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You're not making it easy on yourself by only having one photo, by not setting your age range (will you really fuck a 99 year old?) and by saying you can't accommodate and basically just want quickies after work away from home. May be unfair, but it sounds like you're married and looking for quick meets while away from the Mrs. and lots of people here won't meet attached guys. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"How hard is it to meet anyone nowadays x
TVs and bi couples especially xxx hit me up if interested x  "
For a single male it’s pretty hard. Probably even more difficult when you are married and therefore only have specific days and times that you can meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would try doing the social scene. Empire Cinema Club will have what you’re looking for if you don’t mind travelling. It’s in Hudddrsfield. But building up your profile won’t hurt. |
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"How hard is it to meet anyone nowadays x
TVs and bi couples especially xxx hit me up if interested x
For a single male it’s pretty hard. Probably even more difficult when you are married and therefore only have specific days and times that you can meet."
Very true x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think looking on the day you can meet, would be successful for you.
Meet Today section..
But you must of had a way that worked for you before....
Good luck  |
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"It shouts your married? Maybe put one way or the other on your profile
Which way is it OP?
Married "
Your married and u didn’t get abused I put on my profile married from the start and I’m still getting abuse |
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"I think looking on the day you can meet, would be successful for you.
Meet Today section..
But you must of had a way that worked for you before....
Good luck "
That will be the way forward I’m guessing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unbelievable hard is to find someone “normal” … chat then coffee/drink and then we both decide if we are happy to go further…. Profiles with status “meet now” are just sad….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey iam a genuine single male and not just after a quickie it's hard, but probably as men rubbish intro and interests written on site "
Yes your right it is rubbish. |
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"It shouts your married? Maybe put one way or the other on your profile
Which way is it OP?
Married
Is your wife on here as well? - No else I would have a couple profile  "
She knows that you are?
She doesn't mind? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It shouts your married? Maybe put one way or the other on your profile
Which way is it OP?
Married
Is your wife on here as well? - No else I would have a couple profile
She knows that you are?
She doesn't mind?"
Honestly that will cut your chances down alot, we dont meet married people unless they meet as a couple, weve had the partner turn up having a go before, not fun.
But some wont mind
As to how hard is it to meet, well it all depends how much effort you put in, the more you put in the more you will get out, good luck |
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"It shouts your married? Maybe put one way or the other on your profile
Which way is it OP?
Married
Is your wife on here as well? - No else I would have a couple profile
She knows that you are? Yes
She doesn't mind?"
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It shouts your married? Maybe put one way or the other on your profile
Which way is it OP?
Married
Is your wife on here as well? - No else I would have a couple profile
She knows that you are? Yes
She doesn't mind? No "
You're screwed mate and not in the way you want to be. Probably came in here thinking anyone will sleep with everyone. Not the case, its not a site for people who are desperate its a game of chess to get a meet at the best of times, its not join up, heres my cock where are the ladies. I feel you have the wrong idea of this site and its members but good luck I suppose. |
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"Personally think its very hard to meet, but patience is a virtue. "
When we post that we’re looking for a single guy for an evening, we normally get about 50-60 replies. Of those we immediately delete the ones without a photo. Then we delete the ones where the profile doesn’t really say much about what they are looking for or one that doesn’t jump out and excite us. Normally then we are left with about 5 profiles. 1 we’ll decide isn’t our type, 3 will either decide to disappear or decide that they’re not free (or perhaps we are not their type) and then the 1 left will meet us.
So our advice is to have a profile with a couple of decent pictures, be creative with your profile, make sure that you fit with what people are looking for and then message them when they say they are looking. Don’t let them down when you’ve arranged something and you’ll get meets! |
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"It shouts your married? Maybe put one way or the other on your profile
Which way is it OP?
Married
Is your wife on here as well? - No else I would have a couple profile
She knows that you are? Yes
She doesn't mind? No "
She knows that you are on here?
Will she confirm that? ?
That will make things a little easier.
If not, then it will look like you are lying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It shouts your married? Maybe put one way or the other on your profile
Which way is it OP?
Married
Is your wife on here as well? - No else I would have a couple profile
She knows that you are? Yes
She doesn't mind? No
She knows that you are on here?
Will she confirm that? ?
That will make things a little easier.
If not, then it will look like you are lying."
If she's happy for you to play I would add that info to your profile along with your wife is happy to confirm this over the phone with any potential meets.
That will definitely make a difference to a large percentage of couples and single women buddy.
KJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the fairest and most morally point to take from this is never assume something straight away about what type of person or couple after the first contact. Writing or initial conversation may be the only weak point and could be super hot at your other preferences. In other words don’t judge a book by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That said , I hear that some people are bombarded with messages and our first instinct is if that book cover stands out enough therefore i should first impression is key |
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