A lot of people state their preferences in their profiles - so you'd do very well to read them, before messaging, if you're married.
1 thing that's a clear interest, is the level of permission that a married partner has given to the other. What are the agreed limits, or are there none? |
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Some will prefer married as less hassell of commitment etc
But whatever your circumstances are OP - just state it in your profile so people can make an informed choice
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Some will prefer married as less hassell of commitment etc
But whatever your circumstances are OP - just state it in your profile so people can make an informed choice
J xx "
Less hassle until the wife finds out.
How would anyone feel being treated the same way?? |
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An old girlfriend and swinging partner did actually prefer married guys simply because, they were likely to be more cautious in that they were less likely to risk taking an anti social disease home with them, and the chances of them becoming stalkers was quite remote. Maybe she had a point. |
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I've had a handful of meets with couples which came about specifically because I was married - the reduced likelihood of becoming emotionally attached or involved has been cited a couple of times, as has the fact that they knew absolute discretion could be relied upon...
....women who actually prefer married men because they're married are few and far between - I was lucky enough to be found by one, for whom getting what my wife wasn't interested in was a huge turn-on...
....and the fact that she was playing with me behind her hubby's back simply added to the excitement...  |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"I've had a handful of meets with couples which came about specifically because I was married - the reduced likelihood of becoming emotionally attached or involved has been cited a couple of times, as has the fact that they knew absolute discretion could be relied upon...
....women who actually prefer married men because they're married are few and far between - I was lucky enough to be found by one, for whom getting what my wife wasn't interested in was a huge turn-on...
....and the fact that she was playing with me behind her hubby's back simply added to the excitement... "
So you were both cheating.
Outstanding.
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Personally I will not meet a man or woman that is married and doesn’t have a hall pass or the other half plays with. If they will lie to the person they has taken vows with they will most likely lie about anything and everything to get what they want.
And if the profile says cannot host and it isn’t explained why in the profile that screams committed and the other party doesn’t know or they live in mom’s basement. Neither of which is thrilling. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Any women here actually prefer married men?!
Hi OP I’m sure there are, but I wouldn’t expect many to admit it here because of the absolute slagging they receive when admitting it! "
they are easy to spot |
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Personally I think this is a highly inaccurate representation of those are attached in some way or another to another person either legally or by way of a relationship of some kind.
There are many on here, men and women, married or not playing the field, with or without the consent of their significant other.
Everyone in life has lied to someone or another at some point in his or her lives.
It doesn’t make them a bad person, equally it’s not seen to be best quality to find in someone.
As long as they bring no drama, piss, poo or pain to my doorstep, I am not here to judge them.
Me? Well I live by the moto that someone who will lie for you will lie to you.
That pretty much rules out majority of the population.
The country is currently run by a liar and a team or liars. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Personally I think this is a highly inaccurate representation of those are attached in some way or another to another person either legally or by way of a relationship of some kind.
There are many on here, men and women, married or not playing the field, with or without the consent of their significant other.
Everyone in life has lied to someone or another at some point in his or her lives.
It doesn’t make them a bad person, equally it’s not seen to be best quality to find in someone.
As long as they bring no drama, piss, poo or pain to my doorstep, I am not here to judge them.
Me? Well I live by the moto that someone who will lie for you will lie to you.
That pretty much rules out majority of the population.
The country is currently run by a liar and a team or liars."
Lying to the person that is supposed to be your life partner, and a lot of the time share your children, is the lowest of the low.
It does not compare to lying about other things.
It DOES actually make them bad people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think this is a highly inaccurate representation of those are attached in some way or another to another person either legally or by way of a relationship of some kind.
There are many on here, men and women, married or not playing the field, with or without the consent of their significant other.
Everyone in life has lied to someone or another at some point in his or her lives.
It doesn’t make them a bad person, equally it’s not seen to be best quality to find in someone.
As long as they bring no drama, piss, poo or pain to my doorstep, I am not here to judge them.
Me? Well I live by the moto that someone who will lie for you will lie to you.
That pretty much rules out majority of the population.
The country is currently run by a liar and a team or liars.
Lying to the person that is supposed to be your life partner, and a lot of the time share your children, is the lowest of the low.
It does not compare to lying about other things.
It DOES actually make them bad people."
AGREED! |
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