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Forming a male group (5 max) in and around Cambridgeshire
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I am thinking to form a group of straight, normal, easygoing, 40sh years old men from or around Cambridgeshire to host couples and single ladies that enjoy group and gangbang fun.
Anyone interested?
Would that be something that local or visiting couples/single females would be interested in?
Love to hear from all of you.
Ciao
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You could have a broader range of men too, rather than all being very similar. I'm hardly ever in Cambs these days, so I'm not specifically highlighting my needs. Some bi interest from some could be helpful, as a lot of women also like to see men together and they could warm each other up, in between.
With enough diverse men, you could pull enough together that could match the needs of different women  |
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Hi Marco
1) I don’t meet people who exclude bisexual men. The activity doesn’t have to be bi just because bi men are present.
2) Convincing women you’re a safe group of men will be a significant challenge. Some suggestions:
- each of you need a detailed, extremely well verified Fab profile.
- send photos inc face pics of all of you.
- send a photo of some ID each (you’re asking her to trust you all with her safety, if taking a risk yourselves by sharing ID with the woman feels too risky, you’re asking her to be vulnerable in a way you aren’t willing to be).
- decide who is in charge. Who stops the scene if she needs it to be stopped? If someone behaves like a dickhead, who throws him out?
- pick a safe, clean venue.
- who is responsible for condoms etc.
3) How are you vetting the guys? Some guys, who are violent and abusive with women, appear to other guys to be “such a great guy”. Are you good at spotting abusive men? Have you ever spotted one amongst your mates?
In short, if a group of safe guys like this existed, it’d be so much fun but the work required to gather a safe group together would be substantial. |
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"Hi Marco
1) I don’t meet people who exclude bisexual men. The activity doesn’t have to be bi just because bi men are present.
2) Convincing women you’re a safe group of men will be a significant challenge. Some suggestions:
- each of you need a detailed, extremely well verified Fab profile.
- send photos inc face pics of all of you.
- send a photo of some ID each (you’re asking her to trust you all with her safety, if taking a risk yourselves by sharing ID with the woman feels too risky, you’re asking her to be vulnerable in a way you aren’t willing to be).
- decide who is in charge. Who stops the scene if she needs it to be stopped? If someone behaves like a dickhead, who throws him out?
- pick a safe, clean venue.
- who is responsible for condoms etc.
3) How are you vetting the guys? Some guys, who are violent and abusive with women, appear to other guys to be “such a great guy”. Are you good at spotting abusive men? Have you ever spotted one amongst your mates?
In short, if a group of safe guys like this existed, it’d be so much fun but the work required to gather a safe group together would be substantial. "
This is a fantastic post, we have met groups who did all of this.
However, any group where the individuals are not 'accountable' would be a real concern. Most groups on here revolve around a central person saying they can bring xyz amount of people...but by the day of the meet it is only them!   |
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"Hi Marco
1) I don’t meet people who exclude bisexual men. The activity doesn’t have to be bi just because bi men are present.
2) Convincing women you’re a safe group of men will be a significant challenge. Some suggestions:
- each of you need a detailed, extremely well verified Fab profile.
- send photos inc face pics of all of you.
- send a photo of some ID each (you’re asking her to trust you all with her safety, if taking a risk yourselves by sharing ID with the woman feels too risky, you’re asking her to be vulnerable in a way you aren’t willing to be).
- decide who is in charge. Who stops the scene if she needs it to be stopped? If someone behaves like a dickhead, who throws him out?
- pick a safe, clean venue.
- who is responsible for condoms etc.
3) How are you vetting the guys? Some guys, who are violent and abusive with women, appear to other guys to be “such a great guy”. Are you good at spotting abusive men? Have you ever spotted one amongst your mates?
In short, if a group of safe guys like this existed, it’d be so much fun but the work required to gather a safe group together would be substantial. "
Hi thank you for your message
This are all great points and will be considered.
Is not something will happen tomorrow, but I believe can be done.
I am willing to try.
Will let you know how it goes
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"Hi Marco
1) I don’t meet people who exclude bisexual men. The activity doesn’t have to be bi just because bi men are present.
2) Convincing women you’re a safe group of men will be a significant challenge. Some suggestions:
- each of you need a detailed, extremely well verified Fab profile.
- send photos inc face pics of all of you.
- send a photo of some ID each (you’re asking her to trust you all with her safety, if taking a risk yourselves by sharing ID with the woman feels too risky, you’re asking her to be vulnerable in a way you aren’t willing to be).
- decide who is in charge. Who stops the scene if she needs it to be stopped? If someone behaves like a dickhead, who throws him out?
- pick a safe, clean venue.
- who is responsible for condoms etc.
3) How are you vetting the guys? Some guys, who are violent and abusive with women, appear to other guys to be “such a great guy”. Are you good at spotting abusive men? Have you ever spotted one amongst your mates?
In short, if a group of safe guys like this existed, it’d be so much fun but the work required to gather a safe group together would be substantial.
This is a fantastic post, we have met groups who did all of this.
However, any group where the individuals are not 'accountable' would be a real concern. Most groups on here revolve around a central person saying they can bring xyz amount of people...but by the day of the meet it is only them! "
Part of the effort would be find people that are reliable.
As you said though has been done by other I am sure in and around Cambridgeshire there are 5 guys that are serious and kinky |
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