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I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action? |
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Yeah I think too much emphasis is placed on this. I think I'm just above average, but the rest of me is too as I'm quite tall.
Any girls I've met or chatted with don't seem to care about the absolute size — more what you do with it so I wouldn't worry. It's guys and size queens who think about it more than others. |
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over a year ago
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I reckon most seem bigger because the owner of said cocks does everything possible to give that impression.
I’m above average but even still try to make the camera angle flatter me. Nature of the beast isn’t it? |
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"Average is 6,1/2
I wouldn't worry too much about it long as it's straight and working  "
In the UK? Really? Stats I've seen are more like 5.5 inches and I think 4.5 girth. Personal experience in groups of men and comments from ladies would tally with this  |
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Generally agree that men more hung up on size than ladies but not all. Was in a club with two ladies, both of who had umm experienced me, and one man, the four of us chatting away...
Another man wanders by. Lady 1 says to Lady 2 - "Oh Bob is here, he has a really amazing cock if you get a chance to play with him later". I exchanged glances with the man. After a brief pause Lady 1 says to Man 2 "oh you have a great cock too". Another brief pause. I look at Man 2 again. Lady 1 then says to me "Oh you have a lovely one as well" Thanks. Don't mind us
I was pondering saying to Man 2 "See that lady over there - she's got an amazing fanny!" Not sure how that would have gone down. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Generally agree that men more hung up on size than ladies but not all. Was in a club with two ladies, both of who had umm experienced me, and one man, the four of us chatting away...
Another man wanders by. Lady 1 says to Lady 2 - "Oh Bob is here, he has a really amazing cock if you get a chance to play with him later". I exchanged glances with the man. After a brief pause Lady 1 says to Man 2 "oh you have a great cock too". Another brief pause. I look at Man 2 again. Lady 1 then says to me "Oh you have a lovely one as well" Thanks. Don't mind us
I was pondering saying to Man 2 "See that lady over there - she's got an amazing fanny!" Not sure how that would have gone down. "
its not as if you can trade up for bigger one , So we have to enjoy what we have and hopefully the ladies enjoy it too |
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over a year ago
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According to some on Fab, 8 inches but 10 plus to the front of the queue....Do they actually have queues? I'm lucky to get a message let alone have a queue |
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I've always thought of myself as being average sized, at best, but I get told frequently it's larger than average, which I refuse to believe. I've seen enough cocks to know where mine stands in the line-up.
But I guess the point is that the average size of cock is not going to be accurately represented in sex-focussed social media. That visual data is going to be skewed towards bigger dicks.
So women who are just dating in the old fashioned Presbyterian way probably get a far greater spectrum of size versus the likes of us in places like this, with fiendish deviant appetites for carnage. And therefore, to many people mine could appear to be decently large.
Or they're just being nice ladies. Who knows.
My cock is like a squeeze box at a Cajun winemixer though. In any given moment it can go from decent for display to the world's smallest marmoset penis, and back again. I never know what I'm going to find.
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I was in a club and a nice looking lady was in the mood for another cock. She looked across at me and another guy, and chose me as the other guy's cock was too big! I was happy with that and we played twice that evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action?"
From our point of view, we really don't care about size. We care about connecting with people and pleasure all round
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Too much obsession about this. I have been swinging since I was young and decent size. It’s rare that bigger guys get more from the ladies in my experience. It’s mainly how you get on with partner and how u use. Also know one guy who has small dick. He is one of most popular guys at parties. Can fuck for ages and once seen two ladies fight over him. Undignified |
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I think average is about 6 based on a quick google. Mrs Villains said 6 is about right but most guys outside of fab are a bit under that in her experience.
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I do care abit if I'm honest, my ideal is something similar to the hubs or a little bigger (so 7.5+). That's not to say I'd turn down guys with smaller than that. It's just a preference in aesthetics and how it feels at the very end after foreplay as I like a painfully deep pounding lol |
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"What's the standard method of measuring?
There are a few variables and if people are measuring in different ways, the data is useless."
Shall we play *Spot the data analyst*?
(To be absolutely clear though, I am not actually a data analyst) |
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"I find most men over exaggerate their size. "
What... men? Exaggerate? Nooooooo
*shakes head in disbelief*
That's why I'm interested in finding out *how* measurement is done.
Measure the length along the top and it'll be shorter than measuring underneath. But then where do you decide which point underneath to measure from?
Then there is the visual length vs the physical length, which is to say when just standing naturally, what you can see vs what is actually felt when fucking. To know the true size of what is going to be enjoyed can, to varying degrees from person to person, require the measurement to include a degree of the shaft that could be concealed by a bit of recession and/or subdermal padding.
Which is to say visually it may only look like a 5 inches but on a decent pounding session it could feel like 8 inches.
*makes a bold case for being classified as 12 incher despite looking like a 7 incher*
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Actually the AVERAGE is less than 5" in the UK.
What men won't realise is that it shrinks with age. I reckon I've lost an inch in length, now 6.5". Girth though seems to be more what ladies want and that hasn't changed so much...about 5" or if I'm really horny, or wearing a ring, 5.5" |
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"Actually the AVERAGE is less than 5" in the UK.
What men won't realise is that it shrinks with age. I reckon I've lost an inch in length, now 6.5". Girth though seems to be more what ladies want and that hasn't changed so much...about 5" or if I'm really horny, or wearing a ring, 5.5""
I do think I have lost a bit of length. I was a proud two hander with a bit to spare in my youth.
Now, when fully aroused, I'm just a two hander.
But... it hasn't actually shrunk, it is more that the body encroaches and buries it a bit at the base, and that doesn't make any real difference to the physical experience.
I wonder what the ratio of dick size discussions is to the ratio of labia and vagina size discussions on here.
Men and their tools, eh?
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"I find most men over exaggerate their size.
What... men? Exaggerate? Nooooooo
*shakes head in disbelief*
That's why I'm interested in finding out *how* measurement is done.
Measure the length along the top and it'll be shorter than measuring underneath. But then where do you decide which point underneath to measure from?
Then there is the visual length vs the physical length, which is to say when just standing naturally, what you can see vs what is actually felt when fucking. To know the true size of what is going to be enjoyed can, to varying degrees from person to person, require the measurement to include a degree of the shaft that could be concealed by a bit of recession and/or subdermal padding.
Which is to say visually it may only look like a 5 inches but on a decent pounding session it could feel like 8 inches.
*makes a bold case for being classified as 12 incher despite looking like a 7 incher*
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All excellent points. On the Reddit measuredpornstars thread they use NBP to indicate a non bone pressed in measurement as you can gain an inch or more by pressing the tape down to the pubic bone depending on body type. |
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"Actually the AVERAGE is less than 5" in the UK.
What men won't realise is that it shrinks with age. I reckon I've lost an inch in length, now 6.5". Girth though seems to be more what ladies want and that hasn't changed so much...about 5" or if I'm really horny, or wearing a ring, 5.5"
I do think I have lost a bit of length. I was a proud two hander with a bit to spare in my youth.
Now, when fully aroused, I'm just a two hander.
But... it hasn't actually shrunk, it is more that the body encroaches and buries it a bit at the base, and that doesn't make any real difference to the physical experience.
I wonder what the ratio of dick size discussions is to the ratio of labia and vagina size discussions on here.
Men and their tools, eh?
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Men and their tools indeed !!!
I'd imagine the ratio is very small and the number that would have been started by women miniscule ! |
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"There are plenty of people who look for "average" don't forget!! I personally couldn't take a cock that is both long and thick, so average makes me happy  "
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"We don't really care and we really, really don't need pics. Be a decent guy and make us cum. That's all x
This  "
You say that but quite a few ladies do care very much and want pics, admittedly not most.
Seen many profiles specifying cock size on profiles. Also I've seen group chats before with ladies demanding cock-off of pics from men. Also been at parties/clubs with ladies and they are discussing cock size of some man at the venue that one of them has played with. |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
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"I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action?
From our point of view, we really don't care about size. We care about connecting with people and pleasure all round
Mrs"
But you do see an awful lot of women here requesting “big cock only” or “only 7” plus”
Don’t think they care about “connecting” lol. |
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"I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action?"
Penis pump. They aren’t nice and I think painful to start. But makes a difference with prolonged use. Plenty lube and patience and you’ll notice a difference. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Average is 6,1/2
I wouldn't worry too much about it long as it's straight and working
Curves are good too  "
Can also cause injury to much rubbing can lead to a rash/inflammation and the gynaecologist thus out of action |
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"There are plenty of people who look for "average" don't forget!! I personally couldn't take a cock that is both long and thick, so average makes me happy
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Haha it's bracket, "love", bracket |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't really care and we really, really don't need pics. Be a decent guy and make us cum. That's all x "
Exactly this - pleasure all round, thank you please
Mrs |
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"I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action?
From our point of view, we really don't care about size. We care about connecting with people and pleasure all round
Mrs"
And that connection is the major contributor to mine getting bigger. Its all in the head isnt it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would certainly say I am average, obviously I personally would prefer an extra inch or two however I don't think it would change the way I use it. Never had any complaints anyway
I suppose there is still time haha |
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"I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action?"
I’d say 5/6 inches is average/normal.
Lots of pics are filtered or good lighting or taken next to small tv remotes or travel size lynx cans lol.
And as for the demands from women for large girthy cocks all I can say is it must be a pretty wide hole where most wouldn’t even touch the sides  |
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And as for the demands from women for large girthy cocks all I can say is it must be a pretty wide hole where most wouldn’t even touch the sides "
Sure…cos us women don’t birth babies do we. It’s cool to pop out a 9lb baby but not take a girthy cock |
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"I find most men over exaggerate their size. But too big isnt always better anyway. Average or just above average is fine. Its only part of what makes a meet great imho "
Only those that have to exaggerate do so...... |
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"I find most men over exaggerate their size. But too big isnt always better anyway. Average or just above average is fine. Its only part of what makes a meet great imho
Only those that have to exaggerate do so......"
Im not sure, theres a guy who claims he's 11 inches I saw before, hes big but deffo not over 9..not sure he needs to exaggerate |
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By *ximiaMan
over a year ago
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If I measure mine from my toe I'm huge but who cares anyway?
I've been told I'm big but don't see it myself.
That's down to the pressure that's put on men about size.
The best tool you have in the bedroom is unselfishness and then size is irrelevant |
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"I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action?"
The NHS doesn't have photoshop |
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"I always thought I was average, according to NHS (5”), yet most pics on here seem bigger. Moreover, the women and couples are looking for big girth. Is there any hope for us little guys getting couple or female action?
The NHS doesn't have photoshop "
ha ha love it |
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Hmm cock size , well some years ago the lancet medical mag ran an article on penis sizes, the conclusion was ,no not black men or some exotic tribe in the amazon but "scandanavians" had the biggest peckers! So you nordic lot fill ya boots  |
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