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How do men get noticed more?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’m kind of new to fab but then again I feel like I’ve mostly settled in now. But what I still struggle to understand is how to be unique enough to get attention back from women.
Now before I get slated, I understand that nobody is obliged to reply back; I 100% get that. but, from my perspective, there’s load of fake male profiles on here which ruin it by being really creepy and nasty, which reflects badly on genuinely alright people like myself and others.
So I’d thought I’d take to the community and ask, how do men get noticed more, is it by the first line they write? Or is it purely cos of how many verifications they have? And if not is it because there’s not enough pictures?
So yeah, sorry for the massive paragraph lol xD it’d be nice to hear what some of you have to say  |
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"So I’m kind of new to fab but then again I feel like I’ve mostly settled in now. But what I still struggle to understand is how to be unique enough to get attention back from women.
Now before I get slated, I understand that nobody is obliged to reply back; I 100% get that. but, from my perspective, there’s load of fake male profiles on here which ruin it by being really creepy and nasty, which reflects badly on genuinely alright people like myself and others.
So I’d thought I’d take to the community and ask, how do men get noticed more, is it by the first line they write? Or is it purely cos of how many verifications they have? And if not is it because there’s not enough pictures?
So yeah, sorry for the massive paragraph lol xD it’d be nice to hear what some of you have to say "
I had the same question mate until I put a good introduction in the scotland forums (where I'm from). Lots of ppl noticed it and made me feel very very welcome.
Also, just be yourself mate,there's no right or wrong profile, tell everyone about yourself, your likes and dislikes, what you might be looking for etc.
Keep it lighthearted and fun, and the best bit of advice I can give.....join in the forums, have a laugh, have fun with it, and be patient, good things will come mate.
There's loads of great ppl in here belive me, just take your time  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I’m also very attracted to older women/cougars, I’ve always loved a mature woman and are always better in the bedroom
I would've put that I believe are better unless someone wants to prove me wrong as you never know unless explored..
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most of my friends on here I have met in person and been verified by which helps as it snowballs on to more people noticing or messaging.. its very hard to cold message as most of the time it gets ignored or deleted. even when being polite. Just dont be too full on and suggestive if your messaging 1st time and you never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, although it's disappointing to be ignored when you have no other agenda but to compliment people, it's clear that genuine people who retain good manners and respect are just thrown into the generic bucket of sexual pests. I can understand some of the irratation suffered by single women in particular, but the narrative is undone when some women disclose that they are "overwhelmed" with their popularity, that messages are deleted due to the pressure they face. I think that, unless these ladies get a secretary or use filters they will forever be worshipped. Personally, if you you can't cope with adoration from the masses, get a guy from another platform. Shouldn't have a problem should they? I wonder if they were so revered before the Digital process when social skills were needed? Who knows. |
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"So I’m kind of new to fab but then again I feel like I’ve mostly settled in now. But what I still struggle to understand is how to be unique enough to get attention back from women.
Now before I get slated, I understand that nobody is obliged to reply back; I 100% get that. but, from my perspective, there’s load of fake male profiles on here which ruin it by being really creepy and nasty, which reflects badly on genuinely alright people like myself and others.
So I’d thought I’d take to the community and ask, how do men get noticed more, is it by the first line they write? Or is it purely cos of how many verifications they have? And if not is it because there’s not enough pictures?
So yeah, sorry for the massive paragraph lol xD it’d be nice to hear what some of you have to say "
Unfortunately there is no magic formula. What will work for one person won't work for the next, so don't be fooled into thinking that there is a one size fits all answer to your question.
Be polite, read profiles, send interesting messages and show yourself in a good light. You can also use the forum and chatroom to get to know people, don't just rely on messages. When the time comes, get yourself along to some organised socials etc.
A combination of the above should help you star getting known in your local area. |
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on another note.. females get blitzed with messages so its not uncommon for messages to remain unread.. I have a female friend who joined and she had over 100 messages in the first 4 hours... sounds ideal if the other way round i know |
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By *imbob74Man
over a year ago
kettering |
Hard to say .. I got lucky after the first 2 weeks and it worked .. kind of normal messages since then just a few messages back, I think ladies get that many messages its not easy, if I do not hear back I just leave it ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First of all don’t listen to anyone who tells you what pics to have in your profile. Your main profile should be like a cv, always evolving. In your current status, make it something that isn’t generic, like everyone else, same with your title. Let me give you an example, there used to be a lady on here who used to quote songs and poems in current status as well as in chat and posts and she proved quite popular. Shortly I’m going to take a break from fab and come back later and make some changes how I do my profile. Your profile is your’s and your’s alone. Just experiment with it and have fun. Don’t let anyone tell you how to do your profile. It’s all about what a good person you are and why women should want to chat with you. If you want ignore everything I’ve just said and just do a kick ass profile that is original and fun. Above all else, just enjoy yourself on here. |
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In my experience and based on other similar threads women tend to avoid profiles that claim to be more genuine than others and how fake profiles are ruining it for everyone else.
Truly nice guys don't have to announce it.
You approach people like you would off-site and don't try to be someone or something you aren't because you'll never be able to keep up that facade.
Patience is always required and you will eventually catch someone's eye. |
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Go to organised socials, be personable, friendly not pushy. You will stand out as someone who actually turns up and isn't just a dreamer.
If you are going to rely on a profile then it will be a long hard slog and we would say have at least one decent dick pic in public, just not as your avatar. |
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