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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

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By * F 2018Couple over a year ago

shropshire

Open mind,no expectation ,and dont get disheartened .......have fun messaging until its safe to meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, read the FAQ's

Be polite and remsin respectful!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Patience is the key, Key.

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Remove your socks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

If you are going to message someone then read their profile twice .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be yourself, have a chuckle in the forums, always a good way to make new chums.

I would keep ypur willy pics in friends only . More men like willy pics and fab them than woman . Be subtle in your pics , tease rather than show everything.

Remember there are far more men to woman . Women recieve so many messages every day so be patient buddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't talk about wet sex after midnight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a think about who/what you want to attract, and then read through your profile, will it attract what you want?

Read the site rules, be respectful and then just join in on here. Good luck and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have a think about who/what you want to attract, and then read through your profile, will it attract what you want?

Read the site rules, be respectful and then just join in on here. Good luck and enjoy

Thank you, good advice. I’m also new here.

I’ve changed my profile at least 5 times as I’ve discovered more about the scene and particularly as I learn more about this site and the Forum. Manage your expectations and adapt them accordingly as you go.

Mostly, enjoy the Forum and site. Don’t treat it seriously. You’ve made a good start here by engaging people in your thread. As the lady has said, join in here. Be patient. I watched the Forum for a a month before I posted my first comment. Good luck and let the fun commence.....with a heavy dose of patience.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

Use fab as a tool for making connections not the be all and end all if that makes sense. Attend socials if you can and get yourself known for all the right reasons.

Keep your expectations low then you won't be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key, Key."

Yeh fella, tell me about it. I’m still waiting for you to read my mail.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Strap in tight its going to get bumpy,keep hands n feet inside the ride at all times, and scream if you wanna go faster

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whatever expectations you have, lower them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give up now before you become jaded and angry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

Use fab as a tool for making connections not the be all and end all if that makes sense. Attend socials if you can and get yourself known for all the right reasons.

Keep your expectations low then you won't be disappointed."

And also have a sense of humour. Wet bits make squelchy noises.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Give up now before you become jaded and angry"

Listen to this man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be yourself. Don't change to suit others as you will lose yourself along the way.

The harder you try to get a meet, the trickier it is. Just chill and see meets as a bonus, not a target.

Don't assume everyone is here for the same thing. They aren't.

Finally, if the frustration kicks in. Log off and have a wank.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Read the FAQs

Watch my videos

Leave me the fuck alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Run away and don’t look back

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

Look here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/getstarted

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple over a year ago

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

Always make sure you have an excellent well written profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Read profiles! See if your what that person/couple are looking for and be respectful x

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple over a year ago

"Read profiles! See if your what that person/couple are looking for and be respectful x"

Definitely this!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Expect nothing and be happy when you get nothing....this site is a marathon not a sprint....unless your me and your beating em off with a stick.........im joking x

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By *lan157Man over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Look at your profile and think about how it might be read. Think about the age range you state you are looking for as an example and ask yourself how it might be interpreted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

Know the feeling and thanks to you all for the advice

I have put comments up in the forum vefor but tonight is actualy the first day have sent a message .

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

There is no requirement for pics of Sky remotes or Lynx cans.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple over a year ago

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

Know the feeling and thanks to you all for the advice

I have put comments up in the forum vefor but tonight is actualy the first day have sent a message .

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend "

Same advice.

A well written informative profile.

Not just a few lazy words.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys!

Any advice for new people onto the scene?

Thanks

Know the feeling and thanks to you all for the advice

I have put comments up in the forum vefor but tonight is actualy the first day have sent a message .

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend

Same advice.

A well written informative profile.

Not just a few lazy words.

What they said. It shows that you are making an effort/serious about seeing what fab is about and not just someone that's had a few drinks, horny and created a profile lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Created it a good while ago and never knew what to say or how to start it off.

I would never get plastered and just message as thats not the right thing to do as i would not hold a conversation,just after so long just liking peoples pictures i plucked up the courage.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Reset your expectations so that they are realistic.

Assume others know what they want, so read profiles and heed their words - don't waste effort if you don't fit them.

Don't monitor your sent mails, just crack on and spread your efforts.

Most people are not attracted to most others, so the majority of people you contact will not result in a meeting for sex. That's just life, so fix your expectations, as above.

Go to clubs and socials

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By *jonesMan over a year ago

Plymouth

Dont focus your whole social life on here like some seem to, and get frustrated.

Go to an organised social as soon as possible, great way to meet folk in a relaxed environment and get some verifications.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be super polite

Read profile

Check your spelling