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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi we are an adventurous couple that have not 'swung' yet. Sarah is adamant that her first experience shall be with a woman to join us - it may be easier to win the lottery lol.
However anyone wanting to take a look at our profile, please feel free. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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GOOD luck winning the lottery lol
Might be the thing that comes first!
Welcome to fab and just watch out for the guys pretending to be girls. Quite a few on here.
Hope you find what you are looking for!
Tom |
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"Hi we are an adventurous couple that have not 'swung' yet. Sarah is adamant that her first experience shall be with a woman to join us - it may be easier to win the lottery lol.
However anyone wanting to take a look at our profile, please feel free. "
Needle in a haystack!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there r some as i we seem to have some fun  i think u have to be patient and maybe clubs r the way to go but have met the lovely ladies i have played with on her so seems we r good at finding needles |
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I agree if you're going to chams that's probably your best chance. Which night do you go on? It may be worth trying a different night if you're sticking to one night as the demographic changes with each.
Good luck!
D&K |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice guys - club does seem the way forward. Very true about different people on different nights - I think we will find people there, maybe it's us finding our feet as a couple at first that's all. |
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'Welcome to fab and just watch out for the guys pretending to be girls. Quite a few on here.'
Never understood why men pretend to be girls on here. Surely if you want to get rudey pictures it would be easier to just type 'sex' into google than go through all that rigmarole!!
And its not like anything can 'happen' I've had my dumb moments but even I would notice the girl was a guy on a meet!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of single bi fems on here the problem is that they are in high demand from couples and single males. And personally I've always suspected (though could be totally wrong) that a bi female would be more likely to play with another bi female rather than someone that is bi-curious.
So you need to stand out and to be honest your profile is pretty poor. You acknowledge how difficult your quest is yet don;t seem to be doing anything to help yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh and your profile states in the opening line that you are looking for couples but then goes on to say that you are solely looking for females. That sort of mixed message will put some people off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are plenty of single bi fems on here the problem is that they are in high demand from couples and single males. And personally I've always suspected (though could be totally wrong) that a bi female would be more likely to play with another bi female rather than someone that is bi-curious.
So you need to stand out and to be honest your profile is pretty poor. You acknowledge how difficult your quest is yet don;t seem to be doing anything to help yourself.
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I'd rather play with a bi woman that a curious one. I know everyone has to start somewhere but I wouldn't feel comfortable being someone's 'experiment'. I would like it even less if her other half was there panting in the corner while me and her put on some sort of 'show'.
No offence to the OP at all, just saying it wouldn't be for me. Perhaps you might have more luck if you wanted to play with a woman the first time on your own?
Good luck, there's definitely lots of women out there that would love to play. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i as a bi fem have played with a few bi curious ladies everyone has to take off there training wheels with someone if i find the lady attractive i defintely wouldn't rule out bi curious xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are slowly coming to the conclusion that finding a bi woman is kinda like winning the lotto seems to be a very unlikely prospect going to clubs to find playmates seems like a good idea but what about those wanting to build confidence with a few meets before taking the big club step to be honest we're losing faith in fs  |
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"it may be easier to win the lottery lol.
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It's not that difficult!
I quite often meet couples on my own, because my husband is often away on business. Several of my friends will do the same, particularly if it's mostly GG fun that you're after.
Janet
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Interestingly I am a bi curious female who hasn't played for weeks now. This is due to the sheer number of time wasting men who have let me down for socials and my aversion to responding to 1 line messages.
We are here but it's not as easy for us as everyone seems to think. |
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"Interestingly I am a bi curious female who hasn't played for weeks now. This is due to the sheer number of time wasting men who have let me down for socials and my aversion to responding to 1 line messages.
We are here but it's not as easy for us as everyone seems to think. "
Ah yes, the ever popular hunt for the elusive single bi female! Good luck, it's a tough hunt, but you'll get there in the end! |
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