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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hopefully go to a meeting at a venue off here and see how that goes cheers when there open and do you have to be a member to get in thinking about the green house ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The simple answer is to meet someone who is already verified.
But, don't let it dominate your thoughts. You seem to be doing OK in getting meets, so stop worrying about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The simple answer is to meet someone who is already verified.
But, don't let it dominate your thoughts. You seem to be doing OK in getting meets, so stop worrying about it" thanks but we all know it does open a lot of closed doors !! and Ive yet to have a meeting with said verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The simple answer is to meet someone who is already verified.
But, don't let it dominate your thoughts. You seem to be doing OK in getting meets, so stop worrying about itthanks but we all know it does open a lot of closed doors !! and Ive yet to have a meeting with said verified "
But you're getting hung up on getting your green tick - and that, in turn, will put people off of meeting you if they think that is the only reason why you want to meet them |
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"The simple answer is to meet someone who is already verified.
But, don't let it dominate your thoughts. You seem to be doing OK in getting meets, so stop worrying about itthanks but we all know it does open a lot of closed doors !! and Ive yet to have a meeting with said verified "
Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make."
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy. |
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy."
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy. |
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" Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
On face value it appears the doors the OP's knocking on are flapping wide open! "
No flapping here, we only meet verified guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy."
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" Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
On face value it appears the doors the OP's knocking on are flapping wide open!
No flapping here, we only meet verified guys. "
Sorry didn't realise the OP had knocked on your door! |
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" Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
On face value it appears the doors the OP's knocking on are flapping wide open!
No flapping here, we only meet verified guys.
Sorry didn't realise the OP had knocked on your door!"
No he hadn't, our filters wouldn't allow him to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Played with 5 couples and 1 female and all new members how do I get verified any advice welcome cheers "
So let me get this straight. In 7 weeks of being on here you've met 5 couples and 1 female and all are unverified new members?
Hmmmmm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Played with 5 couples and 1 female and all new members how do I get verified any advice welcome cheers
So let me get this straight. In 7 weeks of being on here you've met 5 couples and 1 female and all are unverified new members?
Hmmmmm."
Beat me to it! Who are the profiles, I'll check with them then we can set up a video verification if genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Played with 5 couples and 1 female and all new members how do I get verified any advice welcome cheers
So let me get this straight. In 7 weeks of being on here you've met 5 couples and 1 female and all are unverified new members?
Hmmmmm.
Beat me to it! Who are the profiles, I'll check with them then we can set up a video verification if genuine "
Amazing that I've offered an opportunity to get verified, just needing some kind of evidence that the situation is genuine and complete silence.....
Not surprised! |
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"Played with 5 couples and 1 female and all new members how do I get verified any advice welcome cheers
Can't one of the people you have met verify you?"
No answer to this OP??
None of the people you met verified?
Really?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy. "
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having. |
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having."
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right. |
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Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having.
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right."
I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt, and a chance to overcome some bad luck if it's happened. But I've been bitten before by well thought out fakes.
Using a made up example profile, I'll explain my skepticism.
'Bob' is a 55 year old single male profile. According to bobs pictures, he is circumcised and uncircumcised. His pictured meets have comprised of only very young women. His body hair is dark, or grey, or shaved or full black bush. Bobs profile is sparse and not well written. Bob has met 5 people in 2 months while there are daily updates from Fabs insta males who are young, fit, and verified who can't get a response let alone a meet.
If Bobs profile popped up in your inbox, what would you think? |
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having.
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right.
I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt, and a chance to overcome some bad luck if it's happened. But I've been bitten before by well thought out fakes.
Using a made up example profile, I'll explain my skepticism.
'Bob' is a 55 year old single male profile. According to bobs pictures, he is circumcised and uncircumcised. His pictured meets have comprised of only very young women. His body hair is dark, or grey, or shaved or full black bush. Bobs profile is sparse and not well written. Bob has met 5 people in 2 months while there are daily updates from Fabs insta males who are young, fit, and verified who can't get a response let alone a meet.
If Bobs profile popped up in your inbox, what would you think? "
Yes I understand.
But he didn't ask "do you believe that I have met these people?" He asked for advice on how to get verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having.
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right."
No, you're still not getting what I mean.
I'm nit doubting that he's met these people.
I'm saying that not having the green tick isn't stopping him getting meets.
He seems to be doing far better than most single men do |
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having.
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right.
No, you're still not getting what I mean.
I'm nit doubting that he's met these people.
I'm saying that not having the green tick isn't stopping him getting meets.
He seems to be doing far better than most single men do"
There are people on here that don't meet unverified guys. It helps him to meet those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having.
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right.
I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt, and a chance to overcome some bad luck if it's happened. But I've been bitten before by well thought out fakes.
Using a made up example profile, I'll explain my skepticism.
'Bob' is a 55 year old single male profile. According to bobs pictures, he is circumcised and uncircumcised. His pictured meets have comprised of only very young women. His body hair is dark, or grey, or shaved or full black bush. Bobs profile is sparse and not well written. Bob has met 5 people in 2 months while there are daily updates from Fabs insta males who are young, fit, and verified who can't get a response let alone a meet.
If Bobs profile popped up in your inbox, what would you think?
Yes I understand.
But he didn't ask "do you believe that I have met these people?" He asked for advice on how to get verified. "
That post was in response to your comment, not his request which has been answered and advised on. I offered him a direct, quick route to be verified, which has so far been ignored. |
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having.
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right.
I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt, and a chance to overcome some bad luck if it's happened. But I've been bitten before by well thought out fakes.
Using a made up example profile, I'll explain my skepticism.
'Bob' is a 55 year old single male profile. According to bobs pictures, he is circumcised and uncircumcised. His pictured meets have comprised of only very young women. His body hair is dark, or grey, or shaved or full black bush. Bobs profile is sparse and not well written. Bob has met 5 people in 2 months while there are daily updates from Fabs insta males who are young, fit, and verified who can't get a response let alone a meet.
If Bobs profile popped up in your inbox, what would you think?
Yes I understand.
But he didn't ask "do you believe that I have met these people?" He asked for advice on how to get verified.
That post was in response to your comment, not his request which has been answered and advised on. I offered him a direct, quick route to be verified, which has so far been ignored."
Looks like he's been verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Correction: Unverified people THINK it opens closed doors.
If you've had 6 meets in the 7 weeks you've been here I don't know what difference a green tick will make.
Exactly. Considering that when I first started using fab about 8 years ago, it used to take a single guy, on average around 6 months to get his first meet, and no doubt that's increased in the time since PLUS we're still in a global pandemic and a lot of people aren't comfortable about meeting just yet, to complain about being unable to get a verification despite having had 6 meets in 7 weeks screams of arrogance and entitlement.
You're unlikely to win many fans with this attitude OP, and VERY unlikely to get any sympathy.
What's the guy done that is so bad? Slatted just because he's asking for advice how to get a verification. Unfortunately that green tick does open more doors for a single guy.
Don't think you've understood my response properly.
Yes, he's asking about getting verified.
Usually single men ask this because tgey've found it a barrier to getting meets, but thulis guy claims he's had 6 in just 7 weeks of being here, so clearly being unverified is not holding him back.
A lot of guys on fab would give their right nut to have the same kind of bad luck that he's having.
So you are all doubtful that he has indeed met these people. I understand where you are coming from and I'm keeping an open mind. So if he can find some way to get himself verified then he can show 6 meet verifications, if he's verified and he doesn't show them then obviously you sceptical lot are right.
I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt, and a chance to overcome some bad luck if it's happened. But I've been bitten before by well thought out fakes.
Using a made up example profile, I'll explain my skepticism.
'Bob' is a 55 year old single male profile. According to bobs pictures, he is circumcised and uncircumcised. His pictured meets have comprised of only very young women. His body hair is dark, or grey, or shaved or full black bush. Bobs profile is sparse and not well written. Bob has met 5 people in 2 months while there are daily updates from Fabs insta males who are young, fit, and verified who can't get a response let alone a meet.
If Bobs profile popped up in your inbox, what would you think?
Yes I understand.
But he didn't ask "do you believe that I have met these people?" He asked for advice on how to get verified.
That post was in response to your comment, not his request which has been answered and advised on. I offered him a direct, quick route to be verified, which has so far been ignored.
Looks like he's been verified. "
Good on the OP |
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