Have at least one public picture and a profile picture, the lack of these rules you put of many searches. Otherwise you need to put a little more about yourself and who you hope to meet along with a little about what you would bring to a meet in personal terms 
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Thank you. yeah the only thing about public pics is that in young 19 so privacy is a huge issue for me especially as I go a gym that everyone knows everyone but I do share pics in private messages. |
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"Thank you. yeah the only thing about public pics is that in young 19 so privacy is a huge issue for me especially as I go a gym that everyone knows everyone but I do share pics in private messages."
did doesn't have to be a face pic OP maybe just a torso pic or something like that  |
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"Thank you. yeah the only thing about public pics is that in young 19 so privacy is a huge issue for me especially as I go a gym that everyone knows everyone but I do share pics in private messages.did doesn't have to be a face pic OP maybe just a torso pic or something like that "
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"Thank you. yeah the only thing about public pics is that in young 19 so privacy is a huge issue for me especially as I go a gym that everyone knows everyone but I do share pics in private messages.did doesn't have to be a face pic OP maybe just a torso pic or something like that "
OP, privacy is not just an issue for the younger members, it affects us all to a more or lesser degree. As the other respondent said, you don't need to show your face. You've said you go to the gym so why not show off your body a bit. You could also take some nice selfies outdoors using the timer on your phone to show you from behind, or from the front and just pixelate your face. Imagination is the key. |
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"Thank you. yeah the only thing about public pics is that in young 19 so privacy is a huge issue for me especially as I go a gym that everyone knows everyone but I do share pics in private messages.did doesn't have to be a face pic OP maybe just a torso pic or something like that
OP, privacy is not just an issue for the younger members, it affects us all to a more or lesser degree. As the other respondent said, you don't need to show your face. You've said you go to the gym so why not show off your body a bit. You could also take some nice selfies outdoors using the timer on your phone to show you from behind, or from the front and just pixelate your face. Imagination is the key."
Thanks you the advice. Really helpful. I’m from an area where everyone knows each other so I’m literally the only brown boy in a white gym so it’s easy af for people to spot me out. What I might do is change my location to somewhere in central as I’m there most times. Anyways thanks for your advice appreciate it will be posting a pic. |
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The best thing you could do is to just go out and meet people. In our opinion the swinging scene really isn't the best place for people as young as you. Most don't have the sexual maturity at your age to handle swinging which is totally fine....we certainly didn't at 19! |
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"The best thing you could do is to just go out and meet people. In our opinion the swinging scene really isn't the best place for people as young as you. Most don't have the sexual maturity at your age to handle swinging which is totally fine....we certainly didn't at 19!"
Thanks for advice will take that on board |
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