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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi…
Recently visited a club with my new partner.
She’s intrigued by the lifestyle & was keen to go to a club to see what it was like, she even viewed the venue & suggested we attend.
She looked absolutely stunning, hair, nails & makeup which is the norm for her anyway as she knows I like her turning heads in bars, etc.
Dressed in boots, stockings, above the knee leather skirt & a basque with a black lace top… she looked great.
We drove to the venue & then the butterflies set in.
We sat outside for 20 minutes chatting & then she confirmed that she was really nervous… I totally understood her so we drove home ….
I’m looking for any advice or suggestions to make her next visit more successful for her ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That’s exactly what I did…
I could see she wasn’t comfortable & insisted that we go home & try another time.
Maybe I should mention that I’ve been swinging 10 years plus with a previous partner & as a single guy |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
You did exactly the right thing. She has to be in control.
Reassure her that going in doesn't mean you / she has to do anything, you're there to take a look and see what it's about, have a drink and maybe chat to others.
Everybody starts somewhere, there mat even be new people like you in the club.
If shes not happy in there - leave together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You did exactly the right thing. She just needs to be the one leading this. Its a really big step if she hasn't done anything like this before. She will either overcome her fear and give it a try or she won't, just be communicative, open and honest. Let it be known it's just a drink then you can go. Its all you can do; good luck. |
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By *al4GinCouple
over a year ago
Flintshire |
Before we went to club we meet few couples in pubs , we want to social meet , spoke to few couples ,we than arrange to go club for drink and social , once we in felt totally at ease , went along at our pace , it was only on third visit did pop our cherry so to speak |
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