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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just wondering what your advice would be to a guy whos looking to take cock for the first time. I want to be fucked and want to know would i be better of with a smaller cock or is it all about position and forplay. Any advice received would be appreciated. |
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Use the grocery test.
You should train yourself to get used to it first.
Start with something easy like a carrot or two.
Then move onto something bigger, like a courgette.
When you’ve mastered the courgette and only then can you move onto the aubergine.
Aubergine is when you know you’re ready.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Use the grocery test.
You should train yourself to get used to it first.
Start with something easy like a carrot or two.
Then move onto something bigger, like a courgette.
When you’ve mastered the courgette and only then can you move onto the aubergine.
Aubergine is when you know you’re ready.
Please never invite me for a meal
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By *ancambCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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Practice on your own - fingers, candle, dildo, vegetable medley as previously suggested. When it comes to The First Time, be in a position you can really relax in - lying on your side is good. Breathe deeply. Yes, it can hurt initially, but you'll soon relax and be banging away like a steam hammer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to all who sent messages iv a lot to think about please carry on telling me about your first times also the guys who chated on the phone.....loved it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time for me last week! Lube is a must (and more lube on top), some pre training (as suggested before but aubergine may be taking it a bit to far for a beginner) and choose the right person. If you like the guy you can relax a bit more, and make sure he isn't hung. Don't run before you can walk; otherwise walking maybe difficult. |
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"Use the grocery test.
You should train yourself to get used to it first.
Start with something easy like a carrot or two.
Then move onto something bigger, like a courgette.
When you’ve mastered the courgette and only then can you move onto the aubergine.
Aubergine is when you know you’re ready.
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surely there is the cucumber stage pre aubergine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust and relaxation are important. Patience is also key. Plenty of lube and foreplay to warm up and a top who knows what they are doing and will take your guidance.
Sometimes going on too will help as you can control the penetration at a speed you’re comfortable with
Once it’s first in take a moment to breath relax and adjust before he goes in a bit further and so on until he’s all in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shove a large butt plug up, lubed, for 3 or 4 hrs before.
Make sure to not eat for 8 hrs before and douche or enema a few times to clear system.
If you have a dildo then use that for 30 mins before, then plug back up.
Lots of lube |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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As others have said lots of lube.
Personally it doesn't matter so much the size of the cock but it does help if they are rock hard.
Position wise I always find it best doggy, but I prefer backing onto the cock (initially) at my own pace so I can let my body adjust to the size and fullness |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"So definatley not a 9inch can sized cock rhen is what im getting from the advice. Save that fir the 2nd time"
I’d say it’s about girth. Thinner the better of course.
However it’s not the same about lengths. Short cocks will hit your prostate that could be quite uncomfortable where as long cock will glide through and give really nice pleasures filling.
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He means nitrous. Stupid idea. First time don't use ANY aromas, chemicals or numbing aagents. You listen to what your body is telling you. "Enhancers" will make you think your more capable than you think. That's when damage gets done. |
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Cleanse, clean, lubricate, dilate, penetrate. Emphasis on the first four stages. Practice alone remember it's not about depth, the speed or force you can take it. PLEASE don't use anything that will numb the pain. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong and rushing. You can do serious damage by not listening to your body. Slow and steady. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cleanse, clean, lubricate, dilate, penetrate. Emphasis on the first four stages. Practice alone remember it's not about depth, the speed or force you can take it. PLEASE don't use anything that will numb the pain. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong and rushing. You can do serious damage by not listening to your body. Slow and steady. "
Thank you |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Cleanse, clean, lubricate, dilate, penetrate. Emphasis on the first four stages. Practice alone remember it's not about depth, the speed or force you can take it. PLEASE don't use anything that will numb the pain. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong and rushing. You can do serious damage by not listening to your body. Slow and steady. "
Beware of the farmers, as no matter how much lube there is, they can still cause pain and spoil the party. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take it gentle and easy, practice first, small dildo then work up. Plenty of lube is key and so is relaxation. Breathing also helps and then once you’re into the rhythm it’s all good |
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By *d_PrestonMan
over a year ago
Preston, Leyland, Chorley & Blackpool areas |
"Cleanse, clean, lubricate, dilate, penetrate. Emphasis on the first four stages. Practice alone remember it's not about depth, the speed or force you can take it. PLEASE don't use anything that will numb the pain. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong and rushing. You can do serious damage by not listening to your body. Slow and steady. "
Most definitely this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before anyone actually does anal may I strongly suggest personal hygiene is considered first of all!
As a gay man I know first hand that accidents happen, its just one of those things, we play with the (bottom) you expect from time to time someone might be a bit messy. So before doing anything use the bathroom, have a good clear out.
Then using a douch, insert and spray water up yourself. This you then release into the toilet (like a waterfall but not quite niagra falls) continue to do so until you are clear. Then relax and enjoy putting all sorts of things up there lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to all.of you. Iv just been in the shower and have graduated to 4 fingers inside my ass while in there. three felt amazzing all the way up to my hand but 4 wow. I honestly think when iv taken one cock i will taking as many as i can |
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