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"send me a private message, please "No one will message if there is no initial points of interest on your profile. It needs a lot more effort, and there is lots of great advice on the forums if you put some effort into searching. | |||
"Good afternoon all, I hope that everyone is well, just a quick post, I am looking for a little bit of advice. At the minute I am not getting any luck off this site can you all please check my profile out and see if I need to add anything. I have tried the general conversation messages and still got nowhere thanks" You’re all good and have good intentions. Fab is oversubscribed with guys, so cples and women get inundated with mail, meaning your chance of being scene is diminished I’m afraid | |||
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"Good afternoon all, I hope that everyone is well, just a quick post, I am looking for a little bit of advice. At the minute I am not getting any luck off this site can you all please check my profile out and see if I need to add anything. I have tried the general conversation messages and still got nowhere thanks You’re all good and have good intentions. Fab is oversubscribed with guys, so cples and women get inundated with mail, meaning your chance of being scene is diminished I’m afraid " I must be really ugly then or too direct on my profile because I don't get inundated with mail or maybe its my filters  | |||
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" I'd suggest checking out the profiles of guys on here who meet up more often. (Might want to do that in ninja mode so they don't all think you're interested?) Most who meet regularly have a well done profile. " Actually I notice quite the opposite, I do browse accounts of men who have met with women I am interested in and most of the time their profiles don't say much, and if there are pictures they're often of the kind that people claim to dislike ie mostly dickpics. So logically, either people are more into dick pics than they'll publically admit, or they've got extremely good message game. And if it's the latter it's very hard to learn from others techniques, as obviously message exchanges are private. TBH I would love an opportunity to see a few 'successful' message exchanges play out because even though I get some responses to my messages, rarely do I get the opportunity to convert to a meet. I think I must err too much on the side of cautiously polite or maybe I'm just dull, idk. | |||
"Good afternoon all, I hope that everyone is well, just a quick post, I am looking for a little bit of advice. At the minute I am not getting any luck off this site can you all please check my profile out and see if I need to add anything. I have tried the general conversation messages and still got nowhere thanks" There’s not a lot wrong with you profile. Your pictures are decent enough, but it might be worth putting some time in on exploring what you can achieve when you put some time in. Your profile text is what lets you down though. It’s far too generic unfortunately. It really needs to stand out a bit. Think about the kind of woman you want to appeal too, and think about what they might like to read. Put some thought and time in and it will really play dividends. | |||
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"Good pics and an okay bio but it doesn't really say anything about your personality. Treat it more like a dating site profile; most women aren't on here for quick fucks, they also want to make friends. Also are you really looking to meet 99 year olds? You'd be surprised at how much difference setting your age range makes as it shows you've put some basic effort in. Other than that though I'd probably reply if you messaged me "I used to have a more 'realistic' upper age limit and I copped a load of flack for it  also who I want to meet and who I am prepared to chat to are quite separate. Also how many 99 year olds are even on here and do they dry up the moment they turn 100?
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"Good pics and an okay bio but it doesn't really say anything about your personality. Treat it more like a dating site profile; most women aren't on here for quick fucks, they also want to make friends. Also are you really looking to meet 99 year olds? You'd be surprised at how much difference setting your age range makes as it shows you've put some basic effort in. Other than that though I'd probably reply if you messaged me I used to have a more 'realistic' upper age limit and I copped a load of flack for it also who I want to meet and who I am prepared to chat to are quite separate. Also how many 99 year olds are even on here and do they dry up the moment they turn 100?
"My thoughts on the matter are that if you haven’t changed your age limits you are either lazy, or a little bit desperate. Forget about 99, how about 80? Also at the other end, if you’re happy to meet someone who’s 18, (and you’re in your 40s for instance) then that is going to say something else about you, which may be unappealing to women closer to your age. | |||
Be yourself, quality swinging is better then quantity, Be an ocean not a puddle, as it be limitless and not shallow.
A lot of nit picking goes on, a lot of tick list checking aswell.
Your find your right vibe with someone at some point.
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" My thoughts on the matter are that if you haven’t changed your age limits you are either lazy, or a little bit desperate. Forget about 99, how about 80? Also at the other end, if you’re happy to meet someone who’s 18, (and you’re in your 40s for instance) then that is going to say something else about you, which may be unappealing to women closer to your age. " Like I said, I am open to messages and chat from pretty much anyone. The only reason I had to filter out single males is because they are very very persistent when it comes to hoping you're 'fab straight' but I welcome chat and conversation from anyone with something funny or interesting to contribute, plus if you get involed with various forum 'games' then you need to drop filters or you simply can't play them. Regardless, the whole thing is academic - since I started using the camera chatrooms, I just sit here with my webcam on, banter with everyone and people chat to me. So now my main reasons for not meeting are geographical distance and COVID considerations. | |||
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"Good pics and an okay bio but it doesn't really say anything about your personality. Treat it more like a dating site profile; most women aren't on here for quick fucks, they also want to make friends. Also are you really looking to meet 99 year olds? You'd be surprised at how much difference setting your age range makes as it shows you've put some basic effort in. Other than that though I'd probably reply if you messaged me I used to have a more 'realistic' upper age limit and I copped a load of flack for it also who I want to meet and who I am prepared to chat to are quite separate. Also how many 99 year olds are even on here and do they dry up the moment they turn 100?
My thoughts on the matter are that if you haven’t changed your age limits you are either lazy, or a little bit desperate. Forget about 99, how about 80? Also at the other end, if you’re happy to meet someone who’s 18, (and you’re in your 40s for instance) then that is going to say something else about you, which may be unappealing to women closer to your age. " | |||
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,,,,, (cringing the headmasters office corner l@@k,,
Let me have some input peeps, wart and all,, Brutally Honest,,
Thank you in advance,, (RIP Cheekyyumyum,, | |||
",, Soz was at work, here goes a sample of my message to couples,, To singles, I drop the,, both bit, READY 2b SHOCKED? Hiya sexy couple (name and female name ? A very warm Welkom to Fabster cheekyyumyum ! I'm a fun and easy going guy with a very good sense of humour who is very sexually open and respectful., kinks, if you have any particularly welkom and catered for! I sport a clean circumcised shaven cock and an even livelier tongue with a mind all of its own, Lol! I would love to chat to you and go on a journey of mutual pleasure. Plz check my profile, pics and verifications. Take care, anticipating a favourable reply , either way yes or no appreciated!. Thanks! Xx
,,,,, (cringing the headmasters office corner l@@k,,
Let me have some input peeps, wart and all,, Brutally Honest,,
Thank you in advance,, (RIP Cheekyyumyum,, "I assume you are taking the piss. You can't even spell welcome. | |||
",, Soz was at work, here goes a sample of my message to couples,, To singles, I drop the,, both bit, READY 2b SHOCKED? Hiya sexy couple (name and female name ? A very warm Welkom to Fabster cheekyyumyum ! I'm a fun and easy going guy with a very good sense of humour who is very sexually open and respectful., kinks, if you have any particularly welkom and catered for! I sport a clean circumcised shaven cock and an even livelier tongue with a mind all of its own, Lol! I would love to chat to you and go on a journey of mutual pleasure. Plz check my profile, pics and verifications. Take care, anticipating a favourable reply , either way yes or no appreciated!. Thanks! Xx
,,,,, (cringing the headmasters office corner l@@k,,
Let me have some input peeps, wart and all,, Brutally Honest,,
Thank you in advance,, (RIP Cheekyyumyum,, "I said the exact same to another single males message example the other day. A cut copy and paste message bomb of me, me, me, me, me and..... me. Much prefer those who have clearly read our profile, can highlight what they can specifically offer thats relevant to us and what about us interests them. Good luck with your method though OP KJ | |||
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but you might transform into a raging lusty n hornny person who would rip my clothes off and ravish me( orderly queue plz, lol)
Why not take the challenge and find out??, Please be gentle, I'm still a virginz,,, he he, told ya you'll love me!
L@@king for Females, MILFS, and naughty couples ( vanilla, tutti frutti or even kinky, mmm) , for mutually sexually satisfying shenanigans,,, he he.
Couples wanting to try DP, CNC, Anal, DVP,DAP, Cuckolding, Roleplay/ Fantasy play,Spanking or voyeurism, most welkom!
Happy owner of a playful medium sized cock, clean shaven below for a smooth glide,,,, I keep good hygiene standards and expect the same!
So get in touch and let's get on an Orgasmic Trip,,,
Simply, Simply, Luvvly , Be Seeyin' You soon!
Ta daa!! | |||
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"Thank you in advance,, (RIP Cheekyyumyum,, "Copy and paste nonsense that would be deleted now that I've stopped replying to all messages | |||
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