and have lived in the UK for twenty years. And yet I’m regularly called a ‘foreigner’ by ignorant people in our local supermarket.
I guess my point is that racism is a fact of life for some of us. And many (unfortunately) have an experienced and nuanced understanding of what it looks like.
I also appreciate many want to perpetuate racial stereotypes in service of their fantasy life… personally I am much more interested in the person than the colour of their skin. |
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By *oufouCouple
over a year ago
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"We don’t actively look for bbc but have meet a couple and to be honest never thought it’s offensive perhaps best seeing what the black guys say "
The black guys who are well endowed probably won’t mind. And the far larger majority who are average or less will probably be too embarrassed to speak up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don’t actively look for bbc but have meet a couple and to be honest never thought it’s offensive perhaps best seeing what the black guys say
The black guys who are well endowed probably won’t mind. And the far larger majority who are average or less will probably be too embarrassed to speak up. "
Think your 100% on that |
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"Thank you so much for this! Sometimes the hate gets to us, we're totally the opposite of racist. Your comment made us feel not so weird xx
Perhaps it isn’t hate?
My father was black, my mother white. I grew up in Nigeria and have lived in the UK for twenty years. And yet I’m regularly called a ‘foreigner’ by ignorant people in our local supermarket.
I guess my point is that racism is a fact of life for some of us. And many (unfortunately) have an experienced and nuanced understanding of what it looks like.
I also appreciate many want to perpetuate racial stereotypes in service of their fantasy life… personally I am much more interested in the person than the colour of their skin. "
^^ I wholly concur |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
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. There is no problem as far as I am concerned it’s your profile and your preference so do things your way and forget the rest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your life do what you want.. but it's just simply that lots of folk don't like the black thing.. that's just the way it is .. call it what you like.. many just don't like it .. people have tastes.. some like one thing others don't and like the opposite.. human nature. You can't force individuals to like something they just inherently don't like .. lol
In addition a great many many people are pretty sick to the back teeth of all this colour based pc social conditioning by the media. Some other people have more back bone and stand up for their preferences and rights to that preference.
Just move on with your own life. |
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Well I'm a white guy and I love the idea of a single or married woman wanting BBC
I find it such a turn on.
Love watching the videos on here of porn with white females taking big black cock.
Would love to watch for real if any ladies fancy letting me watch.
Message me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
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Its rifeon here. I got called the "P " by a scatt yesterday on here.
We kmw where the real issue lays!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
Your body, your life your choices…. You shouldn’t ever have to explain or defend your choices.
I did see a forum thread a while ago and there were a few black guys saying they didn’t like being referred to as BBC. But I don’t think the majority have an issue with it.
After we get a shitty comment we usually look at their profile and the white guys that get angry mostly have the smallest dicks... Go figure haha"
the head needs sorting. Many women on here like that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We seem to get quite a bit of hate (usually from white people) for our desire to find only black men for Miss to play with.
Why is this? And why is it that only white people have a problem with us looking FOR and using the term "BBC"?
Your body, your life your choices…. You shouldn’t ever have to explain or defend your choices.
I did see a forum thread a while ago and there were a few black guys saying they didn’t like being referred to as BBC. But I don’t think the majority have an issue with it.
I can understand how it might be annoying for some black guys as they have to live up to the expectation that all black men are well hung.
If I was black I would be trading on the BBC thing to get my wick wet even if I was hung like a gerbil
Never seen a black guy hung like a gerbil to be fair haha... It's mostly the white guys that have tiny dicks lmao"
not a between the legs problem. Its between the ears issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you so much for this! Sometimes the hate gets to us, we're totally the opposite of racist. Your comment made us feel not so weird xx
Perhaps it isn’t hate?
My father was black, my mother white. I grew up in Nigeria and have lived in the UK for twenty years. And yet I’m regularly called a ‘foreigner’ by ignorant people in our local supermarket.
I guess my point is that racism is a fact of life for some of us. And many (unfortunately) have an experienced and nuanced understanding of what it looks like.
I also appreciate many want to perpetuate racial stereotypes in service of their fantasy life… personally I am much more interested in the person than the colour of their skin. "
Yet many only see and view the colour of skin and a Bias they only know of and want to believe. They cant and wont go beyond their comfort zone. |
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"A pet hate of mine is when someone creates a forum thread and it gets hijacked by guys spamming with comments about television stations etc usualt tired old jokes.
I know right!! That's the usual response... It's like we've attacked their man hood... So bizarre
Lol you have. Just messing
Haha!! It's not our fault they can't compete "
Jeez sex is not a competition, especially over cock size. |
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We all have our preferences and I thought the point of a site like this is so we can hopefully get more of what we like. I'm quite partial to a woman with a more curvy physique and a larger more rounded derriere, just in case any are reading this 
I would say as long as the owners of the BBC aren't offended then nobody else should have a problem. Happy hunting x |
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We are a cuckold couple and we get numerous messages from black guys who nearly always refer to themselves as BBC.
Dee has a liking for BBC (we say so on our profile) as you can see from some of our photos/videos, like the OP we aren’t looking to offend anyone, just stating one of our sexual preferences. This is a sex site after all and what’s the point of being on here if you can’t enjoy your fantasies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are a cuckold couple and we get numerous messages from black guys who nearly always refer to themselves as BBC.
Dee has a liking for BBC (we say so on our profile) as you can see from some of our photos/videos, like the OP we aren’t looking to offend anyone, just stating one of our sexual preferences. This is a sex site after all and what’s the point of being on here if you can’t enjoy your fantasies."
Well said! Thank you x |
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I don’t like the phrase BBC. I think it reduces a person to one body part and plays to the old racist stereotype of the hypersexual black man.
If that makes me woke, good. I’m with Kathy Burke on wokery. |
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Sorry to hear that such prejudice exists here! For us the emphasis is on the individual guy and how we click, the colour or creed is irrelevant. Had great nights with all colours and shades.
Her xxxx |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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As an Asian woman I find it interesting that a lot of "Interracial" parties are mostly black men and white women/couples.
Some black men will play up to the stereotype of BBC if that means they get lucky and white women/couples will be happy with whatever black man they play with regardless because you know, it's black dick and it's the "contrast in skin colour" that turns them on...
A lot of women of colour do not appreciate these stereotypes that most men of colour allow which plays to their advantage because to us that feels like fetishization, reducing us to a play thing to be "tried".
If you as a white person feel uncomfortable or attacked by this and all those who don't agree with your reasons to play with someone based on skin colour, that's because you're trying to justify your reason for fetishising that person/people.
We're all allowed our preferences but there are underlying reasons for them, you might just have to ask yourself why?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an Asian woman I find it interesting that a lot of "Interracial" parties are mostly black men and white women/couples.
Some black men will play up to the stereotype of BBC if that means they get lucky and white women/couples will be happy with whatever black man they play with regardless because you know, it's black dick and it's the "contrast in skin colour" that turns them on...
A lot of women of colour do not appreciate these stereotypes that most men of colour allow which plays to their advantage because to us that feels like fetishization, reducing us to a play thing to be "tried".
If you as a white person feel uncomfortable or attacked by this and all those who don't agree with your reasons to play with someone based on skin colour, that's because you're trying to justify your reason for fetishising that person/people.
We're all allowed our preferences but there are underlying reasons for them, you might just have to ask yourself why?
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Well said. Ive seen several posts from black men who dislike the bbc fetish worse still the ace of spades which seams quite common and its completely based on a racial slur. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have never used the BBC moniker (for both skin tone and labelling reasons).
We (my regular FWB & I) particularly appreciate/enjoy group play regardless of skin tones. However, if the themed events are a major turn on for some, it may well add to the fun, choice and egalitarianism of this weird and wonderful hobby  )). |
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I have never used the BBC moniker (for both skin tone and labelling reasons).
We (my regular FWB & I) particularly appreciate/enjoy group play regardless of skin tones. However, if the themed events are a major turn on for some, it may well add to the fun, choice and egalitarianism of this weird and wonderful hobby ). |
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"As an Asian woman I find it interesting that a lot of "Interracial" parties are mostly black men and white women/couples.
Some black men will play up to the stereotype of BBC if that means they get lucky and white women/couples will be happy with whatever black man they play with regardless because you know, it's black dick and it's the "contrast in skin colour" that turns them on...
A lot of women of colour do not appreciate these stereotypes that most men of colour allow which plays to their advantage because to us that feels like fetishization, reducing us to a play thing to be "tried".
If you as a white person feel uncomfortable or attacked by this and all those who don't agree with your reasons to play with someone based on skin colour, that's because you're trying to justify your reason for fetishising that person/people.
We're all allowed our preferences but there are underlying reasons for them, you might just have to ask yourself why?
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If someone is sexually attracted to another based on skin colour does there need to be an underlying reason and even then so what. Let two consenting adults get it on and enjoy the moment.
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"We don’t actively look for bbc but have meet a couple and to be honest never thought it’s offensive perhaps best seeing what the black guys say
The black guys who are well endowed probably won’t mind. And the far larger majority who are average or less will probably be too embarrassed to speak up. "
I think that if your a black guy with an average dick , your overlooked, you hardly find women nowadays that are interested in black men purely off attraction. |
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