It's better to assume that it's really difficult for all single men generally here. And that joining during an epidemic is the worst possible time. People have other priorities.
Most single men asking for help get the biggest changes via using profiles to sell themselves, including having pics that give a clear perspective of how they look. Alternatively, they may be helped by being guided on what's realistic here. Other things include targeting and messaging appropriately. There are several themes like these that recur a lot.
You could read some of the many posts from guys struggling and the help they get given. Or consider what topics specifically could support you, then narrow your request for them. |
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I can't for the life of me understand why the "Cum and get sum" line on your profile hasn't worked, have you thought of putting it in capital letters so it stands out more ?
There's a guy on here who has similar problems in Walsall.
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"I can't for the life of me understand why the "Cum and get sum" line on your profile hasn't worked, have you thought of putting it in capital letters so it stands out more ?
There's a guy on here who has similar problems in Walsall.
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"Not many single females... Any idea for me?"
Just keep active on here; it’s not a quick fix fuck club. All but a very, VERY small number here will want to get a sense of who you are and what you’re like before they consider meeting you (post-lockdown, obviously).
Men looking to meet on here are ten-a-penny, I’m afraid....you’ll have to accept that. The way to stand out from the vast crowd is to make that personal connection with one or more people.
It can be done, but you’ll encounter many who aren’t your cup of tea and vice versa; you just have get past that and put the effort in consistently.  |
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"Could you try n hook me up? New to this. Not goin great to be fair pmsl  "
Hook you up? Women are not commodities to be traded among men. Do you do that with your mates? Treat women like disposable wet holes? |
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"I'm not a million miles from Birmingham and have had 0 interest! No doubt from the lack of photos but I can't risk it due to my work!? "
Unless you work as a male stripper I'm not sure how your work would recognise you if you don't include your face |
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"Not many single females... Any idea for me?"
What were your expectations when joining?
How do you think you can achieve those expectations?
What are/were your preconceived ideas about women on the site?
How many clubs have you been to?
How many organised socials have you been to?
If you're into kink, how many munches have you been to? |
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People need to realise when they join a sex site there will always be around about 90% men 5% women and another 5% of couples to try and get lucky with anyone on here good luck  |
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"I'm not a million miles from Birmingham and have had 0 interest! No doubt from the lack of photos but I can't risk it due to my work!?
Unless you work as a male stripper I'm not sure how your work would recognise you if you don't include your face "
SSH he's a professional wrestler. |
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"Very good point but after reading a lot of women's posts. They aren't interested unless its a face pic? Or am I mistaken? "
Are you into masked sex then?  |
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Wait until lockdown is over perhaps?
I'm just having fun on the forums and if I meet somebody I click with and can meet them after the apocalypse, then winner! |
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"It's the second city of our great nation. There's fuck loads of women in Birmingham plus like THE club  "
Birmingham only seemed to be populated by gay men whenever I’ve stayed there, at least from a Fab perspective. Even when I went to Chams with a female friend, the taxi driver was chatting ME up on the way back to our hotel! |
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"People need to realise when they join a sex site there will always be around about 90% men 5% women and another 5% of couples to try and get lucky with anyone on here good luck "
I’m sure couples make up far more than 5% in Fab |
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"People need to realise when they join a sex site there will always be around about 90% men 5% women and another 5% of couples to try and get lucky with anyone on here good luck "
And almost all of them, men, women and couples, are looking for single women... |
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