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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi to all you fab swingers out there I'm new to all this so I thought I would just say hi and see if anyone could give me some good advise about getting some meets
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay here goes:-
The tiny miniscule paragraph about you is overshadowed by two warning notices both meaningless garbage so remove them and use the space to say more about you, what you are looking for i.e. age, size, distance, whether you are interested only in 1-1 or whether you are interested in couples, parties, social meetings at pubs or clubs. Use the forums as a way of getting yourself noticed, use the chat facility on here, if you are interested; you can get verified by cam still so that will help you.
The fact that you are 28 will put those off that have kids, for example my daughter is only 2 yrs younger than you so no way would I along with others that feel the same. However there are some that will so don't be put off by that.
You have only been on here 4 weeks, its not dial-a-shag and women don't automatically drop their knickers just because they are swingers. And most men wait months before meeting anyone.
The fact that you are married and cheating will put some off too but not all.
Read profiles before you send a message; not too short but not too long, nothing worse than having a message that is longer than the profile.
Some like winks, others don't.
Some don't mind random friendship requests, others do.
Do a search on the forums for profile advice, there has been loads over the couple of years that I have been here and take notice of what has been said, nothing worse than someone who asks for advice then ignores what people say.
And...  welcome to Fab and good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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welcome fellow fabster,as other fabsters have sed ,try clubs ,,but if no is mentioned that is in clubs ,partys or potential meets then ,no means no ,,,,gud luk ,,   |
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As you're married, this will put some off, as they may be concerned that you're cheating, and they'll not know what times you'll potentially get free.
I assume you can't accom usually, so perhaps add - on top of typical availability, and whether you're possibly going to get into trouble/have permission, where you could meet, eg. only Merseyside, or which other locations. Some travel with work, so you may be in that situation, and could play further afield.
Add in what experience you have, and what you have to offer - we know you like breasts, but what if a girl is a 'belly'* person, we'd not know if you could deliver the goods. Whilst it's good to know what kind of people you want, you're unlimately selling yourself in your profile, so make sure you stand out. * Or any other body part, attribute etc.
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