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By *ikeywest OP   Man  over a year ago

Bournemouth

A fellow sex buddy told me about this site which she has also signed up on and very kindly verified me Been on here a few weeks now.......no interest yet

not entirely great on writing profiles but what would you think could be added/changed and are pics ok in your opinion

thanks for replying x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't waste you're time messaging , winking etc. Have learnt from experience that this is a waste of time, you also have no idea who you are messaging because of all the fakers. you're messages 9.9% of the time will also be ignored. So wait till some one finds you. That's my advice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's your profile at the end of the day, so it should reflect you and what you want from the site as opposed to what other people think you should have.

I will offer my 10 penneth tho :

31 Male Originally From West Moors Now Living In West Howe Bournemouth Dorset......

Not necessary, we can see you are male, you are 31 and that you live in Bournemouth

i will use condoms if you need me to

this suggests you will push for bareback if at all possible. honest, yes, but it will lose you some interest immediately

Im tall 6ft 1in slightly greying but this is me and its the real thing

We can see that in the pics - and don't knock being grey, some ladies like it !

i might be new on on but don't let that stop you messaging me, you never know what might happen

- corny !

i have BBM as well if you're interested to swap pins and chat and swap pics

- looks like you might be more interested in cyber fun than physical meets

On other things, your first pic does you more justice than the 2nd, but both pics are clear so that's a good thing

Maybe add some tasteful body / torso shots ?

Cannot accom - be prepared to answer why that is as to many it will suggest (rightly or wrongly) that you are married / partnered and playing away.

There really is no wrong or right profile as what is attractive to some will put others off.

There are however profiles that sell a person better than others.

Again, without going into detail :

- a little about you (other than what we can see)

- what your interests sexually are

- who you seek and what you seek

- what new experiences you might wish to try

- no essays

- short, clippy and too the point

- witty / funny

Be polite, respectful, honest and above all else patient. People have lives away from the site.

The site isn't instashag - things take time to develop.

Be prepared to verify yourself by phone / cam and social meets - that may or may not develop into the sexual.

Remember you are here as a single male and the ratio of males to females and couples is not in your favour.

If speaking to a couple, refer to both, not just 1

Hope those pointers help and hope you can make the site work for you

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By *ikeywest OP   Man  over a year ago

Bournemouth

thank you for opinion will go away and rethink a lot and have a another write up

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