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Newbie needs some help

By *otpantz47 OP Man over a year ago

Biggar

I’ll throw myself to the lions. Can i get some feedback on my profile and photos Please ????

I’m getting ignored by women and couples and chased by bi/tv/gay men

I’m straight, have no issues with anyones sexuality - but need some advice as I’m either a munter with zero sex appeal (be nice) or my profile ia shite.

Thanks in advance

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Just looking at your photos and it would be a deffinate no from me. Your an unverified single male with action shots of god knows who.

At least you wrote something in your bio

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By *otpantz47 OP Man over a year ago

Biggar

I thought people would want to see action shots. Should I remove them?

Thanks for the advice

Was just trying to be open and show that I wasn’t a faker.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Action shots are awful. You can still be fake with action shots. There is no way of knowing who is in them and bareback too

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By *otpantz47 OP Man over a year ago

Biggar

Thanks - should I delete or make private?

Was what I wrote Ok or too forthright as well?

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Delete them. What your looking for will only be a small percentage of women on here but good luck in your search

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By *otpantz47 OP Man over a year ago

Biggar

I’ve deleted them. Am I a minority kinky person then? I know it’s much tougher for men to get themselves seen as women get so many messages - but I didn’t think I was that filthy ?????

Thankyou so much for the help though. I guess I got too carried away xx

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By *otpantz47 OP Man over a year ago

Biggar

Ok - thanks for the advice folks. Can you have another look and tell me if I’m going im the right direction please ???? x

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Looks better

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By *otpantz47 OP Man over a year ago

Biggar

Thanks - I appreciate the help. Especially if you looked and thought ’wanker’ to start with xx

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF) over a year ago

manchester

I like your pics. Can see a bit of your personality shining through.

I’d lose the reference to ‘sleazy sec’ but apart from that I think it’s a great profile x

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By *otpantz47 OP Man over a year ago

Biggar

On it. I get carried away and always spill too much about myself - thankyou gorgeous x

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By *inkyKissCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Run the text through a punctuation and spell checker.

Be selective with your interests, don't just tick everything.

Hope that helps.

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

I dont think you need to say your not into guys. You can just bloke them. Also the stuff about your tats.

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By *ocopops1962Man over a year ago

Glasgow / Lindon

Yea agree about above , don’t worry about being approached by men , it probably won’t happen , tbh profiles for men are not that important, less is def more . What’s important is how you interact with others in messages and forums

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Clearly you have ammended your profile already, judging by the comments above. Your photos are a good mixture and show different aspects of what makes you unique.

I would consider a spelling and punctuation check though. It seems minor, but it will put people off.

Good luck

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By *owboyPandaMan over a year ago

Wishaw

New here never be in forums before also might need a had with profile am usually in chat rooms but definitely need help and would appreciate any advice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"I thought people would want to see action shots. Should I remove them?

Thanks for the advice

Was just trying to be open and show that I wasn’t a faker. "

Action shots deter many. People are looking at your profile to assess whether they fancy you, which means the pics need to be simple and effective at this. Action shots almost always make it tougher. People move on to the next profile that makes it simple and suggests that the user has thought about what a viewer would need.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"New here never be in forums before also might need a had with profile am usually in chat rooms but definitely need help and would appreciate any advice "

It's not great to hijack someone else's feedback and thread. I suggest that you create a new forum post

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