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By *osexy OP Couple
over a year ago
ST AUSTELL |
Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
My god, DONT YOU DARE! You look absolutely fantastic, you have plenty to offer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
Wow! Given half a chance I would love to meet you both. Love your profile. James. XXX |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I don't think it's your ages at all,you look good.
Maybe more pics of the male though and some of you together may help ,or try a club if you feel up to it .
It's hard for couples to find a bi fem as most are after the same.With another couple you need to get that 4 way attraction and that's not always easy to get. |
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If you concentrate on the people you can't message you will feel that you're becoming isolated. Better to search for the people whose age range you do fit, if none of them are suitable clubs might be the way forward.
It's inevitable that we'll all become too old for the majority, just like outside of fab. |
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By *osexy OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's your ages at all,you look good.
Maybe more pics of the male though and some of you together may help ,or try a club if you feel up to it .
It's hard for couples to find a bi fem as most are after the same.With another couple you need to get that 4 way attraction and that's not always easy to get."
I don’t think we explained very well . We get plenty of offers but finding a match more difficult as the age filters seem to discount the wider fab community . We get quite a few much younger couples looking at the pics and saying they want to meet . The filters are excluding us from couples who themselves only a year or two younger . This means that people in our own age group who are likely a closer match are out of reach . We are doing fine but probably in the twilight of our swinging . |
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"I don't think it's your ages at all,you look good.
Maybe more pics of the male though and some of you together may help ,or try a club if you feel up to it .
It's hard for couples to find a bi fem as most are after the same.With another couple you need to get that 4 way attraction and that's not always easy to get.
I don’t think we explained very well . We get plenty of offers but finding a match more difficult as the age filters seem to discount the wider fab community . We get quite a few much younger couples looking at the pics and saying they want to meet . The filters are excluding us from couples who themselves only a year or two younger . This means that people in our own age group who are likely a closer match are out of reach . We are doing fine but probably in the twilight of our swinging . "
They're a possible match from your point of view but not theirs. I think couples of our age are definitely in the twilight of swinging but I think you two might only be in the late afternoon  |
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"Me too .. nobody wants to hang around with experienced older men .. ive been on a year and met 2 people .. can they not do a fab 50 plus lol
You can use search filters to make fab 50+"
Yes maybe give it a bash and see if I get any luck.. cant get any worse really lol x |
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The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody  |
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody "
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol |
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol "
Thank you. I'm not worried. When I was young I had no interest sexually in older people, I don't expect younger people to be interested in me now I'm older. Realistically someone in their fifties or sixties given the choice, would opt for younger too |
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol
Thank you. I'm not worried. When I was young I had no interest sexually in older people, I don't expect younger people to be interested in me now I'm older. Realistically someone in their fifties or sixties given the choice, would opt for younger too"
Funnily enough I just seen a chat on the forum about how many young guys want an older woman .. pity younger women didn't want older men lol xx |
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
I’m definitely receiving less mail since I turned 50, although I am receiving more messages from younger females looking for an older, experienced man…..
The best you can do as a couple though, is admire those profiles you find attractive, Fab a few of their pics, ensure your profile is set to let them see you’ve viewed them, and then hope they contact you. Also, do as others have advised, and message those people you are able to. Good luck!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I the male, believe age has its advantages especially for those who value quality!!
But not everyone on here will agree, and probably the majority will disagree.
Each of us have a choice, thats why we are on FAB, and we have choices, each to their own. Just sometimes the choices are maybe further away.
Good luck everyone and enjoy, whatever takes your fancy. |
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol
Thank you. I'm not worried. When I was young I had no interest sexually in older people, I don't expect younger people to be interested in me now I'm older. Realistically someone in their fifties or sixties given the choice, would opt for younger too
Funnily enough I just seen a chat on the forum about how many young guys want an older woman .. pity younger women didn't want older men lol xx "
A lot of younger guys say they want an older woman. They usually mean around 40 |
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol
Thank you. I'm not worried. When I was young I had no interest sexually in older people, I don't expect younger people to be interested in me now I'm older. Realistically someone in their fifties or sixties given the choice, would opt for younger too
Funnily enough I just seen a chat on the forum about how many young guys want an older woman .. pity younger women didn't want older men lol xx
A lot of younger guys say they want an older woman. They usually mean around 40 "
It would surprise you .. lots of guys prefer women 50 up to 70 in some cases according to that forum .. its quite a turn on getting lucky with an older lady .. older the fiddle better the tune xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
Yep feel the same |
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol
Thank you. I'm not worried. When I was young I had no interest sexually in older people, I don't expect younger people to be interested in me now I'm older. Realistically someone in their fifties or sixties given the choice, would opt for younger too
Funnily enough I just seen a chat on the forum about how many young guys want an older woman .. pity younger women didn't want older men lol xx
A lot of younger guys say they want an older woman. They usually mean around 40
It would surprise you .. lots of guys prefer women 50 up to 70 in some cases according to that forum .. its quite a turn on getting lucky with an older lady .. older the fiddle better the tune xx"
I hear that quite a lot along with all sorts of other clubs clichés about older women. The truth is that a very high percentage of younger men think older women will be grateful, eager to please them, they won't have to work too hard to get us to agree to have sex with them and when we do we'll show them some tricks they can amaze younger women with. There are very few who see women as individuals and find them attractive regardless of age rather than because of it. |
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol
Thank you. I'm not worried. When I was young I had no interest sexually in older people, I don't expect younger people to be interested in me now I'm older. Realistically someone in their fifties or sixties given the choice, would opt for younger too
Funnily enough I just seen a chat on the forum about how many young guys want an older woman .. pity younger women didn't want older men lol xx
A lot of younger guys say they want an older woman. They usually mean around 40
It would surprise you .. lots of guys prefer women 50 up to 70 in some cases according to that forum .. its quite a turn on getting lucky with an older lady .. older the fiddle better the tune xx
I hear that quite a lot along with all sorts of other clubs clichés about older women. The truth is that a very high percentage of younger men think older women will be grateful, eager to please them, they won't have to work too hard to get us to agree to have sex with them and when we do we'll show them some tricks they can amaze younger women with. There are very few who see women as individuals and find them attractive regardless of age rather than because of it. "
Respect always to a woman .. regardless of age .. im old fashioned and brought up to respect all ladies xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Respect always to a woman .. regardless of age .. im old fashioned and brought up to respect all ladies xx "
No disrespect but your quote of “The older the fiddle the better the tune” kind of contradicts that. |
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Respect always to a woman .. regardless of age .. im old fashioned and brought up to respect all ladies xx
No disrespect but your quote of “The older the fiddle the better the tune” kind of contradicts that."
It's a figure of speech and has no intent to be disrespectful .. if u follow the conversation it talks about older men as well as older women .. so no contradiction at all .. cheers xx |
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There do seem to be many filters set to 55 top, which is very frustrating when you are 56 lol But if that's what people want you have to go with it. There are still enough fun, mature age people to make this an enjoyable place to spend time in - with all its foibles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
I don't believe your past it at all...I definitely would engage if you where closer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X
I don't believe your past it at all...I definitely would engage if you where closer"
What this guy has said….although I’m happy to travel   |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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Don't understand people with a cut off age as we like to think if people are respectful and we all click why would we then ask their age??? We've clicked, we find each other attractive and getting along, to then find out they are 56 when we are looking for 55 and under so we then have to say..... ahhh you are just outside the age we are looking for so bye, fickle or what. We look for all what we just said above, so we don't have any filters of age, we might just miss out on meeting some amazing people. each to their own though  |
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
Yes i know what you mean, but you look pretty amazing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s more like all that legal garbage in your profile that stops folks wanting to meet you. Take it out - it wouldn’t stand up in court even if you did decide to prosecute (which I doubt you would! ) |
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
I definitely wouldn’t say you where to old
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"The way I view fab is that the only thing I'm entitled to is respect (that covers just about every possible aspect of meeting someone I think). Being excluded due to any filter is just how it is. Being straight excludes us, our age excludes us, location, ethnicity, body shape...the possibilities for exclusion are endless, it's a miracle any of us ever meet anybody
I dont think u need to worry lol u look mighty fine .. im just going to have to face the fact the younger generation think I'm over the hill lol
Thank you. I'm not worried. When I was young I had no interest sexually in older people, I don't expect younger people to be interested in me now I'm older. Realistically someone in their fifties or sixties given the choice, would opt for younger too
Funnily enough I just seen a chat on the forum about how many young guys want an older woman .. pity younger women didn't want older men lol xx
A lot of younger guys say they want an older woman. They usually mean around 40 "
I’ve got my filters set to 99 entirely on purpose! |
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
I am in your age range and still having fun so I would say stick with it and see what happens. |
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No way too old!! I guess everyone's criteria for meets is different, but I can guarantee that there are people who absolutely love older couples, the trouble might be if they meet your criteria with age and other likes etc. Anyway thumbs up from us xx |
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
Our filters are off for age, we judge people on who they are rather than their generic attributes! |
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
Nah, everyone has "dry spells" besides summer is just around the corner and the sun is a natural aphrodisiac.
Mr Hayes |
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By *ipppyMan
over a year ago
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
even harder when profiles say no single men!!!
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I have never had any issue with my age but then again I don't send messages.
I didn't join here until I was 52 and it has never held me back.
In saying that though I don't meet often and have found what I'm looking for on here so I don't need to worry too much about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding it hard to message lots of lovely people due to age filters .Getting the feeling we are past our sell by date . Would rather bow out gracefully than become isolated . Anyone lease feel the same ? X"
Drop me a message! Xx im in your area permanently xx |
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