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over a year ago
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"You are on a single male account.
You are unverified.
You joined 1 month before a pandemic.
We exist, but we have preferences."
Oh ok that’s some feedback at least. Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists."
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion "
As Bluebell said, people will think she is a figment of your imagination |
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion "
And that discretion is seen as being dishonest about yourselves and your intentions.
I have a huge need for discretion but yet here I am with my face showing to try to show im genuine.
The advice youve been given is good advice OP so would be good for you to take it on board. |
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"You are on a single male account.
You are unverified.
You joined 1 month before a pandemic.
We exist, but we have preferences."
How dare you have preferences, you should have a stern word with yourself.
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion "
Sorry, but unless you actually have a couple profile, people are unlikely to believe you.
When meeting couples with my husband via our couple profile, we expect couples to not only have a couple profile but photos of them both, ideally together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion "
You could have a public pic of you together but with your heads cropped off. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion "
No reason you can't have a couples account without discretion.
Literally no one will believe you are a couple without a photo verified couples account.
Even then people will be cautious as so many single guys posing as couples on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion
And that discretion is seen as being dishonest about yourselves and your intentions.
I have a huge need for discretion but yet here I am with my face showing to try to show im genuine.
The advice youve been given is good advice OP so would be good for you to take it on board."
Definitely will try to get a pic where we can’t be recognised. Nothing dishonest just careful |
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists."
Any single account mentioning a partner wanting to be involved: no. |
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion
As Bluebell said, people will think she is a figment of your imagination"
There is discretion and then there is bollox - absolutely no reason why you can't have a discreet couples profile. We wouldn't trust you, and would assume your just a single guy pulling a fast one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion
And that discretion is seen as being dishonest about yourselves and your intentions.
I have a huge need for discretion but yet here I am with my face showing to try to show im genuine.
The advice youve been given is good advice OP so would be good for you to take it on board.
Definitely will try to get a pic where we can’t be recognised. Nothing dishonest just careful "
But you seem to have an issue with single women being careful funny that ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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For us, it's not only that it is a single male profile posing as a couple, but also the fact you're dishonest about smoking. In your bio, you say you are a non-smoker, yet in your profile text you mention you smoke socially. So you either smoke or you don't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for a girl to join me and my partner. 1. Do they exist? 2. If so Where are they? Why can’t we find one? "
Profile screams single guy trying it on. Unfortunately your explanation is even less believable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for a girl to join me and my partner. 1. Do they exist? 2. If so Where are they? Why can’t we find one?
Profile screams single guy trying it on. Unfortunately your explanation is even less believable."
In case that sounds harsh, I'd hope it's not the case. But from lots of experience, it easily could be. |
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
Tqhey aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
There’s a reason there’s no joint account. Discretion "
And there's a reason we won't answer... Male account |
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists."
She will be at work ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people are not meeting during the pandemic...
They aren’t even acknowledging our existence
Maybe because without a joint account they doubt whether "the she" exists.
She will be at work "
Or a childcare issue or family emergency will come up 5 minutes before the meet ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for a girl to join me and my partner. 1. Do they exist? 2. If so Where are they? Why can’t we find one? "
You don't have a partner, you are looking with your FB. |
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