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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Have been on here from just before Christmas and am finding it incrediably difficult to meet anyone at all. Feels like the site is a total scam.
Does it make any difference at all being verified and if so can anyone in the Borders (pref female), meet for a coffee ??
Hope someone can help
Dave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you tried going into chat and getting a cam veri at least.
Yes for many not being verified will stop them looking at you.
This isn't instashag though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a scam at all. We've been happy as site members since spring last year.
As has been said before elsewhere on here, you get out only what you put in. |
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"Hi
Have been on here from just before Christmas and am finding it incrediably difficult to meet anyone at all. Feels like the site is a total scam.
Does it make any difference at all being verified and if so can anyone in the Borders (pref female), meet for a coffee ??
Hope someone can help
Dave."
Scam ? Its a swingers site.. that does not guarantee you a meet or a shag.. you are on this swingers site.. niw its down to you to get out get to a social get vetified and make you sound like the sort of person women would want to meet.. calling the site a scam sounds like you don't understand what the site is..if you are that desperate go to a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is hard but in your caseyou have to remember, there are millions of single guys on Here all looking for the same thing, I'd recommend getting out there, just keep your ear to the ground n look out for parties etc, You sound very interesting I'm sure people would be all over you just hang in there baby! I've met some lovely people from here and at parties advertised on here, it's no scam xxx |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Hi
Have been on here from just before Christmas and am finding it incrediably difficult to meet anyone at all. Feels like the site is a total scam.
Does it make any difference at all being verified and if so can anyone in the Borders (pref female), meet for a coffee ??
Hope someone can help
Dave."
Technically, a "scam" can be defined as something were you have failed to receive a product or service for hich you have contributed a substantial (based on advertising) financial portion by your self.
Is the site offering a service? No - just a meeting point.
Has the site advertised or requested a financial contribution from you? No again.
so how is it a scam? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a scam at all. We've been happy as site members since spring last year.
As has been said before elsewhere on here, you get out only what you put in. "
That's his problem, he never gets to put ANYTHING in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a mixed bag mate, I have met three people and a couple on here, really nice people, they haven't got round 2 verifying met yet though, so damn annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the eternal conumdrum, can't meet without verification, can't get verification without meets...
As a single guy, Ive had to learn that:
Not everyone is looking for married guys.
Not everyone is looking for straight guys.
Not everyone wants to meet smokers.
Not everyone can meet daytime.
Even if they do all that, doesn't mean they want to meet me!
Patience young Padowan, sticking around to see what happens often helps, slagging off the site doesn't!
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"Its a mixed bag mate, I have met three people and a couple on here, really nice people, they haven't got round 2 verifying met yet though, so damn annoying."
something to remember: Meet because you want to meet people, don't go meeting just so you can get a verification - a verification is something people do because they feel like it and want to do it, not because they've been asked to or are obligated to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a scam alright we joined met some great people and are having the best time .
The scam is we can't find the time to do more.
Lol"
WHY IS EVERYONE STILL POSTING WHEN THE POSTER LEFT SITE LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a scam alright we joined met some great people and are having the best time .
The scam is we can't find the time to do more.
Lol
WHY IS EVERYONE STILL POSTING WHEN THE POSTER LEFT SITE LOL"
PARDON? |
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Hey I'm having the same problem tbh.. been on this site for years now and had a few inboxs from the ladies but they never follow up what they say :/ I give my phone number I have my face clear as day in pics.. just can't seem to get laid lol Im very genuine with hardly any friends on here.. it gets me how my profile says I'm straight but the gay scene tend to message me a lot... It's weird haha where's the lovely ladies at helpppppp a fresh cock out  not into the clubs and what not as I don't want to go alone.. even tried to get a lady to come with but nothing  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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User no longer active?
Does this mean the user has now taken a more passive stance in shenanigans? 
Or they haven't had an instant meet n shag so give up? |
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