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New here. Help.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello everyone! I’m Cee

I just joined the site today, and I'm enjoying it so far. Met a couple of people already who are cool and down to earth.

I’m just a little bit confused as to what the standard social practice is here. When I’m initially contacting someone, is it common practice to send a wink first? Add to your “hotlist” first? Just dive in and send a message straight away?

Someone please tell me the faux pas so I don’t embarrass myself more than I should lol

Thanks!

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would reccomend reading the FAQs.

That should cover most things.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeh, I had a look there and it didn’t cover anything I asked. It was more about technical and regulatory stuff.

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By *aximus74Woman over a year ago

Manchester

I'd say send a message.. (decent one though) check profile see if your compatible first and don't get arsed if they say no or read/delete/ or unread lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'll give it a shot haha

Seems like its going to be a grind

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

People won't know you've added them to your hotlist and many take no notice of winks so I'd say send a message.

Good luck and hope you enjoy your time on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ahhh okay. Dump the winks and hotlist haha. I was told by a woman here that she got 800 messages in one day. I guess quality over quantity is important lol

Thanks for tips!

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