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By *aecouple OP Couple
over a year ago
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Been on here for a while now and all we seem to come across is men pretending to be couples we have had a few good chats with some couples and felt like we had a good connection but then it seems to go no where and on the whole we haven't had much luck so any advice people could give to us we would be very grateful for |
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Erm.....
Very little wrong as such.
Emphasise on WHAT you want to experience, what you can offer others and what you can bring to a get together.
If you haven't already put face pics in friends or private for easy access.
And don't forget you've been in 3 months of countrywide lockdown and no one is meeting anyone anywhere.
It takes time, don't be too disheartened. Especially in tne situation we're all in. x
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"Thanks for your advice we appreciate it. Just un sure what we're doing wrong lol even when we chat to people it ends up leading now where "
For most people Fab can't lead anywhere at the moment due to the COVID-19 Pandemic and not wise to meet.
Hopefully this will get easier soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You say "ignore clothes in background of photos". If you think this is a problem, why not take some new photos ?"
I have to agree with this OP.
It may seem like a minor thing but messy backgrounds in pictures are really off putting.
Apart from that your profile is ok albeit a slightly nervous sounding one.
Just keep updating as you gain more confidence in what you are looking for and what you can offer.
Good luck
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"Been on here for a while now and all we seem to come across is men pretending to be couples we have had a few good chats with some couples and felt like we had a good connection but then it seems to go no where and on the whole we haven't had much luck so any advice people could give to us we would be very grateful for "
Your photos could do with some work. If you have to say, "ignore the clothes," just take new photos.
Also, your profile only mentions what you want (and not very detailed at that). What do you offer? |
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It's a lot to do with the lockdown. We're finding that we're getting plenty of interest but nothing can go anywhere as no-one is meeting and there's only so much "chat" can be done. We understand that we might only have one thing in common with someone (sex!) so long message conversations are often difficult, and if there are lots of them, time consuming.
We have more conversations drying up than before as before lockdown they'd have gone on to meeting much quicker.
Shame you're so far away from us
Bry (and Char) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have already thought about that just haven't got round to it yet "
Absolutely nothing wrong. As soon as the clubs re open get yourself to one. You'll have tons of interest. |
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Don’t move conversations to Kik until after you’ve met someone for a social, or at least have a social arranged.
As soon as you move to Kik you have no proof they are a time waster or a fake profile.
We generally find the people that want to move ‘off Fab’ early are time wasters. |
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Not always the case. We hate the message system on Fab - lack of folders, no notifications, etc. We like KIK as we have our own accounts so if we're chatting to someone as a couple then we have a three-way, if Char is chatting as a single then she has her own conversations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t move conversations to Kik until after you’ve met someone for a social, or at least have a social arranged.
As soon as you move to Kik you have no proof they are a time waster or a fake profile.
We generally find the people that want to move ‘off Fab’ early are time wasters. "
Makes me sad you both get any time wasters. Both of you are stunning |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Don’t move conversations to Kik until after you’ve met someone for a social, or at least have a social arranged.
As soon as you move to Kik you have no proof they are a time waster or a fake profile.
We generally find the people that want to move ‘off Fab’ early are time wasters. "
Precisely why I keep everything on fab and no longer move to other apps.  |
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"Thanks for your advice we appreciate it. Just un sure what we're doing wrong lol even when we chat to people it ends up leading now where "
You aren't doing anything wrong necessarily. It's just been a shitty time for people to meet and that has a knock-on effect with the messaging they are doing. You seem nice enough and come across as genuine. Keep looking for people you might click with and send them friendly messages. Some people organise group socials you might want to try when the world gets back to normal, and clubs will operate again some time.
Things should pick up for you. |
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