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By *ookin4fun88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Rotherham

hi everyone im new here and would like a few pointers on succesfully finding women and couples

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By *antstoplaynowMan  over a year ago

uxbridge


"hi everyone im new here and would like a few pointers on succesfully finding women and couples "

Yeah speak to them

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

Ok, here's how I see it, your profile is quite lengthy, half of it is good, explaining about you and your likes dyc but the use of the word time waster 5 times in the first couple of paragraphs is a bit tedious as is the huge chunk at the end about using your pics which is totally pointless

You list safe sex as an interest but then say your happy to play bareback?!

You cannot accom so I would suggest mentioning why.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

On and you say your looking for couples in your text but it says your only looking to meet woman in the selection bit so any couples searching for a single male won't see your profile in the search

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I stopped reading early on. The ranty tone about timewasters and manners bored me. I f that is indicative of your attitude then you are going to struggle.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

Sorry my mistake just saw the bit about living with your brother. My bad.

Cut all the text about time wasting and rudeness it sounds so negative. People are not rude if they delete messages without reply, check the fabs guidelines it tells you there you shouldn't expect replies. The rest sounds ok.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Contradictions, ranty and the most useless paragraph in the English Language at the end.....

Respect, politeness will go a long way and not getting arse in your hand if its a no will help...

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By *lackCherryCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

Wow thats a long profile for a single dude.. Ok so starting from your profile no negativity it put me (Mrs) off straight away so start from your "Hello part" the details where you live and when ect can come later in conversation so you dont really need to add them but up to you again with your details (height ect) its at the bottom anyway so you dont really need to add it and it cuts it down for you again.

Again the negativity with the rudeness comment most people dont have time to reply as they receive so many messages a day and as Littlemisshottie said its in the Fab guidelines. Then the last bit.. barebacking would be a definite no but again its personal preference.

Be polite if you get a decline its not the end there are plenty of other people on here, your pictures are great and use chat to get to know people. x

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By *obbieCMan  over a year ago

Bridgwater

Get into the clubs mate and get some verifications, they will go a long way to helping you get meets. Agree with the other comments about your profile, concentrate on the positives...good luck.......

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By *andF_funCouple  over a year ago

Philly PA area

i would say shorten your message. But i'm not one to speak, if you look at ours, i changed it many many times because of the responses we've been getting.

It started out kinda short, but modifies and changes since nobody seems to read the dang thing.

I would say to be respectful to all the women on here. Chat rooms are wonderful. I started playing in the rooms about a month ago. Some guys are very nice and respectful, they are the ones who are "repeats" and message me to see when i'm playing next. Others message me or ask to me friends since they saw me in the chat, but either didn't have a cam for me to see them, or never even said hello... majorly pisses me off.

And if the person isn't looking for single guys... leave them alone. We are one of those couples, but again, i do have a few single guy friends because they are constanly talking to me in chat and communicating with me as a true person, not just a slutty female (which i am truly not).

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I agree with everyone else about the negativity and length of the ur profile, some of the stuff u have said could have been added to other paragraphs and reworded to make it shorter. Also I looked at ur pics and this is just a personal thing for me but the pube pic puts me off, I like a man to be neat and tidy but that's just my preference and my opinion on ur profile

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