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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well thought I would give this a go.
Feel like I'm going to be chased out of the forums like an ogre by the villagers and their pitchforks because I am that man.....
That horrible bloke who is here cheating on his Mrs. But unlike the majority of guys on here.... I'll admit it!
So like a pantomime villain I can already hear the boos and hissing!
So I'm sorry to all the people who already hate me... But hopefully at least one of you will give me a chance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, kudos for being honest...but that's where the compliments end pal I'm afraid, you don't give any reasons as to why you're cheating (there really shouldn't be any valid reasons) if it ain't working for whatever purpose then man the fuck up and have the ol' conversation.....
Just don't show her this bit otherwise I foresee a swift kick in the nethers!
But I don't know your story other than you're a cheat...
Without an explanation, on here, you will most likely get vilified and possibly hung drawn and quartered...having said that, there will be some guys and ladies that are into that shiz so you never know?
Be a bit more specific in your profile as to why you're a cheat and who knows? You may find a scumbag on your level but I wouldn't hold your breath my mate
Still....you don't ask, you don't get!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's where I struggle with single men being called swingers, couples I can understand.. isn't it just cheating? "
Not if they're genuinely single, no....it's not cheating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's where I struggle with single men being called swingers, couples I can understand.. isn't it just cheating? "
If I am being honest. Yes.
I know most people on here wouldn't even consider messaging me for that reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's where I struggle with single men being called swingers, couples I can understand.. isn't it just cheating? "
Seeing as a lot of couples and single ladies say the are looking for single guys how are they not? Swinging if a lifestyle and it's not just for couples. Are single ladies not swingers then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's where I struggle with single men being called swingers, couples I can understand.. isn't it just cheating?
Not if they're genuinely single, no....it's not cheating "
To use a word that you yourself have used in your profile, cheating guys repulse us.
Why can't they just be honest? Simply because they will probably asked to leave.
Dishonest and selfish behaviour.
Hover it seems cheats see that behaviour as acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeeh... having been on the receiving end of cheating in every damn relationship I've been in, I'll have to be one of the boo hissers. I'll never understand the motive behind it, why not just be honest and tell the partner how you feel? It's soul destroying when you find out |
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You should get credit for being honest on your profile, it would be easier not to be. Because of that I won’t boo and hiss you. My marriage ended because my Wife cheated, couldn’t keep to her vows. So obviously I only have so much generosity to your plight.
It’s only fair you warn people on here and as you are, good luck in finding that person  |
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"You should get credit for being honest on your profile, it would be easier not to be. Because of that I won’t boo and hiss you. My marriage ended because my Wife cheated, couldn’t keep to her vows. So obviously I only have so much generosity to your plight.
It’s only fair you warn people on here and as you are, good luck in finding that person "
Rather than being honest on here, wouldn't it be better to be honest to his partner?? |
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"You should get credit for being honest on your profile, it would be easier not to be. Because of that I won’t boo and hiss you. My marriage ended because my Wife cheated, couldn’t keep to her vows. So obviously I only have so much generosity to your plight.
It’s only fair you warn people on here and as you are, good luck in finding that person
Rather than being honest on here, wouldn't it be better to be honest to his partner??"
Reread my reply, he could easily write a profile in which he hides the fact he has a partner. I’d prefer he be honest and tell others on here he has one.
I have been cheated on, so I have absolutely no time for anyone lying or cheating. I’d much prefer he gets off here goes to his partner and remain faithful or she finds out he’s cheating. But I don’t care about him I do care about others on here being dragged into someone else’s cheating relationships because that person wasn’t honest on here.
So please save your annoyance from me, who absolutely hates people who cheat and look at the real issues of cheaters who cheat and lie on here about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You should get credit for being honest on your profile, it would be easier not to be. Because of that I won’t boo and hiss you. My marriage ended because my Wife cheated, couldn’t keep to her vows. So obviously I only have so much generosity to your plight.
It’s only fair you warn people on here and as you are, good luck in finding that person
Rather than being honest on here, wouldn't it be better to be honest to his partner??
Reread my reply, he could easily write a profile in which he hides the fact he has a partner. I’d prefer he be honest and tell others on here he has one.
I have been cheated on, so I have absolutely no time for anyone lying or cheating. I’d much prefer he gets off here goes to his partner and remain faithful or she finds out he’s cheating. But I don’t care about him I do care about others on here being dragged into someone else’s cheating relationships because that person wasn’t honest on here.
So please save your annoyance from me, who absolutely hates people who cheat and look at the real issues of cheaters who cheat and lie on here about it. "
You have read us wrong. We are showing no annoyance to you and apologies if it seems that way.
Our annoyance is at cheaters who can be honest to strangers because they simply want free sex, but cannot be honest to their partners.
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"You should get credit for being honest on your profile, it would be easier not to be. Because of that I won’t boo and hiss you. My marriage ended because my Wife cheated, couldn’t keep to her vows. So obviously I only have so much generosity to your plight.
It’s only fair you warn people on here and as you are, good luck in finding that person
Rather than being honest on here, wouldn't it be better to be honest to his partner??
Reread my reply, he could easily write a profile in which he hides the fact he has a partner. I’d prefer he be honest and tell others on here he has one.
I have been cheated on, so I have absolutely no time for anyone lying or cheating. I’d much prefer he gets off here goes to his partner and remain faithful or she finds out he’s cheating. But I don’t care about him I do care about others on here being dragged into someone else’s cheating relationships because that person wasn’t honest on here.
So please save your annoyance from me, who absolutely hates people who cheat and look at the real issues of cheaters who cheat and lie on here about it.
You have read us wrong. We are showing no annoyance to you and apologies if it seems that way.
Our annoyance is at cheaters who can be honest to strangers because they simply want free sex, but cannot be honest to their partners.
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Yes I did get you wrong and I saw red.
Thanks for clearing it up and obviously your comment can be read differently and more towards the Op than me.
We both agree totally with the cheating and I also apologise for my rant.  |
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