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By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago
Warwickshire / Birmingham |
Hi everyone,
I'm not new to this site, as I was previously part of a swinging couple. We went to house parties, clubs and had private meets with some great people, making some 'real life' friends along the way. We never seemed to have any problems meeting, playing etc
However we split up in April, and I've been trying to carry on as a single, using a new profile. I'm finding it really hard to get any replies to my messages or winks. Would any of you forum users care to look at my profile and give me feedback, or any other general advice? I'm totally comfortable with the scene, atmosphere, and rules. But I'm getting really dispirited by lack of responses.
Thanks all - Mark x  |
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Personally, I can't see what else you can do to improve your profile: one of the better ones I've seen.
I can only assume it's because you appear to be looking for a "girlfriend" and that could put people off as it triggers "needy alert". |
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By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago
Warwickshire / Birmingham |
"Personally, I can't see what else you can do to improve your profile: one of the better ones I've seen.
I can only assume it's because you appear to be looking for a "girlfriend" and that could put people off as it triggers "needy alert". "
That's very kind, and also very helpful. I'll look for better wording, as I'm not looking for a gf as such, but a swinging buddy, or regular party date would be fantastic xx |
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By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago
Warwickshire / Birmingham |
"agree with the above.. but 3 cock pics out of 4 mite not help either  "
True enough, I better add some face / normal pics eh?
I always include face pics when I message though - and still get hardly any replies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, I can't see what else you can do to improve your profile: one of the better ones I've seen.
I can only assume it's because you appear to be looking for a "girlfriend" and that could put people off as it triggers "needy alert".
That's very kind, and also very helpful. I'll look for better wording, as I'm not looking for a gf as such, but a swinging buddy, or regular party date would be fantastic xx "
I agree, it's a good profile. I can't see anything off-putting. Good luck finding play partners. |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
Welcome to jungle of single male profile
Don't expect the same as with a couple profile
As long as you know that you are at your own and face it, you will be fine. Don't just wink or send random message. Am sure you hated when you were a couple to get bombarded with messages from single males
Take everyday as it comes and you will get lucky. Or just go back to those you meet before and see what you can get back
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also it's a different world being a single .You will be looking for a single lady and wow do they get mail or for a couple who will share with another guy , .We were both single swingers before we met and now know both sides .As a couple you look for something that turns both of us on but when we were single we only had ourselves to consider .Good Luck |
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By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago
Warwickshire / Birmingham |
Thanks everyone, I've updated my profile slightly and added face pics. Now just add patience & luck, and I could be having fun again. I really don't fancy going to club nights as a single male. |
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