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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Just because people view your profile it's them looking to see if they find anything that may interest them to hopefully lead to messaging the person in question but some just like to be nosey viewing pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as your a guy there are zillions of you so best get used to rejection first of all as any guy will tell you on here its not easy .. and thats not a jibe at you thats just how it is when guys out number women and couples by what feels like a zillion to one ... |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
I have hundreds of views daily and thankfully they don't all message me, plus some view you without you knowing. Don't focus on the amount of people viewing you as historically women and couples generally don't always message 1st. Use your time reading profiles seeing what people are looking for. Use the time to make your profile interesting and appealing. Chat on threads on the forum that are light hearted and entertaining. Then message people you feel you could connect with. Enjoy communicating with people. Then when clubs open and people can meet again you may have built up connections to meet x |
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"I have hundreds of views daily and thankfully they don't all message me, plus some view you without you knowing. Don't focus on the amount of people viewing you as historically women and couples generally don't always message 1st. Use your time reading profiles seeing what people are looking for. Use the time to make your profile interesting and appealing. Chat on threads on the forum that are light hearted and entertaining. Then message people you feel you could connect with. Enjoy communicating with people. Then when clubs open and people can meet again you may have built up connections to meet x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I'm crap at profiles..but still manage to have some limited success. I have very specific search parameters and only message other people when I'm satisfied that they are what I'm looking for and that I fit in with what they are looking for. As for them messaging back, well that's another matter - you can't be attractive to all.
The reason I'm discussing messaging and not my own profile is simple. I don't sit back and wait for others to contact me - if I did, I'd never get any meets, the numbers are stacked against single guys on here. I spend more time reading profiles than anything else.
The rest of the time I am active in the chatrooms and some time is spent on forums. When the clubs open up again I shall be looking for a club partner ( I won't attend alone ) as clubs really are great for meeting genuine swingers versus keyboard warriors. As some have said Covid has a large part to play too - as for your profile ( I haven't looked ) clear face shots seem to get a better response than a cock shot and I do think its the tone of the profile that counts, not necessarily the content. Hope some of this helps someone out. |
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Here’s an idea OP, if someone views your profile and you like the look of them just shoot your shot and message them first. 9 times out of 10 said person (if interested) will very rarely to make the first move.
Of course that doesn’t necessarily guarantee a reply but as a single man you’ve gotta put the work in if you wanna be successful on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advise is when clubs open back up go there. You will meet so many lovely people.
Socials and clubs have always been the best way to meet people.
I do still meet some people of fab but mainly clubs
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