A: A verification won't necessarily help (you'll still have to put the effort in)
B: Many of us ignore cam verifications, and assume the person only wants to cam, not meet for real.
So go to a club or social if you're that keen to get verified.
HOWEVER, a verification is NOT a magic bullet and on most cases - yours included - lack of verifications is not the main problem. |
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If you were able to accommodate in the comfort of your own home, you'd soon get off the starting blocks. Being able to accommodate, without obviously giving out your address until after several telephone conversations for your own security, including the lady if they are a couple, sends out the certain messages to people.
1) They can have complete anonymity if required with no nosey neighbours and twitching curtains.
2) They can meet up outside of their home environment where they may have family residing.
3) The location where you reside is within their comfort zone, and you are likely to maintain certain standards.
4) For the benefit of the judgemental who say that they don't meet married guys, it demonstrates that there is no wife or partner lurking in the background.
If you can tick all those boxes, the chances are that they will find you, and you will also find that established guys who have an FWB, or know people who can't accommodate will want to get to know you, then you'll soon get well verified. |
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Hi OP, it’s a weird coincidence that you’ve asked as I was chatting to a woman a few days ago who said she’s always happy to meet unverified men and she said she especially likes men who’ve made absolutely no effort with their profile but still expect women to meet them because it shows how little respect they have for women. She especially wanted to meet someone with only dic pics on his profile and even said she didn’t mind if he’s been a member for over a year but his bio says nothing other than something like ‘I’m new here’ because that means that in a year at least he hasn’t thought of anything interesting to say in his bio so there won’t be any interesting conversation, just sex.
If you DM me I’ll give you her username |
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"If you were able to accommodate in the comfort of your own home, you'd soon get off the starting blocks. Being able to accommodate, without obviously giving out your address until after several telephone conversations for your own security, including the lady if they are a couple, sends out the certain messages to people.
1) They can have complete anonymity if required with no nosey neighbours and twitching curtains.
2) They can meet up outside of their home environment where they may have family residing.
3) The location where you reside is within their comfort zone, and you are likely to maintain certain standards.
4) For the benefit of the judgemental who say that they don't meet married guys, it demonstrates that there is no wife or partner lurking in the background.
If you can tick all those boxes, the chances are that they will find you, and you will also find that established guys who have an FWB, or know people who can't accommodate will want to get to know you, then you'll soon get well verified. "
Not for everyone. I never assume someone should accommodate, and wouldn't refuse to meet based on that. No one should feel forced to welcome strangers into their home, especially when no one knows their home situation. Those who won't/can't accommodate are as deserving to meet as those that can/will. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
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"Hi OP, it’s a weird coincidence that you’ve asked as I was chatting to a woman a few days ago who said she’s always happy to meet unverified men and she said she especially likes men who’ve made absolutely no effort with their profile but still expect women to meet them because it shows how little respect they have for women. She especially wanted to meet someone with only dic pics on his profile and even said she didn’t mind if he’s been a member for over a year but his bio says nothing other than something like ‘I’m new here’ because that means that in a year at least he hasn’t thought of anything interesting to say in his bio so there won’t be any interesting conversation, just sex.
If you DM me I’ll give you her username "
Fab Forums 2021 completed. I'm not going to read a better reply than that one this year 
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