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Why do most women not like bi men
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I guess that a lot of women don't get turned on by men who find other men attractive in the same way there are guys who find bi women a turn off , although admittedly that's incredibly rare , it's just personal preference , although I did see a post of a bi lady who stated she'd never play with a bi guy because she thought they'd fuck anything and were probably riddled with STI's which i thought was a little hypocritical and judgemental lol |
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I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy. |
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"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy. "
That for me too. I love bi guys. 2 hot masculine men enjoying each other is just as hot as 2 feminine women having fun. |
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over a year ago
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"I love bi guys. I'd love a bi partner to explore with.... the search continues  "
Yeah, I know a lady who's very similar although not bi herself. She just wants double the fun! |
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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago
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It all depends on the couples likes, not all woman like bi guys because it takes the attention away from them, others don’t like bi men because seeing two guys together do not turn them on. But you do have couples out there that they are both bi or bi curious that love to see their hubby or partner playing and sucking cock, I have been with st8 couples bi I have also been with bi and bi curious couples that enjoyed sharing my cock together |
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My experience is that it's a polarising view - Women either think it's a turn-off, or a total turn-on, with the majority in the latter group - very few are just neutral.
Like the OP, I only enjoy masturbation and oral with likeminded guys - no interest (or desire) for anal or kissing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stigma mostly that bi / gay men all have nurgles rot .
Then the mental aspect that man on man is not right , manly enough (ironic as gay sex is about manliness ) also pops in for some women I guess.
Another one which a few of my hetro female friends tell me is simply that some women feel threatened by it as in how would they know If the guy is really enjoying it with them or thinking of a guy at same time . Esteem / egos are interesting
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy.
That for me too. I love bi guys. 2 hot masculine men enjoying each other is just as hot as 2 feminine women having fun."
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over a year ago
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"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"
Well I suspect that the bi ladies you are contacting are properly on here looking for female rather than male partners. Could also be there are not interested in you and using the "bi" thing as an easy get out to save more longwinded reason for rejecting you. |
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"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"
I have had plenty of guys meet me and they ask that I don't leave a verification. When I asked why, the response has always been, 'nobody knows I am bi', or, 'women/couples wont meet me if they knew'. xx |
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"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy. "
I do not play dress up. A comment like that infuriates me.
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"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy.
I do not play dress up. A comment like that infuriates me. "
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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago
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So I guess I used to be anti bi men.....
- I had the notion that bi men run a higher risk of having STIs and specifically HIV. Which is based on fact of statistics - and still something I'm mindful of but so long as testing and safer sex is in place....
- Also.... it's depends on the situation for me. I want to be with a Dominant man as my life partner. Seeing him be fucked seems submissive to me (not saying it is but to me it seems it)...
- But would I have a bi Dominant partner and we have MMFs and he fucks the other .... yeah sure! |
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"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"
I have no objections to my man playing with other guys,
in fact, I find it a turn on.
Besides, as I like to play with ladies it would be very unfair of me to object. |
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Everyone has their turn ons, and turn offs. I have good luck with ladies/couples that enjoy a orally bi mmf every once in a while.. Obviously with the female being the centre of attention fo the evening with the odd dabble..
Choices, its great that we can choose.. |
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Men and Women have different feelings and that will always be the case. Most (not all) Women are turned off by Men playing with each other. Of the profiles that say they like it, mostly (not all) it will be a Man posting. Everyone likes what they like though, so live and let live. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm surprised to see as many genetic ladies appreciate this. Just where are you all hiding?
Now why should an item of clothing put you ladies off though.. it's just that an item of clothing even if it's a Basque and stockings there items of clothing, nothing more. |
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I had a bi partner for several years and his conduct put me off bi men in general. I know he isnt the norm and its not fair to judge others based on what he did but I cant help the fact that it has turned me off relationships with bi men....in a purely play context its less of an issue. |
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"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy. "
How you feel about pre-op transgender woman |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Whether a man is bi or not is pretty irrelevant to me, in fact it can sometimes be an advantage. Ultimately though it just comes down to whether I like/am interested in the person or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look for negativity,and you will find negativity.I have seen posts were straight men complaining that some women are only looking bi men
Instead of looking for what you don't match,why not concentrate on those you do match
You may be surprised by the outcome. |
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"Look for negativity,and you will find negativity.I have seen posts were straight men complaining that some women are only looking bi men
Instead of looking for what you don't match,why not concentrate on those you do match
You may be surprised by the outcome."
So true |
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"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy.
How you feel about pre-op transgender woman "
As pre-op means they still have male parts of the anatomy, they are not for me, sorry. But I'm sure there are plenty of others who'd be very interested. |
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I had my first Mmf tame one with just some oral. All I can say is it ruined straight men for me in a way. Was so sexy! Such a turn on. I've never had anything against bi men as I'm bisexual. Just never been with any until now. Definitely a game changer |
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"So I guess I used to be anti bi men.....
- I had the notion that bi men run a higher risk of having STIs and specifically HIV. Which is based on fact of statistics - and still something I'm mindful of but so long as testing and safer sex is in place....
I am the dominant one in our relationship and when at clubs I am the master . But as we are a partnership I also appreciate that the wife has a dominant streak and I encourage this . If on a night she wants to be in charge then fine . If she wants to use a strapon then fine it doesnt make me any less of a man but it gets her so turned on and I enjoy it too so why shouldn't she fuck my ass . As for bi play just becauce you play with a guy as the top or the bottom doesnt mean you have lost any of your masculinity. Well for us anyway
- Also.... it's depends on the situation for me. I want to be with a Dominant man as my life partner. Seeing him be fucked seems submissive to me (not saying it is but to me it seems it)...
- But would I have a bi Dominant partner and we have MMFs and he fucks the other .... yeah sure! "
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Also we have some bi parties and have to say having 25 bi couples round your house and single women wanting to come to to us means there are alot more women who like bi men than maybe you think
For us meets are bi all the way wife gets so turned on bi it all |
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"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"
Like with any thing it comes down to personal preference, I adore bi men x seek and you shall find my friend xx |
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