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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are there any genuine couples who would like to meet a guy for a long term regular relationship, i’m willing to give exclusivity to the right couple , am i on the wrong site for this ? |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Yes i’m sure it is , i can only be me , genuine looking for this as a life style , up to couples to decide if they want to get in touch x"
Well you have no photos so that’s going to put the majority off |
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You may find that quite a few hot wife couples already have a regular guy , we have known ours for 11 years , but finding guys you can trust is the hardest thing , tho wife does often play with some guys more than once at club |
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Was seeing a couple for over 10 years on a regular basis and the friendship that came with it. Unfortunately they moved away when they retired down south. We still keep in touch but a very long drive to arrange a meeting. Not been able to find anyone else as yet |
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"Yes i’m sure it is , i can only be me , genuine looking for this as a life style , up to couples to decide if they want to get in touch x
Well you have no photos so that’s going to put the majority off"
Totally |
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This is my ideal situation; a generous husband who is prepared to share his sexy lady. The idea is sublime but difficult to find. So many variables that have to come together; the right couple, the intoxicating lady, the natural frisson and connection, the ideal location/distance, availability ……etc. It’s the perfect storm!
Any couples/ladies want to play in the ‘wet’ please feel free to say hello x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes i’m sure it is , i can only be me , genuine looking for this as a life style , up to couples to decide if they want to get in touch x"
keep chin up mate.
Many can not see the Tree's from the woods. Internet for you.. |
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This is a good site, but can also be a difficult one also.
Lots of fuck and go guys, if you are looking for a long term thing then it might be more difficult on here, same with us couples trying to find serious guys who understand cuckolding can be very difficult. |
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Long term friends is definitely the way forward, so many time wasters on here both single males and couples. The more you experience and explore someone the more enjoyment you will both get as you learn how to push there buttons. This also applies to the cuckold scenario as you learn also what excites the cuck. There has to be a connection for it to work properly.
Rob |
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"This is a good site, but can also be a difficult one also.
Lots of fuck and go guys, if you are looking for a long term thing then it might be more difficult on here, same with us couples trying to find serious guys who understand cuckolding can be very difficult."
Well put, beauty and brains a very attractive combination |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any genuine couples who would like to meet a guy for a long term regular relationship, i’m willing to give exclusivity to the right couple , am i on the wrong site for this ? "
Keep trying but finding the right combination of requirements is a challenge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like this thread, hopefully our hopes and dreams can come true
For the people who have never experienced it good luck and for those of us who have and we have it no more we should stop being greedy ha ha but we still look because it was soo great |
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"I can't understand people getting as far as arranging a meet and then not turning up. I've never let anyone down.
Got to ask, is the first photo in your gallery of a woman??"
Yes, one of my partners |
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there are so many variables thta need to match up.But one clue is always guys who put no effort ino their profiles or messages. if they can't try at that stage there is no chance they wil l try at a long term arrangement- thats our experience
"This is a good site, but can also be a difficult one also.
Lots of fuck and go guys, if you are looking for a long term thing then it might be more difficult on here, same with us couples trying to find serious guys who understand cuckolding can be very difficult."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there are so many variables thta need to match up.But one clue is always guys who put no effort ino their profiles or messages. if they can't try at that stage there is no chance they wil l try at a long term arrangement- thats our experience
This is a good site, but can also be a difficult one also.
Lots of fuck and go guys, if you are looking for a long term thing then it might be more difficult on here, same with us couples trying to find serious guys who understand cuckolding can be very difficult."
I agree with this the guys really needs to put the leg work in but there a few of us who prefer the long term friendships |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really the guys need to put the leg work in, it's not a one sided relationship, all 3 need to work together.
Is the guy joining the couple more lucky than the couple ? Of course not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would love to find a regular guy to be wife's fuck buddy/boyfriend and equally be nice to have a regular MF couple for us both to socialise and play with too! |
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It is hard to find that special couple where all 3 click, but there are real couples that know what they want in a longterm relationship , I have been lucky to have met a longterm couple but like all good thing s come to an end . With a longterm couple you all grow together like dislikes it so exciting so close. |
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I think it’s always difficult to find a male that can fit into a married couples life and be there when the wife needs a servicing, although the benefits of a regular guy are massive, building up a friendship with the couple, taking the hotwife out on dates, servicing her when she needs it, even holidays together ! |
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"Are there any genuine couples who would like to meet a guy for a long term regular relationship, i’m willing to give exclusivity to the right couple , am i on the wrong site for this ? "
Your profile says your a couple? |
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I get lots of messages from couples that say they are interested and start a conversation then nothing!! I’ve met a few couples which have been great but far too many fakes and wannabes!! Couples that ask for BBC and then when you contact them, nothing!! I’m not desperate so it’s up to people what they want but unless you meet, you never know what you have!! Frustrating for all single men I think!! |
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Hi all
Think we might be lucky here as we have found a guy to be a regular fwb
Spent a yr chatting and having social meets wife seemed happy with just this as did he both going around in circles with just a lot of teasing and such
So me being me (i like direct action) took things into my own hands
I first asked wife then the guy if they were serious about going further they both said yes
I then set up a social meet for morning coffee and booked a room in hotel next door
I told wife i would leave them for her to offer tour take him upto room (this i did) and he agreed to they arrived and I was up there in the room
Fun was had by all for the next 2 to 3 hrs yes I feel guilty I pushed the meeting no i dont feel upset we have now had that first meeting and can move on to relaxed further meets as both seem happy to continue
I am a voyeur and live to watch her i am also the alpha and happy to take controll but at all times I will protect both my wife and her new guy
They both want this to be long term and it makes me happy to want this for them and whilst I will video them us nothing will be posted unless they both agree except for profile pic and that is wife and his cum
It does happen just needed an alpha to get it going
Lgw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Think we might be lucky here as we have found a guy to be a regular fwb
Spent a yr chatting and having social meets wife seemed happy with just this as did he both going around in circles with just a lot of teasing and such
So me being me (i like direct action) took things into my own hands
I first asked wife then the guy if they were serious about going further they both said yes
I then set up a social meet for morning coffee and booked a room in hotel next door
I told wife i would leave them for her to offer tour take him upto room (this i did) and he agreed to they arrived and I was up there in the room
Fun was had by all for the next 2 to 3 hrs yes I feel guilty I pushed the meeting no i dont feel upset we have now had that first meeting and can move on to relaxed further meets as both seem happy to continue
I am a voyeur and live to watch her i am also the alpha and happy to take controll but at all times I will protect both my wife and her new guy
They both want this to be long term and it makes me happy to want this for them and whilst I will video them us nothing will be posted unless they both agree except for profile pic and that is wife and his cum
It does happen just needed an alpha to get it going
Lgw"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Think we might be lucky here as we have found a guy to be a regular fwb
Spent a yr chatting and having social meets wife seemed happy with just this as did he both going around in circles with just a lot of teasing and such
So me being me (i like direct action) took things into my own hands
I first asked wife then the guy if they were serious about going further they both said yes
I then set up a social meet for morning coffee and booked a room in hotel next door
I told wife i would leave them for her to offer tour take him upto room (this i did) and he agreed to they arrived and I was up there in the room
Fun was had by all for the next 2 to 3 hrs yes I feel guilty I pushed the meeting no i dont feel upset we have now had that first meeting and can move on to relaxed further meets as both seem happy to continue
I am a voyeur and live to watch her i am also the alpha and happy to take controll but at all times I will protect both my wife and her new guy
They both want this to be long term and it makes me happy to want this for them and whilst I will video them us nothing will be posted unless they both agree except for profile pic and that is wife and his cum
It does happen just needed an alpha to get it going
Lgw"
Good luck and well done to all 3 of you for the future, there's a glimmer of hope for everyone |
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Ty it's been a hard few yrs trying to get this going but it is worth it
I love the look on her face when she cums lol it does mean I can't retire though as hotels cost but for mrs I am happy to pay this cost
Lgw |
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I think us single males are at the back of a very long que. I have more luck in clubs than on here. It must be my introduction or pics but clubs are definitely easier however still not found what your looking for neither have I. |
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In my experience, lots of couples are looking for this. I've had the pleasure of having several couples that I'd meet on a regular basis over the years. You just have to keep plugging away and make good impressions on couples (and single ladies). Take your time, be respectful, listen to what they're looking for and then let things slowly blossom. |
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We are potentially.
Your profile is confusing though. Male profile, bio suggests you're a couple looking for an extra male. There's no indication that you're looking for a couple.
If you're not getting what you seek, then I'd start by straightening out your profile so people can understand you better.
C |
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Think there are a reasonable number of us looking for this. But there are not many guys guys looking for any sort of exclusivity. And TBH, not that many guys who are activly looking for regular meets.
Most guys looking for meets are simply looking for a quick fix, no more. |
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we agree with this- the idea of exclusivity is beyond most mens requirements it seems. which is a shame as weve had it before and it can work very well
"Think there are a reasonable number of us looking for this. But there are not many guys guys looking for any sort of exclusivity. And TBH, not that many guys who are activly looking for regular meets.
Most guys looking for meets are simply looking for a quick fix, no more."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think there are a reasonable number of us looking for this. But there are not many guys guys looking for any sort of exclusivity. And TBH, not that many guys who are activly looking for regular meets.
Most guys looking for meets are simply looking for a quick fix, no more."
Totally agree! |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"Think there are a reasonable number of us looking for this. But there are not many guys guys looking for any sort of exclusivity. And TBH, not that many guys who are activly looking for regular meets.
Most guys looking for meets are simply looking for a quick fix, no more.
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I’d be happy to offer a level of exclusivity to a couple if there is a connection. But it should be mutual and pretty regular not once in a blue moon |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"I can't understand people getting as far as arranging a meet and then not turning up. I've never let anyone down.
Got to ask, is the first photo in your gallery of a woman??
Yes, one of my partners"
You've changed it?
You were not in the photo at all, were you? |
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"This is a good site, but can also be a difficult one also.
Lots of fuck and go guys, if you are looking for a long term thing then it might be more difficult on here, same with us couples trying to find serious guys who understand cuckolding can be very difficult."
Hopefully one day we can meet xxx |
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even trickier for us as we have bases in 3 different countries!
"Certainly not an easy thing to achieve as so many have eluded to, lots of factors to take into account but we wish you all every success "
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Couples have just as much trouble finding the right 3rd person.
Lots of people on here not interested in making the effort or anything long term, each to thier own.
We guess most don't want long term as they may not be as single as they might imply!
We keep looking in the hope we find a good match.
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By *oding1Man
over a year ago
marlow |
I'm looking for a couple to enjoy bi mmf sessions. Getting to know them as friends would be just dandy.
Would retire from fs for the right couple.
Do believe that clubs will offer a better chance of that happening. Good luck to all the people searching.
Rod x |
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I’m now in my early 50s and have been swinging a number of years
I live alone in a nice house and have been looking for this scenario for a long time but alas to no joy
I’d like to wine and dine the wife and on occasion with the husband or partners permission she would stay over at mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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in 28 years of swinging we've found 5 guys who we had as regular meet 2 of those have moved on (married life) the othe 3 we are still very much in touch with ... thats a indicator of how hard it is to find decent regular guys ... see its not just about regular its about attraction and getting on ..trusting ..being discrete ... fitting timetables there more to it than just a meet
also we find that guys who put genuine guy / one of the good guys/ 100% reliable / gentleman ... are infact the biggest messer on here and for that reasom people avoid we know loads who do .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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also alot of guys say they want regular but in truth they dont .. regular is once a week or once every 2 weeks ...not just when your wife or girlfriend decides to go out |
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we have to agree with this
for us weve had 1, yes 1, ltr, the remaining ones never really want it long term
"in 28 years of swinging we've found 5 guys who we had as regular meet 2 of those have moved on (married life) the othe 3 we are still very much in touch with ... thats a indicator of how hard it is to find decent regular guys ... see its not just about regular its about attraction and getting on ..trusting ..being discrete ... fitting timetables there more to it than just a meet
also we find that guys who put genuine guy / one of the good guys/ 100% reliable / gentleman ... are infact the biggest messer on here and for that reasom people avoid we know loads who do .. "
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I’m seeking a discerning couple/lady for regular fun and frolics in the Harrogate/Skipton area. Leeds/Bradford and the surrounding area is also a possibility.
Married/attached ladies or couples looking for a special guy to fit in with their dynamic then please message and let’s see where it takes us. |
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