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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
Even the best profile may not increase your interactions by as much as you think. Yes have a good profile, it certainly helps, but as somebody has adjusted my profile a fair bit over time it has not made much difference.
Your 0 interactions may increase to 2 a month (percentage that's huge of course) but it certainly isn't a miracle fix. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
Immediate impressions..
First 3 pics look screenshotted.
3rd pic quality is sub-standard & that's the body pic arguably the most important.
Bio text seems fine.
Also it's only been 2 weeks, you shouldn't expect to be soaked in clunge overnight  |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
Firstly, you need to abandon all expectations, you have been here two weeks. Give it a year, if you still haven’t had any direct contact with anyone of the type you’re looking for by then then maybe it’s time to look elsewhere, in the mean time take pictures that aren’t out of focus, write your profile in full sentences and don’t repeat yourself in so short a piece of text, maybe drop the inaccurate drug references unless that’s a deal breaker for you, and don’t waste your time in the forum with posts about how as a single guy you don’t have any luck, they mostly just get ridiculed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing.
What do you mean getting nothing?
You have nice pics."
As in i get viewed a lot but get no messages. Or I send a message and get nothing back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bio doesn't really say much... Just goes on about looks and personality, kind of contradicts itself."
Fair feedback, I did change it recently for a re-fresh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing.
What were your expectations for the first two weeks of site membership? 
A"
One response to a message |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing. "
yes I'm not seeing that your pics are good write up a bit short but ok maybe its your age and who you target, do you send polite messages based on target profile?  |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Heathrow |
"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing.
What do you mean getting nothing?
You have nice pics.
As in i get viewed a lot but get no messages. Or I send a message and get nothing back. "
That is how fab works.
casual confidence is preferred (by all accounts). I don't rate myself looks wise but have done very well over the years by realising I won't appeal to everyone but will appeal to some. Saying your personality is better than your looks screams a lack of confidence and implies you are fixated on tbe body beautiful.
We all have our hang ups about ourselves somewhere but gloss over them. Be confident without arrogance and things may improve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing.
What do you mean getting nothing?
You have nice pics.
As in i get viewed a lot but get no messages. Or I send a message and get nothing back. "
Maybe get site supporter pass then you can see who has viewed you and you can message them  |
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Profile isn't great but certainly isn't the worst.
Problem is so many like yourself join expecting to get quick easy hook ups just because it's a Swingers site because apparently all Swingers are perceived like sex addict maniacs, when in reality it's nothing like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"User name suggest you're looking for same sex encounters, profile says not...
Good spot "
This is exactly what I was coming here to say.
Along with - Liz Hurley is mine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing.
What do you mean getting nothing?
You have nice pics.
As in i get viewed a lot but get no messages. Or I send a message and get nothing back.
Maybe get site supporter pass then you can see who has viewed you and you can message them "
This is exactly why many people hide on that list.
If someone looked it doesn't mean they want to fuck the person.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing.
What do you mean getting nothing?
You have nice pics.
As in i get viewed a lot but get no messages. Or I send a message and get nothing back. "
If they don't reply it just means they're not interested.
If people reply to a message "no thanks" they often get abuse back. So they don't reply to any.
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
Again I can't stress this enough... the 3rd pic (your current profile pic), the quality (as in resolution) is atrocious.
You might have a really hot body but nobody is able to see it due to the potato camera (or lazy screen grab) that was used to capture it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How bad is my profile? Cause at the moment I am getting nothing.
What do you mean getting nothing?
You have nice pics.
As in i get viewed a lot but get no messages. Or I send a message and get nothing back.
That is how fab works.
casual confidence is preferred (by all accounts). I don't rate myself looks wise but have done very well over the years by realising I won't appeal to everyone but will appeal to some. Saying your personality is better than your looks screams a lack of confidence and implies you are fixated on tbe body beautiful.
We all have our hang ups about ourselves somewhere but gloss over them. Be confident without arrogance and things may improve."
Good advice |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Can I remind people. Even if you have someone blocked they can still answer your post. They may not even know they are blocked anyway
The time it breaks rules is if they ask you to unblock, ask why they are blocked, keep going on that you have blocked them etc etc |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
"This is exactly why many people hide on that list.
If someone looked it doesn't mean they want to fuck the person. "
This. Profile views are meaningless. Usually it's just people stopping by to have a wank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"User name suggest you're looking for same sex encounters, profile says not...
Good spot
This is exactly what I was coming here to say.
Along with - Liz Hurley is mine.
Can’t both have Liz Hurley or they would be Surely Hurley?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is exactly why many people hide on that list.
If someone looked it doesn't mean they want to fuck the person.
This. Profile views are meaningless. Usually it's just people stopping by to have a wank"
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