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By *avej123777 OP Man
over a year ago
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Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play |
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
Don’t push the issue or you will put her off for life! Don’t keep going on about it and trust me don’t confuse any of this with having a normal sexlife! If you ever convince her to go to a club YOU must have no expectations and TOGETHER you must set boundaries and stick to it.
If you want more advice PM me. |
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
Is it her choice or yours?
Consider that.
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
If she doesn’t want to do it that’s the end of it no matter what your fantasy may be so you need to respect that
If in the future she decides she wants to explore then do so at her pace and not force your agenda on her
If she’s not in to it there is very little of anything you could do to change her mind and you need to decide what’s more important in your relationship |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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Don't push the issue, it took me 3 years of subtle - but regular - suggestion.
Be creative, tell her of the benefits you see for both her AND your relationship. Try and use it during foreplay & roleplay when you have sex.
I used these 'tactics' and then one d*unken night out everything fell into place. |
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"Don't push the issue, it took me 3 years of subtle - but regular - suggestion.
Be creative, tell her of the benefits you see for both her AND your relationship. Try and use it during foreplay & roleplay when you have sex.
I used these 'tactics' and then one d*unken night out everything fell into place."
You went on about it for 3 years? Wow, sounds awful for her. |
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
If she doesn’t want to do it, that’s the end of it.
Don’t try to persuade her into something she doesn’t want, that’s horrible and disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
Looking at your pictures Dave, I would love it too  |
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
Does she know your on fab? |
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
Is that your wife in your two first photos?? |
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If you've discussed it and dropped a few hints and she's not interested I'd leave it there.
If, however, you are more determined than that; as others have said, ask her directly what are her thoughts on you both swinging together?
Be upfront about it. If you can't/won't show her your current profile and be guided by her reaction then you've fallen at the first hurdle. This lifestyle is all about communication and trust. Be honest, not only with her, but yourself! |
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play "
Your wife looks pretty hot , great taste in lingerie and likes playing with toys , why push it |
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"Anyone have any experince of conving the other half to attend clubs and start swinging with them
Weve talked qbout it but she never seems to want to do it lol would love take her to a club n watch her play
Does she know your on fab?"
Does she know she is on fab? |
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My wife was shy and reserved.
It took a long time to convince her to have sex with another man. But she told me that she didn't want me to fuck other women as she would get too jealous.
Me and my mate managed to seduce her on our settee.
Now she is up for almost anything and is totally uninhibited.
She does play with him alone when I can't be with her. But when we all get together it's amazing watching him fucking her and then DVP with me joining in which she loves
So my advice is take things very slowly and make sure your wife is comfortable as things progress |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't push the issue, it took me 3 years of subtle - but regular - suggestion.
Be creative, tell her of the benefits you see for both her AND your relationship. Try and use it during foreplay & roleplay when you have sex.
I used these 'tactics' and then one d*unken night out everything fell into place.
You went on about it for 3 years? Wow, sounds awful for her. "
Dunno why you say that, she never ever told me to 'shut up' or to stop. I think she just wanted to be certain it was something she definitely wanted to try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she never seems to want to do it"
This is the biggest hint she's not interested.
Sounds like your interest not hers. Stop trying to convince her to cater to what you want whilst totally disregarding what she wants. |
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Be careful what you wish for and opening up a Pandoras Box.
It sounds great to say you want to watch your wife play but when she’s taking other guys cocks on a regular basis and enjoying it, then you have to be mentally strong to accept that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't push the issue, it took me 3 years of subtle - but regular - suggestion.
Be creative, tell her of the benefits you see for both her AND your relationship. Try and use it during foreplay & roleplay when you have sex.
I used these 'tactics' and then one d*unken night out everything fell into place.
You went on about it for 3 years? Wow, sounds awful for her.
Dunno why you say that, she never ever told me to 'shut up' or to stop. I think she just wanted to be certain it was something she definitely wanted to try."
Or you were that relentless that you wore her down?
If someone was interested in doing something, do you think it would take 3 years to convince them? |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Don't push the issue, it took me 3 years of subtle - but regular - suggestion.
Be creative, tell her of the benefits you see for both her AND your relationship. Try and use it during foreplay & roleplay when you have sex.
I used these 'tactics' and then one d*unken night out everything fell into place.
You went on about it for 3 years? Wow, sounds awful for her.
Dunno why you say that, she never ever told me to 'shut up' or to stop. I think she just wanted to be certain it was something she definitely wanted to try.
Or you were that relentless that you wore her down?
If someone was interested in doing something, do you think it would take 3 years to convince them? "
My wife had issues with confidence due to her size but also her experience. When we chatted about it - whether it be just 'in general' or during foreplay she wasn't exactly in a headlock and she in return asked me a lot of questions about the scene, which I was happy to find and provide answers for - so that she was fully informed and had all information to hand to make a balanced and informed final decision.
The reason it took so long was that (at the start) we had a young family and also health issues with her side of the family. They always took priority and during those times 'the scene' took a backseat, it was never meant to be all consuming - just a bit of naughty fun.
Rachel was never coerced - or ever felt forced - to do anything she didn't want to do. Even now she dictates the levels to which she would like to go to & I am more than happy to support her to do so. |
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