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over a year ago
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I get that , we have done the couples profile thing and all we got was fake couples turning out to be single guys so I thought I’d give this way a try at least the single guys wouldn’t get in touch , can live in hope  |
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"I get that , we have done the couples profile thing and all we got was fake couples turning out to be single guys so I thought I’d give this way a try at least the single guys wouldn’t get in touch , can live in hope "
There's a certain irony to a man on a single profile trying to meet as a couple complaining about single men pretending to be couples.
You might well understand people's cynicism  |
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"I get that , we have done the couples profile thing and all we got was fake couples turning out to be single guys so I thought I’d give this way a try at least the single guys wouldn’t get in touch , can live in hope "
So basically, if you can't beat em, join em! |
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over a year ago
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A single profile is different surely ? I’m not pretending to be a couple I have asked a legitimate question with no pretence  I see a female friend who would like a female or bi couple to meet with us , she’s very much ok with being contacted so people know she exists |
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"A single profile is different surely ? I’m not pretending to be a couple I have asked a legitimate question with no pretence I see a female friend who would like a female or bi couple to meet with us , she’s very much ok with being contacted so people know she exists "
But makes you think anyone is going to believe that? You've said yourself that you've been messed about by guys pretending go be couples so it's a bit pointless trying to claim you are a couple through a single guys account.
Do you not see how silly that looks? |
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The trouble with your approach is you're unable to be photo verified as a couple, you have no photos of her on your profile and you have no mention of her whatsoever in your bio.
I've had a fair few men message me using the same technique as you but each time I tell them to go away and come back when they've got a proper couples profile sorted. |
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"A single profile is different surely ? I’m not pretending to be a couple I have asked a legitimate question with no pretence I see a female friend who would like a female or bi couple to meet with us , she’s very much ok with being contacted so people know she exists "
Single men pretending to be couples will still contact you on your profile.
I suggest that you and your friend set up a couples profile, set your filters so that nobody can contact you, get photo verified then use then search feature to look for couples yourself. |
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"I get that , we have done the couples profile thing and all we got was fake couples turning out to be single guys so I thought I’d give this way a try at least the single guys wouldn’t get in touch , can live in hope
There's a certain irony to a man on a single profile trying to meet as a couple complaining about single men pretending to be couples.
You might well understand people's cynicism "
Hit the nail on the head! |
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"This thread gives me hope that one day, two single men will meet in a hotel room thinking the other is a couple."
Hahah it's probably already happened.
But we wouldn't entertain anyone claiming to be a couple on a singles account. If you're a couple, get a couples account.
Same with the singles pretending to we a couple! We can spot them a mile off |
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There's absolutely nothing to suggest you're a couple. Why would anyone waste their time trying to find out? Even if you were both on a couple's account that might make a bit if sense. Will wait for you to update us when you've set up your couple's account. |
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"A single profile is different surely ? I’m not pretending to be a couple I have asked a legitimate question with no pretence I see a female friend who would like a female or bi couple to meet with us , she’s very much ok with being contacted so people know she exists "
Fair enough, perfectly legitimate to ask. There plenty of couples who have single profiles, us included. But I assume you'll recognise its a particularly tough sell without a couples profile or even the ladies single profile to reference. |
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"A single profile is different surely ? I’m not pretending to be a couple I have asked a legitimate question with no pretence I see a female friend who would like a female or bi couple to meet with us , she’s very much ok with being contacted so people know she exists
Single men pretending to be couples will still contact you on your profile.
I suggest that you and your friend set up a couples profile, set your filters so that nobody can contact you, get photo verified then use then search feature to look for couples yourself. "
Absolutely this |
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