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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So i am looking for my first fab meet. Anyone in the same position?
Got use to the site now, will add more content soon.
Anyone in a similar position or anyone wanna throw out some tips?
Would be cool to have a decent thread going so spread your knowledge and also have some input if you are also looking for your first meet  x |
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A lot can happen between now and the arse end of June.
I think although people are starting to make plans, they're likely to be meeting up with family and friends they've not seen in well over a year before anything else. Plus going back to work is probably going to be exhausting for so many people.
Organised events or clubs may be your best option |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes im well interested in clubs and events. Never been, But 100% up for it. Think your spot on there!
Can we not officially start meeting next month? Im actual not totally sure |
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"Yes im well interested in clubs and events. Never been, But 100% up for it. Think your spot on there!
Can we not officially start meeting next month? Im actual not totally sure"
I wouldn't have thought so no.
I don't go back to work until mid May and I work in hospitality. I'm guessing we will still have social distancing in place etc. |
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Stage three (no earlier than 17 May):
People can meet in groups of up to 30 outdoors
Six people or two households can meet indoors
Pubs, restaurants and other hospitality venues can seat customers indoors
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Why June tho? Obviously people are still meeting now and certain things will open up in April if all goes well. Also more in May.
Don't think we have to wait till june?? |
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"Why June tho? Obviously people are still meeting now and certain things will open up in April if all goes well. Also more in May.
Don't think we have to wait till june??"
It's illegal to do so beforehand.
Just because some people have been breaking the law doesn't mean YOU shouldn't take the rules seriously.
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"Why June tho? Obviously people are still meeting now and certain things will open up in April if all goes well. Also more in May.
Don't think we have to wait till june??
It's illegal to do so beforehand.
Just because some people have been breaking the law doesn't mean YOU shouldn't take the rules seriously.
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And also, if lots of people don't bother waiting till then, guess what? Back to square fucking 1 again as far as covid goes.
Yes millions of people have had the vaccine. Not everyone that needs or wants it has had it and most have only had the first dose only so still need the second.
Imagine not sticking to the rules and carrying covid into your workplace the day you reopen. I'm sure they'd be proper fucking thrilled you'll have just ruined their reopening for them and let them and your workmates down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why June tho? Obviously people are still meeting now and certain things will open up in April if all goes well. Also more in May.
Don't think we have to wait till june??
It's illegal to do so beforehand.
Just because some people have been breaking the law doesn't mean YOU shouldn't take the rules seriously.
And also, if lots of people don't bother waiting till then, guess what? Back to square fucking 1 again as far as covid goes.
Yes millions of people have had the vaccine. Not everyone that needs or wants it has had it and most have only had the first dose only so still need the second.
Imagine not sticking to the rules and carrying covid into your workplace the day you reopen. I'm sure they'd be proper fucking thrilled you'll have just ruined their reopening for them and let them and your workmates down."
Valid points. Dunno how this site is gonna go for me but yeah, We shall see. Never know, could even catch covid at work... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Love how this turnt into a covid debate tho... First night on forums. I just wanted to explore aha.. But yeah. All input is appreciated.. I can see myself hooked on this shit |
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"Love how this turnt into a covid debate tho... First night on forums. I just wanted to explore aha.. But yeah. All input is appreciated.. I can see myself hooked on this shit"
I wouldn't call it a covid debate, you asked if you thought people would have to wait til June so I explained the law.
And the whole point is that by June, most of the country will be vaccinated by then (of course you'll have those that refuse so will be a threat) but providing everyone has been sticking to the rules you shouldn't theoretically catch it at work. |
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"Love how this turnt into a covid debate tho... First night on forums. I just wanted to explore aha.. But yeah. All input is appreciated.. I can see myself hooked on this shit"
It didn't actually turned into Covid debate, you were just reminded the rules that we all supposed to follow currently, in order to be able to go back to normal soon. Yes, it has been a long and lonely year for many, but there is now light in the tunnel. All is needed is just a tad more patience. |
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And answering your original question, OP (by the way, OP means the "original poster", the person who started the thread).
First Fab meet tips:
1) communicate! When arranging the meet (post Covid), make sure both you and the other person have same expectations.
2) if something looks too good to be true, it most likely is
3) there usually is no need to take the conversation away from Fab, unless you've arranged to meet (post-Covid) and you exchange phone numbers on the day in case of emergency. In my experience (from my previous profile), those who try to take the conversation away from Fab are usually either picture collectors, looking for money/gifts in exchange for a meet (which is against Fab rules) or just had no intention to meet in the first place, just wanted a wank fodder.
4) try not to be late for the arranged meet; make sure you know where you can park safely and legally
5) if you do realize you are going to be late, do try to let your meet know as soon as possible
6) make sure you're clean and smell nice, it is important for us, women. And you'd be surprised how many people don't find it obvious, to be clean and smell nice for a meet
7) have a friendly chat without making it sexual straight away; don't gawp at them as if you've never seen a woman before
8) if you meet in a cafe or pub, be prepared to at least buy 1 drink. And if your meet buys you a drink, it's rather customary to reciprocate
9) be honest, without necessarily being brutal about it, if you don't think there is any chemistry between you and your meet. Just because you managed to meet someone, does not mean you are going to have sex with them.
10) if the meet does proceed to sex, make sure you bring your own condoms, unless other arrangements have been made (like they do bareback or it's no penetration sex)
11) that one probably should have been one of the first ones: if you change your mind before meeting, tell them rather than ghosting or going unlos.
Last but not least- do enjoy the social side of swinging. It's not just about sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And answering your original question, OP (by the way, OP means the "original poster", the person who started the thread).
First Fab meet tips:
1) communicate! When arranging the meet (post Covid), make sure both you and the other person have same expectations.
2) if something looks too good to be true, it most likely is
3) there usually is no need to take the conversation away from Fab, unless you've arranged to meet (post-Covid) and you exchange phone numbers on the day in case of emergency. In my experience (from my previous profile), those who try to take the conversation away from Fab are usually either picture collectors, looking for money/gifts in exchange for a meet (which is against Fab rules) or just had no intention to meet in the first place, just wanted a wank fodder.
4) try not to be late for the arranged meet; make sure you know where you can park safely and legally
5) if you do realize you are going to be late, do try to let your meet know as soon as possible
6) make sure you're clean and smell nice, it is important for us, women. And you'd be surprised how many people don't find it obvious, to be clean and smell nice for a meet
7) have a friendly chat without making it sexual straight away; don't gawp at them as if you've never seen a woman before
8) if you meet in a cafe or pub, be prepared to at least buy 1 drink. And if your meet buys you a drink, it's rather customary to reciprocate
9) be honest, without necessarily being brutal about it, if you don't think there is any chemistry between you and your meet. Just because you managed to meet someone, does not mean you are going to have sex with them.
10) if the meet does proceed to sex, make sure you bring your own condoms, unless other arrangements have been made (like they do bareback or it's no penetration sex)
11) that one probably should have been one of the first ones: if you change your mind before meeting, tell them rather than ghosting or going unlos.
Last but not least- do enjoy the social side of swinging. It's not just about sex. "
Thanks for that and yeah the last little bit you put...i do want the social element. i actually diddn't realise this site was how it was, kinda thought it was a hook up site (been there done that) This is much better tho, stumbled into something pretty cool here!! Going to learn a lot i think x |
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"Why June tho? Obviously people are still meeting now and certain things will open up in April if all goes well. Also more in May.
Don't think we have to wait till june??"
Social distancing remains in place until the end of June at the earliest ... so unless you want a socially distanced social then meets are off until June. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why June tho? Obviously people are still meeting now and certain things will open up in April if all goes well. Also more in May.
Don't think we have to wait till june??
Social distancing remains in place until the end of June at the earliest ... so unless you want a socially distanced social then meets are off until June. "
it does say on may 17th that Six people or two households can meet indoors... Well no earlier than may 17th...JUst following what im reading. Wether or not i meet people from here, i still wanna go out with my friends. But yeah, at least some people are taking lockdown seriously |
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