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Not easy to get verified as a single male
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had hoped that the clubs would be open by now but hey ho. And now with lockdown a social is out of the question...the chat rooms have loads of single guys in there so unless anyone has any ideas I'm kinda buggered so to speak. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
The way to look at it perhaps is that while we can't meet, being verified takes on even less significance, so maybe focus on building connections with people with a view to meeting when it is safe to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The way to look at it perhaps is that while we can't meet, being verified takes on even less significance, so maybe focus on building connections with people with a view to meeting when it is safe to."
I'd love to...shame so many take one look at the fact I have no verification and ignore me...don't get me wrong I'm definitely not in a rush or feeling impatient...more the frustration of being type cast because I'm not verified .
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"The way to look at it perhaps is that while we can't meet, being verified takes on even less significance, so maybe focus on building connections with people with a view to meeting when it is safe to.
I'd love to...shame so many take one look at the fact I have no verification and ignore me...don't get me wrong I'm definitely not in a rush or feeling impatient...more the frustration of being type cast because I'm not verified ."
Thing is while it's true that some won't meet/chat to unverified, there are those that will - it's also a bad time to be making connections as a lot of people aren't looking to meet right now, and so don't want to out time into making new connections if they're unlikely to be able to meet for some time.
My best advice to you would be find other approaches than blindly messaging people - maybe look at using the forums or chat rooms more, you may even get a webcam veri out of doing so, either way they're both a good way to get to know people and them to know you, and can spark conversations that may lead to something without the need for a veri - show publically you're a decent sortz and that may be the key kind of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the feeling , I send out polite messages only for them to be left unread for weeks on end so just cancel them & don’t contact them again , I understand that people get unindated with messages but I don’t get why they get left unread for weeks on end . |
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The only suggestion I have is try going into the chat room as you can get a first verification from there and some would happily do it. Also a bit optimistic thinking that clubs would be open when a vaccine hasn’t been fully rolled out. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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"I know the feeling , I send out polite messages only for them to be left unread for weeks on end so just cancel them & don’t contact them again , I understand that people get unindated with messages but I don’t get why they get left unread for weeks on end . "
Most probably because every day since you sent your message the recipient has had many more messages and just cannot keep up with the flow. If she answered with a rejection it brings another message thanking her for reading it or worse and that again swells her unread inbox. |
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I just went into the chat room for my local area (which wasn't very busy), said hello, had a little chat and then asked if anyone would mind verifying me.
Someone said yes, so I turned on my cam, had a little chat with them so they could see I was genuine, and I got my Veri.
You don't need to fancy the person, or them fancy you, and you don't need to get naked on cam or anything.
But since using the forums, I've got chatting to loads of lovely people and I'm sure most of them would have been happy to pop on a cam to verify me. |
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Agree go in your local chat room and join in ! can be a bit hard at 1st but 90% are friendly and willing to offer advice/help and met some truly brilliant people through the chat room and best of luck ... |
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