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How did you find FAB

By *elboy555 OP Man over a year ago

Tyldesley

Out in my camper van one evening. I heard some voices outside then smacking and moaning (in a good way). I go and have a peek outside and the husband is smacking her arse whilst banging her from behind. he says do you want some to me, while his wiffe is blowing another fella. (true story) seemore321 I’m sure if he’s on the forums will verify. Poor seemore got cramp in the van. After the couple left Seemore told me all about fabswingers and all you filthy lot

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By *ubal1Man over a year ago

Newry Down

My former partner brought it to my attention, although I had always been curious.

When we were together we used to meet with another couple, whom we trusted, for occasional meets, that by negotiation eventually became bareback; and progressed by increments to include DP and DVP.

My relationship ended, for reasons unrelated to our swinging, and the pandemic has stifled my ambitions for the past year.

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By *onochrome2Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

Years ago when I was single, I saw fab mentioned on a dating site forum and decided to check it out. Been here ever since, met the hubby on here too lol

Dee

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By *layful HarlequinMan over a year ago

iver heath

A friend recommended it to me

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Our first meet who we met on another site mentioned here ,never looked back ..

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By *elboy555 OP Man over a year ago

Tyldesley

"Years ago when I was single, I saw fab mentioned on a dating site forum and decided to check it out. Been here ever since, met the hubby on here too lol

Dee"
lucky pair found love.

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By *orneyloverMan over a year ago

Boston

Years ago, was chatting to a lady at a swingers club in Sheerness. She told me about this fantastic new site called Fabswingers. The rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was on pof years ago guy was chatting too recommended fab the rest is history lol

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By *urious_Female89Woman over a year ago

great yarmouth

Mumsnet!

its my guilty pleasure..

was browsing and stumbled across a thread about a woman looking for casual sex and Fab was recommended by loads of the mumsnetters so I just had to check it out - not I'm hooked!

(Duno why I admitted to this

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A friend

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By *8 genny shovelMan over a year ago

Devon

Through Fabguys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The bar lady at pleasures said we should try it. X

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Searching for thunderbirds

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By *rank speakerMan over a year ago

Worcester

Been here so long on and off in various incarnations I can't even remember how I first came across here. But have enjoyed many happy hours of web and real life fun ever since

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple over a year ago

Darlington

This was about 2010 when we first joined.

So my wife and I had taken a break from swinging (family to raise) and never had the time. Eventually we just kinda put it on the back burner and forgot about it.

10 years passed and I was using Facebook when a lady I had known (but rarely seen) since my school days made a specific comment and I just knew there and then she was a swinger. So I privately messaged her and asked.

Next thing you know we are trading pictures and stories and she made a comment about "needing someone to take some photos". Wife encouraged me to go meet her "for a catch up" a few days later and...well you know the rest. Wife couldnt keep her hands off me when I got home that night. Was great

Became a regular thing seeing my old freind for a while. Told us about the site, our local club etc . We just jumped back into the lifestyle within a year of that as time allowed (which wasnt that often till a few years back) and took things to the next level. My old friend left the site eventually (found a serious partner) but it was great fun while it lasted.

I just regret that I never had my old freind and my wife at the same time. Never actually had an evening where we all free together and my wife was a wee bit shyer back then (not now as our photos show). Maybe my old freind will come back to the site one day..can only hope.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was just a naturist and had to several nude saunas/clubs. Then got with my now ex gf.

She loved been naked too so introduced her to the saunas. We went to several of them, some had swinger elements. Knew she was bi anyway, we talked about it and she wanted to play with girls again. Slowly got into swinging and attended many clubs in the time and lots of horny memories.

Still remember the first time watching her play with another woman at abfabs down the dungeon area. We also had about 10 other couple watching us too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking for a good park with good facilities

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mumsnet!

its my guilty pleasure..

was browsing and stumbled across a thread about a woman looking for casual sex and Fab was recommended by loads of the mumsnetters so I just had to check it out - not I'm hooked!

(Duno why I admitted to this

Thats a cool story, now I`m off to find out what mumsnet is.. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Accidentally ended up dogging with a couple, my and my ex was shagging in a car at Moses Gate in Bolton, didn’t realise it’s a dogging spot, whilst balls deep in the ex, a bloke starts watching from the window.

After the miss understanding is sorted, we go into their car (the bloke was with his wife) and we have a little fun. Afterwards we was chatting and they suggested this site, and from then on been on here when I’m single (I delete the profile when I’m in a relationship so I don’t get tempted) that was in 2004.

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By *elboy555 OP Man over a year ago

Tyldesley

"This was about 2010 when we first joined.

So my wife and I had taken a break from swinging (family to raise) and never had the time. Eventually we just kinda put it on the back burner and forgot about it.

"
my fingers are crossed ?? for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Found Mümsnet and they were on about if you wanted to meet someone just for fun, fab is worth checking out. Just too lazy to delete my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Accidentally ended up dogging with a couple, my and my ex was shagging in a car at Moses Gate in Bolton, didn’t realise it’s a dogging spot, whilst balls deep in the ex, a bloke starts watching from the window.

Moses Gate

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By *aramel.desiresMan over a year ago

Woking

I started with Desires magazine (hence the name) then the internet kicked off and I starting looking. Was on Dirty-Daves and swinging heaven and also found FABs at the same time. Now also added a bit of bdsm.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Moses Gate

This was over 16 years ago before they put in all that gate and fencing lol, took a couple of ladies there as it was nice and quiet and lived with my parents at the time, plenty of fun in my old punto, never realised it was a dogging spot because it was so quiet

Not now though, they added loads of fencing and got rid of trees, I think the cottoned on what was happening.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was dipping my toes in a couple of clubs and someone told me about jaydees club so I went there first night I went I was like a dog with two dicks but couldn’t get involved in no fun until I walked to a room were there was a lovely couple around my sort of age having some fun so I watched for a while and the guy said to me well don’t watch come and join in we ended up having some naughty fun and my first dvp after we finished had a drink and a chat at the bar and they told me about this site were all the same kind of people look for fun FAB and I’ve been on here ever since that was around 3/4 years ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't remember exactly when or how I first found fab.

It could have been google, but it's so long ago that it was quite possibly yahoo or Ask Jeeves. Maybe even AOL or Compuserve.

I was fab which, back in the naughty nineties, lead me to my first mfm 3some (not a wonderful experience), my first one to one swinger meet (sex on the back seat in a multi storey car park) and my first (and best) dogging experience.

Then around 2000, I entered into a 10 year long term relationship and respected my wifes preference for monogamy (besides which since I was getting it regularly, I didn't need to look elsewhere although looking back, since she has recently become a swinger, maybe we should have thought it through a bit more)

Then when I became single again, (some 10 years ago now) fab lead me to my first swingers club visit. The club closed a long time ago which is a shame as although it was a bit strange, a bit cliquey and had no dress down policy, it was clearly loved by the regulars.

So, over the last ten years or so, I've been very busy working but have had the occasional "experience".

I've been on and off fab several times. To be honest, I find fab to be great for keeping in touch with the general swinging scene. The forums are interesting, the club listings are vital, as are the event listings.

I do find features such as meet me today to be almost worthless on fab and indeed I have had as much success at finding an ONS on POF as I have on fab.

Some 6 years ago now, I visited my local club. To be fair, without the fab listings, I would never have found the club. However, I do find that actually getting off my backside, turning off the computer, going for a drive and ending up at my local club has resulted in far more orgasms than I have achieved from driving round empty car parks or sending random messages to someone across the interweb.

So, in short, fab is a part of the swinging scene in the UK, but it doesn't guarantee a fuck.

Hope that helps.

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

I was on another site and a local Couple suggested this one... definitely better here.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I found it because my then husband was using it to cheat. He swore he came off it, I joined with a fake profile to see if that was true....it wasn't. I no longer have the husband but I've met some great people on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I found it because my then husband was using it to cheat. He swore he came off it, I joined with a fake profile to see if that was true....it wasn't. I no longer have the husband but I've met some great people on here

Think you are the winner, that’s mental

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By *layful HarlequinMan over a year ago

iver heath

"Looking for a good park with good facilities

Lol

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By *olymalelincsMan over a year ago

southend

Me and the ex were both polyamorous and had been looking for potential partners on different vanilla dating sites and not having much luck then kinda stumbled across fabs and thought we would give it a look and see what it was all about. We soon fell down the rabbit hole and decided not to climb back out as we were having fun lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A female friend from the Fetish scene mentioned to me that I should sign up to Fab because there are hundreds of kinky guys here. I was seeking a submissive male at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me and my gf at the time had discussed the idea of me sleeping with others, as a way of making up for my somewhat quiet sheltered upbringing and never having done that exploring stage. I met a lovely young lady on tinder who introduced me to the wonderful world of fab and here I am having been on and off 3 years later. Me and my gf didn’t last sadly (perhaps for the best who knows). But I’ve met some lovely folks on here and finally feeling much more comfortable with who I am and why I like what I like. Happy days

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

A friend at the time put me on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to use a cam site and was told to try fab out by people who viewed me there.

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By *an 36Man over a year ago

wirral

Step daughter and her best friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We were discussing fantasies during lockdown one, found we had a mutual one and was curious how to make it happen...google helped us and here we are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From friends at a club many years ago when with an ex..

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By *jonesMan over a year ago

Plymouth

Lady I met on tinder told me about it ..

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By *lan157Man over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I was a member of another swingers site which was shrinking and a playmate told me about this site so I joined and have enjoyed my time here immensely .

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

A friend recommended it as he thought i needed a confidence boost.

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By *elboy555 OP Man over a year ago

Tyldesley

"We were discussing fantasies during lockdown one, found we had a mutual one and was curious how to make it happen...google helped us and here we are

"
lovely to hear how you found FAB

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By *ianthusWoman over a year ago

truro

Boyfriend!

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By *r-OreoMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I discovered it by myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

a man i met when dogging one evening, told me and the guy i was with about fab back in 2015.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Found out my ex was cheating through it- did a fake profile to begin with. He never admitted it- silly for him because he knew it was always my thing. So he's out of the picture and I stayed and did a proper profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couple we met at chams one evening many years back. It was new then and we had stayed out on other sites. We were in the couples room, he played well but she was so d*unk she threw up in the bin, or was it just the sight of me!

Lol

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By *Ci LutherMan over a year ago

Cumalot

Was flirting with an old female friend that had just had some glamour pics done... a present from hubby ...

She just dropped into conversation.. there some naughty one on fab .. Fab I say !!!

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By *heklumpsCouple over a year ago

South

We saw the site referenced on another swinging website

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By *our HeroMan over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

From a sexy next door neighbour who was also a fuck buddy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was a kinky Facebook group that got me started here, ended up sleeping with a few members of the group

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By *urves and MischiefWoman over a year ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

On my very first club visit I played with a couple and they told me I must join and so I did

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By *irLoin.Man over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d met a young lady through pof (which had always been a lucky playground for me) and following an unexpected and deeply indulgent session I had to back track a little and explain that maybe I’d given the wrong impression as I wasn’t wanting anything serious. She took it in good spirits and told me I was on the wrong site and pointed me towards Fab... suffice to say I’ve never looked back

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

A friend and ex partner told me. I was looking for alternatives to the sites we'd used in the old days and she mentioned some good meets from fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Years ago back in the days of dial up Internet in a chat room. Lady mentioned it to me

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By *hesblokeMan over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Asked on another website if anyone could recommend a place to discuss and possibly meet others. Hey presto!

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman over a year ago

LEEDS

A guy I met from another site recommended it to me years ago

5 years 4 profiles later I'm still here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Went to La Chambre and was asked if I was on fab there ... I’d never heard of it so joined when I got back

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By *eekin NSAMan over a year ago

Ireland /Kilkenny areas

Joining fab after d*unk nite out 2 women recommended it still can not find them either lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many many years ago my now ex husband said one night do you fancy trying swinging and honestly truth I thought he might swing dancing so with out any real thought I said yes it was not until a few days later when he said we had a meet that I realised what he meant, and I was introduced to the wonderful world of FAB. XXX

Ps much more fun than dancing x

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By *penfire2000Couple over a year ago

hampshire

"Mumsnet!

its my guilty pleasure..

was browsing and stumbled across a thread about a woman looking for casual sex and Fab was recommended by loads of the mumsnetters so I just had to check it out - not I'm hooked!

(Duno why I admitted to this

Same here! How bizarre! Lots of women are looking for other women on Mumsnet!

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By *iberty RedWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

Met someone on Pof who talked about Fabswingers.com, he wanted to make a couples profile on here.

Thought I'd check it out first, liked it so stayed, never made the couple profile though. Happier being a single woman on here

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By *orneytwoCouple over a year ago

Not far from lichfield

Back in the day many years ago.most people at swingers clubs would be on Fab.you would play with people and give them your fab name.How things have changed.now 99% are people looking for sex,swinging having sex looking for more sex.qe have left fav many rime but live in hope one day it will be as if was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was just looking online for somewhere to have uninhibited chat.

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By *ookingfun82Man over a year ago

Enniskillen

When on PoF I was messaged by someone turned out to be a guy pretending to be a woman looking for cocks to suck. Wasn't interested and didn't meet him but did find out about fab from him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was on another site which had become stale - someone recommended this one so my then wife and I joined and it was great and still is after all these years

Even more so that we Bisexual men are embraced more with single fems and MF couples

J xx

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By *ungfunfellaMan over a year ago

Lincoln

I found fab after seeing it on a mates phone never looked back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never heard of it even though been online dating for years.

Recommended for me by the first man who started me dressing by asking me to wear knickers for the first time.

Fan changed everything! The best guys x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let a friend who was made homeless stay in the extra room for a few months. We was off our faces & that's when he mentioned this site.

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By *ilverjagMan over a year ago

swansea

I got told about fab the night I met up with an absolutely gorgeous lady from Reading that I connected with on another site, and had great fun with, She had been a swinger from as far back as connecting through contact magazines. LEGSXXXX, possibly now using another name, if you are reading this, thank you so much for pointing me in this direction. When I got here, I discovered that I already knew people here, and was verified within days.

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