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So it's tricky for a cuckold couple to find a genuine experienced bull and at the same time it's difficult for a bull to find a genuine cuckold couple - this thread therefore welcomes any experienced verified bulls to post a message and any verified cuckold couples to specify their dynamic and what they seek - the hope being everyone gets what they desire.
Sounds simplistic - let s give it a try....feel free to post a msg
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Odd one for me.
We are looking for a male to fuck my wife. Nothing unusual there,usual with a condom.
But we want the male to wear stockings and or tights
But we are not seeking a sissy or cum dump or someone who wants a cock up their arse.
Straight male
Hard cock in lingerie
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We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair ! |
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I’ve been in two cuckold relationships.
Both were completely different .
One was where hubby introduced me to his wife, he got me to do some work at their house , we went for drinks and he asked if I liked her. over a few months our relationship developed . He was never involved but she’d tell him everything. Lasted a few years
The other was me starting a relationship with a woman who’s husband didn’t know initially. I think she cheated on him in past . I’d be around his house with her watching tv or having a cuppa in kitchen . Then we’d blatantly go to bed.
The wife didn’t care . I felt awkward at first but in the end it was a matter of fact . I’m there to fuck her and you have to accept it .
I didn’t have much communication with him at all
It wasn’t planned
She pulled the strings |
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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago
forest |
I was the extra guy in a cuckold couple for a few years. It started off quite tame. Me and his with playing while he watched but it grew to a lot more. Always looking for that scenario again. |
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"We have been looking for someone to fuck my wife while I watch but finding someone suitable is quite difficult "
I can believe you are having trouble finding anyone? I would have thought there would be a queue a mile long |
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"We have been looking for someone to fuck my wife while I watch but finding someone suitable is quite difficult
I can believe you are having trouble finding anyone? I would have thought there would be a queue a mile long "
We are probably to fussy |
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over a year ago
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Takes the right guy to understand a couple's dynamics.
We had one regular mature bloke, who satisfied my wife in the bedroom once or twice a month.
He also took his time to involve me the husband, when it suited them both.
He instructed me occasionally, to perform duties, while my wife watched.
Was great fun and the arrangement lasted four years.
It is hard to find another bloke who would fit that scenario again. |
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we find exactly the same thing. Men are often totally unrealistic in their expectations or think its just a quickie were after. It tell s us they dont understand the dynamic and tats the instant giveaway
"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair !"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Posted in a few posts about this
Anyone would think it would be easy to find a bull to do this but sadly it couldn't be further from the truth
We have been looking for the right one for about 4 years
Findind a male to fuck me is easy but one that can do it while hubby watches and is into cuckold and knows what they are doing is impossible for us
Our list is
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Must be able to accommodate
Must be able to talk filthy and verbally abuse hubby while fucking me
Are we really asking for to much
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair !"
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"Posted in a few posts about this
Anyone would think it would be easy to find a bull to do this but sadly it couldn't be further from the truth
We have been looking for the right one for about 4 years
Findind a male to fuck me is easy but one that can do it while hubby watches and is into cuckold and knows what they are doing is impossible for us
Our list is
Local
Must be able to accommodate
Must be able to talk filthy and verbally abuse hubby while fucking me
Are we really asking for to much
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Not far away from me and happy to help.
I always accommodate as with time wasters and dreamers. |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important. "
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
We kind of fall into this category and as others have said finding the right 3rd to fulfill this is not easy.
That's not to say there's a shortage of offers. If almost anyone would do then indeed there probably would be a queue, however we think that it's rarely the case in this scenario.
Ironically in our experience the majority of guys who actually understand the dynamics of this type of scenario are those looking for the 3rd.
Fortunately those that don't get it are also so easy to spot.
We live in hope though that one day..... |
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair !"
Totally agree. Maybe they watch, maybe they don't, but the cuck is still 'present' in the dynamic somehow. I always prefer to talk through and understand that dynamic before kicking off the kink, although I have found some couples prefer for it to emerge naturally, which can be tricky.
Ideal scenario is just clicking and becoming good friends with a couple, but that is even trickier! |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"We have been looking for someone to fuck my wife while I watch but finding someone suitable is quite difficult
I can believe you are having trouble finding anyone? I would have thought there would be a queue a mile long
We are probably to fussy "
We have wrangled with this for some time, we came to the decision on here you cannot be too fussy, why would we compromise on our preferences on here, meeting by chance in person say at a club or party is slightly different as a major obstacle is already overcome, they're there so no calendars to align or doubts about if they'll actually show up. |
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"We have been looking for someone to fuck my wife while I watch but finding someone suitable is quite difficult
I can believe you are having trouble finding anyone? I would have thought there would be a queue a mile long
We are probably to fussy
We have wrangled with this for some time, we came to the decision on here you cannot be too fussy, why would we compromise on our preferences on here, meeting by chance in person say at a club or party is slightly different as a major obstacle is already overcome, they're there so no calendars to align or doubts about if they'll actually show up."
So true and in the end it’s often the logistics that are most difficult to overcome |
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"Posted in a few posts about this
Anyone would think it would be easy to find a bull to do this but sadly it couldn't be further from the truth
We have been looking for the right one for about 4 years
Findind a male to fuck me is easy but one that can do it while hubby watches and is into cuckold and knows what they are doing is impossible for us
Our list is
Local
Must be able to accommodate
Must be able to talk filthy and verbally abuse hubby while fucking me
Are we really asking for to much
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Skills take time to perfect and no one wants to help a novice practice |
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"I’ve been in two cuckold relationships.
Both were completely different .
One was where hubby introduced me to his wife, he got me to do some work at their house , we went for drinks and he asked if I liked her. over a few months our relationship developed . He was never involved but she’d tell him everything. Lasted a few years
The other was me starting a relationship with a woman who’s husband didn’t know initially. I think she cheated on him in past . I’d be around his house with her watching tv or having a cuppa in kitchen . Then we’d blatantly go to bed.
The wife didn’t care . I felt awkward at first but in the end it was a matter of fact . I’m there to fuck her and you have to accept it .
I didn’t have much communication with him at all
It wasn’t planned
She pulled the strings "
I can relate to this very much
Great true post - thankyou for sharing this |
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"We have been looking for someone to fuck my wife while I watch but finding someone suitable is quite difficult
I can believe you are having trouble finding anyone? I would have thought there would be a queue a mile long
We are probably to fussy
We have wrangled with this for some time, we came to the decision on here you cannot be too fussy, why would we compromise on our preferences on here, meeting by chance in person say at a club or party is slightly different as a major obstacle is already overcome, they're there so no calendars to align or doubts about if they'll actually show up."
I don’t think you can be too fussy. The better the connection the better the fun, in my experience. |
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We are looking for a regular bull who can accom in a nice home
Looking for regular meetings to build up trust eventually for Mrs Peel to visit regularly on her own
Genuine applicants please message us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great Post op we're very experienced in the cuckolding scene but on here far to many people don't understand it. Finding the right bull is harder than you think and I suppose bulls will same the same. Most important thing is trust honesty and enjoy. Stay safe everyone x |
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over a year ago
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I was, I suppose a bull, for a lovely couple a few years ago. I met them both dogging, and the husband and I hit it off immediately (the wife too, obviously).
The husband was as involved as the wife in the relationship, but the physical side was more just her and I although he was either present or aware, always. It was great fun. When they broke up we stopped playing in that dynamic. I felt just as much of an ally to him as I was to her, so we never played 1-1. We three stayed in touch separately, I played with her and her partner, and he and his three or four partners after this. I think he was chasing the thrill and she wanted love. Eventually, she met a guy who wasn't in to it and we stopped playing and talking. The husband was devastated and he stayed in touch but he never got over her. Shame really! |
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"I was, I suppose a bull, for a lovely couple a few years ago. I met them both dogging, and the husband and I hit it off immediately (the wife too, obviously).
The husband was as involved as the wife in the relationship, but the physical side was more just her and I although he was either present or aware, always. It was great fun. When they broke up we stopped playing in that dynamic. I felt just as much of an ally to him as I was to her, so we never played 1-1. We three stayed in touch separately, I played with her and her partner, and he and his three or four partners after this. I think he was chasing the thrill and she wanted love. Eventually, she met a guy who wasn't in to it and we stopped playing and talking. The husband was devastated and he stayed in touch but he never got over her. Shame really!"
This is the unfortunate consequence of jumping in to cuckold and swinging without laying down all the ground rules .
The bull must always know his place and it’s the couple comes first and foremost.
No cheating behind his back
Or if wife meets the bull alone the hubby should always be aware
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"I was, I suppose a bull, for a lovely couple a few years ago. I met them both dogging, and the husband and I hit it off immediately (the wife too, obviously).
The husband was as involved as the wife in the relationship, but the physical side was more just her and I although he was either present or aware, always. It was great fun. When they broke up we stopped playing in that dynamic. I felt just as much of an ally to him as I was to her, so we never played 1-1. We three stayed in touch separately, I played with her and her partner, and he and his three or four partners after this. I think he was chasing the thrill and she wanted love. Eventually, she met a guy who wasn't in to it and we stopped playing and talking. The husband was devastated and he stayed in touch but he never got over her. Shame really!
This is the unfortunate consequence of jumping in to cuckold and swinging without laying down all the ground rules .
The bull must always know his place and it’s the couple comes first and foremost.
No cheating behind his back
Or if wife meets the bull alone the hubby should always be aware
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Yep, absolutely.
Although they didn't break up because of me or the lifestyle. |
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I actually think a lot of couples don’t understand the cuckold scenario , most couples actually think it’s about the bull fucking the hotwife in front of cuck , when it’s so much more than that and it’s a 3 way thing! |
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"I was, I suppose a bull, for a lovely couple a few years ago. I met them both dogging, and the husband and I hit it off immediately (the wife too, obviously).
The husband was as involved as the wife in the relationship, but the physical side was more just her and I although he was either present or aware, always. It was great fun. When they broke up we stopped playing in that dynamic. I felt just as much of an ally to him as I was to her, so we never played 1-1. We three stayed in touch separately, I played with her and her partner, and he and his three or four partners after this. I think he was chasing the thrill and she wanted love. Eventually, she met a guy who wasn't in to it and we stopped playing and talking. The husband was devastated and he stayed in touch but he never got over her. Shame really!
This is the unfortunate consequence of jumping in to cuckold and swinging without laying down all the ground rules .
The bull must always know his place and it’s the couple comes first and foremost.
No cheating behind his back
Or if wife meets the bull alone the hubby should always be aware
Yep, absolutely.
Although they didn't break up because of me or the lifestyle. "
No the two couples that I know who split up it was the hubby’s constant pushing the wife to find a bull , once they found the bull and seemed to get along with them, better than hubby hoped . He wanted them to stop but the wife enjoyed the extra attention and said it’s what hubby wanted
Led to strains in marriage and arguments which ended their marriage
I think there are a lot of couples on here where the primary instigator is the pushy hubby and reluctant wife
It’s a risky thing to do and who knows where it will lead |
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair !"
Agree...a good man is so hard to find |
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By *onybb1Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"We have been looking for someone to fuck my wife while I watch but finding someone suitable is quite difficult
I can believe you are having trouble finding anyone? I would have thought there would be a queue a mile long
We are probably to fussy
We have wrangled with this for some time, we came to the decision on here you cannot be too fussy, why would we compromise on our preferences on here, meeting by chance in person say at a club or party is slightly different as a major obstacle is already overcome, they're there so no calendars to align or doubts about if they'll actually show up."
For me the first initial part of an honest cuckold relationship is the turning up. You can talk on here and say all the things that are planned to be done, but actually turning up (either way) is the basis. I like the cuckold scenario and on those meets I have always discussed likes and dislikes that way all are on the same page. Don't look too far away I would be happy to chat. Take care |
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I have been lucky enough to be involved with a lovely couple in the past. However, I was always conceous that I was involved to help them out with their fantasies and not my own needs.
We all got on socially as well as in the bedroom and had a fun friendship. In the bedroom, hubby would watch, occasionally instruct, she would tell him how good it felt, she would tell him to listen from outside (which he loved!).
Still friends but don't meet as they moved to the coast but trying to sort a weekend at theirs!
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair !Agree...a good man is so hard to find"
But a hard one is good to find  |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
Very good thread this. I sure hope most, if not all, couples find suitable gents in their areas thanks to this post.
Bulls and couples alike embarking on this kink should listen to the keys and anklets podcast (find on twitter) as it goes some distance to understanding cuckolding. |
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By *roy9Man
over a year ago
London |
I have had a couple of cuckolding relationships where I was the bull, and they remain a special and privileged memory. I find that there is a wide variation in what coupes are looking for and in the early days its all about building trust and making sure that the connection between all 3 is good enough. It's also vitally important that there be good communication and for the couple and bull to be open and honest about exactly what they are all interested in, and how they like to play. For me the sign of a good bull is that he is open and can adapt to playing in different ways. Once a cuckolding relationship is established there is room for experiment, development and learning on all sides, if everyone is open enough. When it works, it is wonderfully satisfying, enormous fun and very erotic. |
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Even tho I prefer finding and watching other guys have fun with my wife ,it’s more hotwife situation, giving her a good fucking while I take pics or video and join in either during or after they finish , we don’t go for cuckold as we feel it degrades the husband .some bits of it sound good but we would both need to feel good about it before we tried it out |
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over a year ago
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Loved being the stag/cuck so far we have only had 1 bad experience but currently my wife has good bull. Never been a bull but would really like to try it so if there is any couples looking for someone in and around the north west would defintitly be up for it. |
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair !"
This |
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"I have had a couple of cuckolding relationships where I was the bull, and they remain a special and privileged memory. I find that there is a wide variation in what coupes are looking for and in the early days its all about building trust and making sure that the connection between all 3 is good enough. It's also vitally important that there be good communication and for the couple and bull to be open and honest about exactly what they are all interested in, and how they like to play. For me the sign of a good bull is that he is open and can adapt to playing in different ways. Once a cuckolding relationship is established there is room for experiment, development and learning on all sides, if everyone is open enough. When it works, it is wonderfully satisfying, enormous fun and very erotic."
That’s put really well and like you I’ve had a few relationships over the years - one of which has lasted many years - I believe there is such a wide range in this scene from more the Hotwife scene through to what I would call extreme cuckold and I’m not sure everyone understands all the different levels - But at the end of the day it’s about ALL 3 people being happy enjoying the situation and getting out of it what they want |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
" Bulls and couples alike embarking on this kink should listen to the keys and anklets podcast (find on twitter) as it goes some distance to understanding cuckolding."
We’ve found this podcast really useful in helping us realise exactly what we want. |
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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago
Camberley |
I'm very interested in the cuckolding and hotwife scenes, (yes I do know the difference! ) but am yet to be fortunate enough to find a willing couple.
Obviously, it's important to meet someone, and discuss what you want, and make sure the other parties are on board.
The problem is there are too many dreamers and fantasists out there. |
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"We kind of fall into this category and as others have said finding the right 3rd to fulfill this is not easy.
That's not to say there's a shortage of offers. If almost anyone would do then indeed there probably would be a queue, however we think that it's rarely the case in this scenario.
Ironically in our experience the majority of guys who actually understand the dynamics of this type of scenario are those looking for the 3rd.
Fortunately those that don't get it are also so easy to spot.
We live in hope though that one day....."
Having enjoyed being on both sides of this dynamic in the past I can understand why the best potential bulls are also likely to be those looking for a third. You need to truly enjoy the dynamics for it to work well! When it happens it's great.  |
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"Even tho I prefer finding and watching other guys have fun with my wife ,it’s more hotwife situation, giving her a good fucking while I take pics or video and join in either during or after they finish , we don’t go for cuckold as we feel it degrades the husband .some bits of it sound good but we would both need to feel good about it before we tried it out "
These posts are great and show a whole spectrum of desires and expectations, I think understanding that is so important in making sure it works for all parties.
My own position in the bull role lies a lot closer to the couple quoted above than a previous (much more local) couple who enjoy/need the humiliation and total domination. That is not me, I know could not provide the hard core experience they are looking for (I do love and find their stories very erotic but also disturbing) I am more for collaboration. The wife and I enjoying each other with the knowledge and non objection of the husband, whether they prefer to participate/watch/listen or hear about it. |
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over a year ago
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Pre Covid, hubbie would bring wife to Hotel for me to use and he would collect her in the morning. Sometimes I would go to their house and he wasn't allowed to come upstairs until she said he could - then he would either watch or join in; the lady would decide
Qwesome times that I miss ! |
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and find a ‘bull’ is always a problem.
Most guys think that fucking a wife in front of their husband makes them a bull, it does not !
Cuckolding involves a three way relationship where the needs of the Hotwife come first but the cucks involvement is very important otherwise it’s just an affair !"
This.
Such a proportion of guys have no idea what a bull is or the intricacies of that relationship, many just attach the tag to themselves in the hope it will get them laid.
Many fail to understand how sexy it is to integrate the wife’s husband and how that can be done to meet the husbands needs.
It’s like “oh I’ve got a big tick and I’m an alpha, I can be a bull”, sit down with your fragile ego and learn that a bulls primary skill is emotional intelligence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want to enjoy watching your wife enjoyed by a man who knows how to make sure you aren't left out message me.
I totally get the dynamic and love to make sure the cuckold knows myself and his wife are having fun while he enjoys watching and being involved in whatever capacity myself and his wife wish.
I'm willing to travel within reason for one off or a more regular arrangement though to full access relationship with the wife.
So few couples seem genuine though.
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Hello I agree if playing in cuckold meets all thread must be included and agree with the meet .I am a older bull and always invoke all party’s in a meet .I am always looking for meets and will answer all messages |
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I have had a few cuckold relationships. In my experience very cuckold relationship is different and you have to find the dynamic that works for them. Personally I am not really into explicitly humiliating hubby, it is more the fact that he knows his wife is enjoying herself with a different cock and she is getting something he can’t give her. |
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"I have had a few cuckold relationships. In my experience very cuckold relationship is different and you have to find the dynamic that works for them. Personally I am not really into explicitly humiliating hubby, it is more the fact that he knows his wife is enjoying herself with a different cock and she is getting something he can’t give her."
That’s one way of looking at cuckolding |
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