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over a year ago
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So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely. |
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely. "
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
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Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings 
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely. "
I think I understand where you're coming from.
Problem with phone calls, they're immediate, can be intrusive and a distraction.
At least in a site message we can read and respond at our leisure.
Keep at it, there's no right answer, no quick result, no quick success. It's often more about timing than anything else.
Have a look in the meets forum, get yourself off to a few group socials, let people see the real person behind the profile, network.
Things will start to happen when you start to use every option available to you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok "
This might be why you've not had much success. Turning a response into something sexual at the first opportunity isn't great.... 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
This might be why you've not had much success. Turning a response into something sexual at the first opportunity isn't great....
Winston"
Dear Winston,
It's called having a sense of humour.
Thank you for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
This might be why you've not had much success. Turning a response into something sexual at the first opportunity isn't great....
Winston
Dear Winston,
It's called having a sense of humour.
Thank you for the advice "
Know your audience. 
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely. "
There's so many people who absolutely hate talking on the phone to even their own family, nevermind strangers.
Personally I have turned down 100% of all phone call/face time requests and will continue doing so - not my thing. It's beyond awkward. Bad enough I have to do talk to people on the phone at work.
About arranging a meet...
Maybe your wording isn't hitting the spot.
If someone I've been chatting to said they wanted to arrange a meet - I'd be like no thanks.
If that same person would ask if I'd like to grab a coffee/drink with them sometime - I'd say yes!
How you word things is how you project your expectations from a person you're chatting to.
Hope this helps
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
This might be why you've not had much success. Turning a response into something sexual at the first opportunity isn't great....
Winston"
Agree. What a silly comment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
This might be why you've not had much success. Turning a response into something sexual at the first opportunity isn't great....
Winston
Agree. What a silly comment "
You have picked up on a tongue in cheek comment I have made on a forum of a website that promotes sex. Adding some humour.
Stop trying to make something out of nothing. The brief interactions I have had with ladies on here will prove I am not one that that goes into sexual talk.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
Wow, what a snotty response  "
Its not being read in the way it was intended as I have explained above. That's ok too
Text talk can easily be misunderstood. Which kinda proves why it's good to talk |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""Text talk can easily be misunderstood" therefore a careful choice of word is essential."
No thanks if people want to make their own assumptions. That's really not my concern. I've made my point. Move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No thanks if people want to make their own assumptions. That's really not my concern. I've made my point. Move on.
Your way or the highway it is then . Hope you find a woman to talk to on here "
Another assumption lol
It will be the death of human civilisation.
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok "
Ah yes, thanks for your permission to carry on. Not.
It's very clear to the readers of this thread why you're not getting what you want and I've said it many times, when folk get the difference between random fucking and swinging, they will all be a lot calmer and fulfilled. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
Ah yes, thanks for your permission to carry on. Not.
It's very clear to the readers of this thread why you're not getting what you want and I've said it many times, when folk get the difference between random fucking and swinging, they will all be a lot calmer and fulfilled."
Huh?
I may have mentioned this before on another thread. I'm not a swinger and it's ok if you are so you're not for me as are the few others that have tried to bring negativity to this thread.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to keep my swinging communications on here as it keeps the boundary between my swinging activities and my “real life”. "
Merci pour le message |
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
Ah yes, thanks for your permission to carry on. Not.
It's very clear to the readers of this thread why you're not getting what you want and I've said it many times, when folk get the difference between random fucking and swinging, they will all be a lot calmer and fulfilled.
Huh?
I may have mentioned this before on another thread. I'm not a swinger and it's ok if you are so you're not for me as are the few others that have tried to bring negativity to this thread.
Do I have permission to have a sense of humour now "
Your original answer to me was not the slightest bit humerous, rather an unnecessary dig.
You remain unfunny.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
I barely talk to my children on the phone!
I don't talk on the phone to anybody from Fab and as you've discovered, not many people do.
Guessing you don't have much to talk about and you prefer to use your oral energy in other surroundings
Which is ok
Ah yes, thanks for your permission to carry on. Not.
It's very clear to the readers of this thread why you're not getting what you want and I've said it many times, when folk get the difference between random fucking and swinging, they will all be a lot calmer and fulfilled.
Huh?
I may have mentioned this before on another thread. I'm not a swinger and it's ok if you are so you're not for me as are the few others that have tried to bring negativity to this thread.
Do I have permission to have a sense of humour now
Your original answer to me was not the slightest bit humerous, rather an unnecessary dig.
You remain unfunny.
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You should stop insulting me now
I have explained how I meant it. Please don't try to tell me what I was thinking.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely.
There's so many people who absolutely hate talking on the phone to even their own family, nevermind strangers.
Personally I have turned down 100% of all phone call/face time requests and will continue doing so - not my thing. It's beyond awkward. Bad enough I have to do talk to people on the phone at work.
About arranging a meet...
Maybe your wording isn't hitting the spot.
If someone I've been chatting to said they wanted to arrange a meet - I'd be like no thanks.
If that same person would ask if I'd like to grab a coffee/drink with them sometime - I'd say yes!
How you word things is how you project your expectations from a person you're chatting to.
Hope this helps
Missus "
Thanks Missus, sound advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm wondering why you want to chat on the phone? If it's because your lonely(sorry to hear that) there are other groups for that
If it's for sex talk (most likely) I find most won't do this.
I don't do this, what would we talk about when I don't know you?
I don't enjoy chatting on the phone in general and if I do I have friends and family for that.
Sorry not helpful.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering why you want to chat on the phone? If it's because your lonely(sorry to hear that) there are other groups for that
If it's for sex talk (most likely) I find most won't do this.
I don't do this, what would we talk about when I don't know you?
I don't enjoy chatting on the phone in general and if I do I have friends and family for that.
Sorry not helpful.
Mrs x"
Single people get to know each other and lots to talk about, it ain't only about sex.
You have made an assumption.
Sex talk doesn't do anything for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm wondering why you want to chat on the phone? If it's because your lonely(sorry to hear that) there are other groups for that
If it's for sex talk (most likely) I find most won't do this.
I don't do this, what would we talk about when I don't know you?
I don't enjoy chatting on the phone in general and if I do I have friends and family for that.
Sorry not helpful.
Mrs x
Single people get to know each other and lots to talk about, it ain't only about sex.
You have made an assumption.
Sex talk doesn't do anything for me.
Thank you for posting "
The assumption probably came from being on a swinging site.
We make connections easily through messages that lead to great meets.
I do however wish you well and hope you find what your looking for.
Mrs x
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Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm wondering why you want to chat on the phone? If it's because your lonely(sorry to hear that) there are other groups for that
If it's for sex talk (most likely) I find most won't do this.
I don't do this, what would we talk about when I don't know you?
I don't enjoy chatting on the phone in general and if I do I have friends and family for that.
Sorry not helpful.
Mrs x
Single people get to know each other and lots to talk about, it ain't only about sex.
You have made an assumption.
Sex talk doesn't do anything for me.
Thank you for posting
The assumption probably came from being on a swinging site.
We make connections easily through messages that lead to great meets.
I do however wish you well and hope you find what your looking for.
Mrs x
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Some of us are able to have a decent conversation that can lead to potentially meeting. I do like to know the person a bit more than just text.
I guess I'm not very good at building a connection via text. Especially when chats go silent and it's deemed disrespectful and desperate to send another message when you have not received a reply.
I can only talk about my experience as a single guy. Maybe it's different for females and couples.
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"Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab?"
Not a swinger but is on a swingers site!
The plot thickens! Bit confusing!
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab?
Not a swinger but is on a swingers site!
The plot thickens! Bit confusing!
Mrs x"
Why are you trying to create a plot
It's pretty straightforward really I like to talk to build a connection and setup a meet. It proves I am who I say and vice versa. We get to know each other a little and I like to know what a person sounds like, that could potentially be the reason a meet does/doesn't take place. Don't want to be wasting my time messaging someone who doesn't even meet the first criteria and once again vice versa.
I think you may find some others don't exactly think they are swingers but find themselves on this site. |
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Being perfectly honest most people on here (& I am generalizing here) aren’t necessarily interested in the getting to know you, chatting bit. Most just want to find out if they are physically attracted to someone & then skip straight to the nitty gritty. If you are not into the swinging lifestyle & want to build up a deep & meaningful relationship with just one lady (as per your profile) you would probably be better off on a dating site. There may be ladies out there looking for that connection with one person on here but will be like finding a needle in a haystack. Let’s see if anyone takes up your coffee meet offer. Good luck with it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab?
Not a swinger but is on a swingers site!
The plot thickens! Bit confusing!
Mrs x"
You're easily confused aren't you. |
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"Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab?
Not a swinger but is on a swingers site!
The plot thickens! Bit confusing!
Mrs x
Why are you trying to create a plot
It's pretty straightforward really I like to talk to build a connection and setup a meet. It proves I am who I say and vice versa. We get to know each other a little and I like to know what a person sounds like, that could potentially be the reason a meet does/doesn't take place. Don't want to be wasting my time messaging someone who doesn't even meet the first criteria and once again vice versa.
I think you may find some others don't exactly think they are swingers but find themselves on this site. "
It's likely a good way to find out it's really a woman you're chatting to and not some bloke.
Unfortunately many men turn a normal conversation into wank chat so many women will be wary of talking on the phone to a man they haven't met in person. Bit of a catch 22.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab?
Not a swinger but is on a swingers site!
The plot thickens! Bit confusing!
Mrs x
Why are you trying to create a plot
It's pretty straightforward really I like to talk to build a connection and setup a meet. It proves I am who I say and vice versa. We get to know each other a little and I like to know what a person sounds like, that could potentially be the reason a meet does/doesn't take place. Don't want to be wasting my time messaging someone who doesn't even meet the first criteria and once again vice versa.
I think you may find some others don't exactly think they are swingers but find themselves on this site.
It's likely a good way to find out it's really a woman you're chatting to and not some bloke.
Unfortunately many men turn a normal conversation into wank chat so many women will be wary of talking on the phone to a man they haven't met in person. Bit of a catch 22.
Good luck. "
Thank you for a positive post
With this being a site that promotes sex it would be silly to think the conversation won't have some kind of flirting.
Is that not part of the build up ?
As for the wank material on a phone chat with someone that you have never met. This is not part of my interests.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Go ahead and read through your responses on here and see if you can figure out why you're having no luck. Intentional or not, you come across as a bit of an arrogant dick tbh. This is to people whom you asked advice from aswell so I can't imagine what the actual private conversations are like. |
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"Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab?
Not a swinger but is on a swingers site!
The plot thickens! Bit confusing!
Mrs x
Why are you trying to create a plot
It's pretty straightforward really I like to talk to build a connection and setup a meet. It proves I am who I say and vice versa. We get to know each other a little and I like to know what a person sounds like, that could potentially be the reason a meet does/doesn't take place. Don't want to be wasting my time messaging someone who doesn't even meet the first criteria and once again vice versa.
I think you may find some others don't exactly think they are swingers but find themselves on this site.
It's likely a good way to find out it's really a woman you're chatting to and not some bloke.
Unfortunately many men turn a normal conversation into wank chat so many women will be wary of talking on the phone to a man they haven't met in person. Bit of a catch 22.
Good luck.
Thank you for a positive post
With this being a site that promotes sex it would be silly to think the conversation won't have some kind of flirting.
Is that not part of the build up ?
As for the wank material on a phone chat with someone that you have never met. This is not part of my interests.
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I don’t think the basis of this site is to promote sex
There will be some who think it’s a way of finding sex, however, for me, the social side is as important, in fact more important than sex
I’ve had more meets off other online dating apps.
What this gives me is the ability to talk to like minded people but that doesn’t mean we all want sex with each other.
That is exactly the type of message and person I block whether male, female, tv/ts or couple if they think it’s just for sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agree with the last lady’s comment. Maybe if we understand your motives/what type of telephone conversation you want with someone we can provide better advice. Also I noticed in previous comments you mentioned OP that you are not a swinger so not sure what you are hoping to get from a swingers site such as fab?
Not a swinger but is on a swingers site!
The plot thickens! Bit confusing!
Mrs x
Why are you trying to create a plot
It's pretty straightforward really I like to talk to build a connection and setup a meet. It proves I am who I say and vice versa. We get to know each other a little and I like to know what a person sounds like, that could potentially be the reason a meet does/doesn't take place. Don't want to be wasting my time messaging someone who doesn't even meet the first criteria and once again vice versa.
I think you may find some others don't exactly think they are swingers but find themselves on this site.
It's likely a good way to find out it's really a woman you're chatting to and not some bloke.
Unfortunately many men turn a normal conversation into wank chat so many women will be wary of talking on the phone to a man they haven't met in person. Bit of a catch 22.
Good luck.
Thank you for a positive post
With this being a site that promotes sex it would be silly to think the conversation won't have some kind of flirting.
Is that not part of the build up ?
As for the wank material on a phone chat with someone that you have never met. This is not part of my interests.
I don’t think the basis of this site is to promote sex
There will be some who think it’s a way of finding sex, however, for me, the social side is as important, in fact more important than sex
I’ve had more meets off other online dating apps.
What this gives me is the ability to talk to like minded people but that doesn’t mean we all want sex with each other.
That is exactly the type of message and person I block whether male, female, tv/ts or couple if they think it’s just for sex "
Thank you for posting.
I agree with you mostly.
We are just two opinions of many, I'm sure others would have differing opinions to what we have shared. This is why there are so many people with differing interests on here.
For me it's making a connection with one female and enjoying anything else that may follow.
The famous saying 'two is company and more is a crowd' or something along those lines. |
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"Go ahead and read through your responses on here and see if you can figure out why you're having no luck. Intentional or not, you come across as a bit of an arrogant dick tbh. This is to people whom you asked advice from aswell so I can't imagine what the actual private conversations are like. "
There was no need for that tbh. Thanks for your contribution though |
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I take my hat off to you buddy , i think you kept your calm really well in the face of a fair bit of criticism. I do tend to think you are after something this site may not offer but keep going and you never know ?? dan |
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"I take my hat off to you buddy , i think you kept your calm really well in the face of a fair bit of criticism. I do tend to think you are after something this site may not offer but keep going and you never know ?? dan "
Thanks Dan |
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"So, I was wondering if there are any ladies on here that are looking to talk(real talk, on phone) to build a connection and possibly arrange to meet.
I have found messages get ignored and the moment you mention talking on the phone to arrange a meet, they stop replying. To be honest its not my place to question them as to why this happens but I know they are not for me.
Straight, single male living alone which can get a bit lonely. "
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