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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago
Southcoast Gosport |
"Anyone else come across nothing but TIMEWASTERS, especially couples and females, it’s a joke really cause I’m genuine and keep coming across nothing but TIMEWASTERS  "
Do better due dilligence then op. |
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What's your definition of timewasters?
Most people who we all start chatting with will not ultimately be compatible and thus we won't get to meet them. The chat dries up. If we didn't chat properly, we would end up meeting with inappropriate people. Which would be a huge waste of time.
Many people also message others and ignore the warning signs on the profiles, thus wasting everyone's time.
If we set realistic expectations, we reduce our disappointment.
Learn what you can each time something doesn't work out. Use this to improve how you operate with every subsequent contact. If you still repeat mistakes, take a long hard look at how you are doing things. What can you change? |
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"What's your definition of timewasters?
Most people who we all start chatting with will not ultimately be compatible and thus we won't get to meet them. The chat dries up. If we didn't chat properly, we would end up meeting with inappropriate people. Which would be a huge waste of time.
Many people also message others and ignore the warning signs on the profiles, thus wasting everyone's time.
If we set realistic expectations, we reduce our disappointment.
Learn what you can each time something doesn't work out. Use this to improve how you operate with every subsequent contact. If you still repeat mistakes, take a long hard look at how you are doing things. What can you change?"
And report anyone who fails to turn up to an agreed meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can honestly say I’ve never had a problem either on this profile or our couples one.
Having said that I am cautious to a ridiculous level and have a strict check list I stick to.
Seems to be working ok so far  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
You only have your time wasted if you allow it. As someone else has said due diligence. If the person goes quiet
on the day or doesn't answer messages a couple of hours beforehand that's usually because they're not going to turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are tons of red flags for time wasters. Last verification over a year ago, no verifications but over a year on site, old looking pics, want to constantly chat but avoid / ignoring any meeting Qs.
Large number of guys dreaming that they’re in swinging couples who just like to wank chat to other men about their wife, they’re probably the biggest group on here. Over the years I’ve met plenty of lovely genuine people on here, they stick out quite nicely from the red flags. |
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