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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, I've been striaght all my life, never been with a guy before.
Kinda scared about it or where to even start with it.
Don't know if I'd even like it or not, curious..
Guess I'm asking if anyone else been here before and what did you do?
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"Hey, I've been striaght all my life, never been with a guy before.
Kinda scared about it or where to even start with it.
Don't know if I'd even like it or not, curious..
Guess I'm asking if anyone else been here before and what did you do?
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Was the same as you.. easiest way for me was to experiment in a threesome scenario (easier said than done I know)
Would help to get to a club and just see for yourself. Just see how things feel in the moment, do hat feels good and don't care about labels and sexuality. If something feels good, gender shouldn't matter. If you didn't like it, think about why and try something else or don't do it again. Good luck OP
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Here right now mate even done the cam thing it's hot got a few great guys offering but scared to go for it, let me know how it goes "
Good shout, I will check it out, appreciate it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey, I've been striaght all my life, never been with a guy before.
Kinda scared about it or where to even start with it.
Don't know if I'd even like it or not, curious..
Guess I'm asking if anyone else been here before and what did you do?
Was the same as you.. easiest way for me was to experiment in a threesome scenario (easier said than done I know)
Would help to get to a club and just see for yourself. Just see how things feel in the moment, do hat feels good and don't care about labels and sexuality. If something feels good, gender shouldn't matter. If you didn't like it, think about why and try something else or don't do it again. Good luck OP
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Now that us some sound advice, appreciate it, will check some out and see what happens. |
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My first bi experience happened by chance during a threesome when the male started sucking my cock (was intended to be a straight MFM) but I'm so glad it did, I put it off for years and never plucked the courage.
I always think everything is worth a try, if you don't like it then it is what it is.
Maybe start with a chilled wank meet, if you get the urge then move forward to wank each other and oral etc..
It took me a while to work up the courage to meet again after that but just remind yourself it's a bit of fun, if you don't enjoy put it down as an experience and move on |
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May be different because I’m gay not bi. But i’d definitely say start at a pace you’re comfortable with maybe just oral etc. No need to rush to find the first guy you can, find someone who genuinely understands your situation and is happy for things to go the way you feel most comfortable with.
You’re young, you have a nice body and bulge. Probably quite good looking. You’ll have plenty of offers I’m sure. Gives you more chance to find the right one
Better to live a life of oh wells that what ifs. Would you rather say “ohh well I had a gay experience and it wasn’t for me” or say “ what I’d I passed up the opportunity to be with a guy and I’ll never know if I liked it” |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My first bi experience happened by chance during a threesome when the male started sucking my cock (was intended to be a straight MFM) but I'm so glad it did, I put it off for years and never plucked the courage.
I always think everything is worth a try, if you don't like it then it is what it is.
Maybe start with a chilled wank meet, if you get the urge then move forward to wank each other and oral etc..
It took me a while to work up the courage to meet again after that but just remind yourself it's a bit of fun, if you don't enjoy put it down as an experience and move on"
Yeh true, it is just a bit of fun and don't know what I don't know right? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"May be different because I’m gay not bi. But i’d definitely say start at a pace you’re comfortable with maybe just oral etc. No need to rush to find the first guy you can, find someone who genuinely understands your situation and is happy for things to go the way you feel most comfortable with.
You’re young, you have a nice body and bulge. Probably quite good looking. You’ll have plenty of offers I’m sure. Gives you more chance to find the right one
Better to live a life of oh wells that what ifs. Would you rather say “ohh well I had a gay experience and it wasn’t for me” or say “ what I’d I passed up the opportunity to be with a guy and I’ll never know if I liked it”"
Thanks, appreciate it, well let's see what happens and I'll keep you posted. |
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"My first bi experience happened by chance during a threesome when the male started sucking my cock (was intended to be a straight MFM) but I'm so glad it did, I put it off for years and never plucked the courage.
I always think everything is worth a try, if you don't like it then it is what it is.
Maybe start with a chilled wank meet, if you get the urge then move forward to wank each other and oral etc..
It took me a while to work up the courage to meet again after that but just remind yourself it's a bit of fun, if you don't enjoy put it down as an experience and move on
Yeh true, it is just a bit of fun and don't know what I don't know right? "
Exactly, you don't need to label it as anything more than just experimenting
Have fun, what happens happens and you can take it from there |
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I know exactly what you mean, I have definitely developed this tho g where o really want to suck a cock but would prefer to try it in a mmf scenario.
I’ve mentioned it to the wife and although pretty d*unk she got off on the idea so I live in hope! |
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I was the same, all about labels I guess, my 1st experiance at a club in a group open my eyes to extra fun, sort of exciting never looked back since and some ladies love watching 2 guys, same as us guys love watching 2 ladies |
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By *an_buryMan
over a year ago
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Ive done it. A few times now
Started off with curiosity. Then started chatting to men online. Conversations lead to Sext then phone sex.
Eventually ended up going to a guys house. Glad I did
I still get nervous meeting guys |
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I was completely straight when I was younger but became curious about playing with other guys. I hooked up with another guy was in a similar position to me and we had a mutual wank. I was very nervous but really enjoyed it and haven't stopped playing since! I would say don't let nerves put you off and give it a try as you've nothing to lose |
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I think women find it easier to deal with same sex attraction or desire to experience it. They don’t have the same concerns over how they perceive themselves afterwards or the experience itself.
Men however have this monkey on their back that says if you try it, it’s there permanently. One same sex smooch, oral stimulation or even something as simple as mutual masturbation is a stain on their heterosexual history. Stick a dildo up your arse and you’re half way there. 
When in fact it really doesn’t matter to anyone else, history is just that, it’s in the past doesn’t need to be resurrected. Experiment because it’s there you’re considering it, you’ve probably watched some gay porn and fancied trying it out.
If you don’t it’ll always be a niggle in the back of your mind. I very rarely tell someone what to do, but fuck it go for it, don’t enjoy it, put it in the past as you then know you’re fully heterosexual. However if you do enjoy it and think it’s part of who you are now then live with it and embrace it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think women find it easier to deal with same sex attraction or desire to experience it. They don’t have the same concerns over how they perceive themselves afterwards or the experience itself.
Men however have this monkey on their back that says if you try it, it’s there permanently. One same sex smooch, oral stimulation or even something as simple as mutual masturbation is a stain on their heterosexual history. Stick a dildo up your arse and you’re half way there.
When in fact it really doesn’t matter to anyone else, history is just that, it’s in the past doesn’t need to be resurrected. Experiment because it’s there you’re considering it, you’ve probably watched some gay porn and fancied trying it out.
If you don’t it’ll always be a niggle in the back of your mind. I very rarely tell someone what to do, but fuck it go for it, don’t enjoy it, put it in the past as you then know you’re fully heterosexual. However if you do enjoy it and think it’s part of who you are now then live with it and embrace it. "
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